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Topic: Question for anyone willing--Venus in Gemini
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Empty_Set
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posted December 27, 2008 07:14 PM
I have a thing for cancers. Being a water sign this is a natural affinity but-The problem is that most of them have gemini venus and I don't understand what it wants. I have venus in taurus and I really can't stand the amount of attention my venus needs. These two just don't fit. I can be smart and witty or goofy and I am well educated, but venus in gemini is just not enough for me. I have a couple of planets in the 3rd house harshly aspecting my mercury and I love the wackiness of cancer with gemini but at some point the taurus just gets tired of the energy and superficiality. No offense. I think this goes with the love square love topic posted earlier. There is no lack of affection, just a pervading sense of needs not met. Maybe it is something else I am missing but I am curious, what does a gemini venus need/want from the person they love? My saturn in gemini probably doesn't help much come to think of it. IP: Logged |
Libralove09
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posted December 27, 2008 07:24 PM
well all the 19 year old cancers have venus in leo.try them. IP: Logged |
amowls
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posted December 27, 2008 07:30 PM
A lot of 19 year old Cancers have Venus in Cancer, too. But def stay away from the 20 year old Cancers, ALL of their Venuses are in Gemini.Anyway, that's my dilemma too. Guys with Venus in Aquarius or Sagittarius are always attracted to me but I have a Pisces Venus that definitely wants something else. IP: Logged |
afflictedvenus
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posted December 27, 2008 07:49 PM
but he/she(sorry) is in his thirties? venus in gemini wants communication,banter,lightness,it wants to be a bit silly at times,maybe the problem is actually your saturn cos that'll be like parenting the venus in gemini? IP: Logged |
Green Fairy
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posted December 27, 2008 08:32 PM
23 year-old female
Cancer sun/moon - Gemini Venus here
My Venus sign is not as silly and flirtatious/fickle as so many astrology "cookbooks" make hit to be.
I like people that are be funny, witty, like to have fun but at the right time and place. They can also be protective and understanding of my mood swings. The tricky part - I occasionally find myself in need of space BUT my loved ones have to be in close proximity. Just knowing they're close but not glued on me, makes me feel secure without being suffocated.
Furthermore, you might have to deal with lots of double standards here [with these particular Venus/Sun placements].IP: Logged |
Empty_Set
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posted December 27, 2008 10:38 PM
libralove-
I was 19 once...amowls-
I can relate. I am too old for twenty-somethings though. I love sag and aqua suns but I would probably be a pain for them in any capacity beyond friends. Afflicted venus-
I think it is the joviality I have a problem with. I have too much cap/taurus happening. Too much gravitas as a friend put it. It is unfortunate because I want to offload it more than I can. We were both born in the seventies and he (I'm a girl)has cap influences too, but his venus seems prominent to me. Green Fairy-
I understand the need for space because I have it too, my sun is in pisces. How do you feel around people with a lot of earth in their chart? How do you feel about those with strong saturn influences? Thanks to all for the responses so far. IP: Logged |
Dazzled
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posted December 28, 2008 02:20 AM
My friend is a Venus in Taurus and sometimes I get tired of how our conversations can get a little superficial sometimes.I'm a Cancer Sun and unaspected Venus Gemini. I love going deep (oops that didn't sound right) into people's souls. But actually I mostly carry out superficial conversations with most people, bantering and teasing. To those whom I'm not familiar with, I might even be considered flighty. You have to be worth the effort, the pain, the vulnerability to really get to the core of the Cancer Sun. But also keep us interested in you, you know? Not stuffy, not boring. Quote a little poetry, play a little jeopardy, engage in witty repartee... But shouldn't what you need emotionally be decided by the Moon? IP: Logged |
FistOfLegend
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posted December 28, 2008 08:39 AM
I find that people with Venus in Gemini are very charming.
Probably the most charming out of any placement. IP: Logged |
Green Fairy
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posted December 28, 2008 09:33 AM
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Green Fairy-
I understand the need for space because I have it too, my sun is in pisces. How do you feel around people with a lot of earth in their chart? How do you feel about those with strong saturn influences?
