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Topic: Mars--How do you irratate others?
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leapinglemur14
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posted January 15, 2009 05:28 PM
  
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savanna20
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posted January 15, 2009 05:44 PM
Mars in Cappy in the 4th house.Irritate others by working too much and neglecting my home? IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
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posted January 15, 2009 10:47 PM
Mars in Scorpio in the 6th. If we disagree, and you're rather severe about it, I will annoy the hell out of you. Usually that means that it's an intellectual dispute and Scorpio/Virgo energy is always up for that kind of challenge. Scorpio is stubborn and determined, and since it's sextiled by my Moon in Virgo (which is conjunct Pluto) it's also emotionally and psychologically aware. If you're not severe, I don't generally have a strong response to disputes. Other ways I could be annoying: - Keeping my thoughts to myself
- Liking my stuff in the order I leave it in
- Seeming moody
- Changing the terms of my relationships with people (some people want to exploit my kindness/servitude. They believe a precedent has been set, and that they can take further advantage of me.) IP: Logged |
etherealenlightenment
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posted January 16, 2009 05:24 PM
leapinglemur, i do have many artistic interests/talents/skills... art therapy? that's interesting... ive never heard of that... could you please explain what you mean by that? i am an actress (struggling and very young), singer, do all kinds of dance including modern, ballet, and belly dancing, i write, i love photography... used to draw, paint, and sculpt quite a bit... i have just recently developed a very strong interest in yoga... the problem is that i find not many understand my "free-flowy" piscean nature... not many artistic jobs pay well and many tell me that i need to just get a regular job... problem is that if i do not have some sort of creative outlet, my body literally begins to rebel against it... i'm in a "regular" job at the moment and im trying to endure the personal dissatisfaction of it but i seem to be very prone to stress and am having anxiety attacks more and more frequently...i'm sometimes at odds w/ my bf about this, eventhough our mars trine, his is in scorpio, a much more aggressive and determined sign... IP: Logged |
aquaspryt69
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posted January 16, 2009 11:00 PM
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I seem to make people the mad the most by simply speaking my mind, especially when I don't mean to. I've lost count of the times I was sent to the office back when I was in school for asking questions out of curiosity that upset the teachers. But now that I think about it, that IS a Sag trait, isn't it? (Though it's also been mentioned that my Mercury in Scorpio, which inspires me to cut through the BS to get at the truth, and can put a barb on my tongue, also doesn't help with this.)
 Been there. One teacher even smacked me one time. Mercury in Scorpio quote:
Btw, I'm generally not inclined to "run away" from confrontation, though I've learned to choose my battles more wisely.
I'm stilllearning, though all my Scorpio placements seem to encourage me to battle rather than try to make peace. 1st house/Aries influence? Though with age I have mellowed considerably, plus I'm finally getting tired of confrontation. It's draining and I have better, more constructive things to do with my time and energy.
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But I figured if that happened a few times, it WOULD, so since then when I cut someone out like I did her, I just say I'm too busy or something rather than "I don't trust you to hold to your end of the bargain." But before that, and still in some cases, I'm pretty glib when it comes to things that upset me. But I'm glad to say I'm usually pretty calm about it, too, and typically deal with it as something to resolve peacefully and hopefully everyone's satisfaction rather than punish someone over (must be my sun & Venus in Libra)
This is where I've yet to learn tact, cuz I do come right out and tell them I don't trust them. Yeah, and that last sentence, forget that. I'm loud and get louder the more upset/excited I get and forget wanting to resolve it peacefully to everyone's satisfaction. Scorp sun & Venus; I'm usually out for a piece of them. IP: Logged |
leapinglemur14
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posted January 17, 2009 12:07 AM
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lechien
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posted January 17, 2009 01:12 AM
according to what leapinglemur14 posted on another thread, i irritate others with my recklessness (Mars in the 8th house), and mine's spiced up with the Leo energy too. I guess this is true... i don't really notice that i'm that outstandingly