I can't escape Saturn all that easily, my DSC ruler is in Capricorn and I have my Moon/Ceres in the 10th H. My mom has a Cap Venus/ASC.
It's a complex [almost "bipolar"] feeling, There is restraint for sure, but some times, that can make me feel secure and comforted.
Your typical Gemini wouldn't be able to stand a situation like this, but the lunar infuence softens it a bit.
My Venus is also opposed by Uranus/in the 9th H., the water influence in my chart is a lot greater though.
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aguayaire
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posted December 28, 2008 12:24 PM
It's difficult for me to think of cancers as superficial, actually it seems everything can become a deep matter for us.I think gemini venus helps a cancer not to take things so seriously, (or to be seen as too serious) or be too clingy, but I don't feel it changes the cancerian essence. Also, maybe we hide behind the "superficiality" for self-protection, as somebody said before, in general cancers don't open up so easily. I once liked very much a capricorn venus, but I often felt like a child near him, even though I wasn't really behaving like one. I admire earthy people but they could be more flexible :-) cancer sun moon saturn mercury
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Empty_Set
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posted December 28, 2008 12:37 PM
Dazzled-
I think I am anything but superficial, I was wondering if this was the problem. I don't think I fall into stuffy either but I know I can be too serious. That is what I am curious about. I grew up with gemini suns and I am usually one of the few that can make them laugh, teasing and sarcasm come naturally. I was really just curious about a more specific experience of it from the gem side.
We are both cap moons btw. His cap on the desc as well.Fist- I really couldn't agree more. Lovable as all get out, really. I guess I just am not happy falling into stoic mode as I automatically seem to do. Maybe it is the gem saturn that is the problem. Green fairy-
Thank you so much for your responses, I think it sounds like you have similar placements. He has moon in cap and man, does it come out. It is bi-polar. It must be hard to find a way to satisfy such diverse needs.
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Empty_Set
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posted December 28, 2008 12:46 PM
Aguayaire- Thank you. I have not met a superficial cancer yet and yes, I think the air venus can become or seem like part of the defense system.This fellow has an intense cap moon but in the end, I know I am often more serious. Not much I can do about that I think. I might add that I have cap moon too, well aspected, in fact but still the air influence tends to irk me. Damn my groundedness! IP: Logged |
Geocosmic Valentine
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posted December 28, 2008 01:23 PM
I have Venus in Gemini. Intelligence and communication are of the utmost importance to me in relationship. Saturn sextiles my Venus so it can't be someone flighty or airhead-like, there's got to be wisdom. Brains are attractive.Geocosmic Valentine
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Libralove09
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posted December 28, 2008 01:54 PM
i don't like the combo of water and air, i think its dodgy combination.the combination ruins the style of water and air! as pointed out by your selfs, its a painful ballancing act. IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna
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posted December 28, 2008 02:15 PM
Cancer sun/virgo moon/Gemini venus here
I really don't believe venus indicates ones 'needs' (*Edit* I'm sorry, you did ask about what we 'want' and not 'need'  ),
I do like someone I can talk almost endlessly with, though sometimes comfortable silence is nice too (thats my virgo moon). You don't have to have an IQ of 150 but if I can't have a conversation with you; forget it. I just like to discuss things, and it can be almost anything under the sun from some awesome novel to Family Guy..LOL. And yes, I am a bit whacky once you get to know me and I have to be, in order that I don't take myself or life too seriously all the time-->> doing that can be very depressing. I tend to gravitate towards goofs for that reason (ala Shia LeBeouff back in the day). I am very attached to those I care about but at the same time, even if I'm in a relationship I still need to be an individual. I still need to have a seperate life, I can't merge mine with yours. Its kind of freaked me out whenever my scorpio venus friend has done that with each of her bfs...LOL. It has nothing to do with not wanting to commit but everything to do with not wanting to lose my identity (I've had to explain that to her over and over ROFL).
*disclaimer* me being silly or wanting my space does not equal me being completely fickle. If my attachment to you is strong enough, my loyalty is endless.
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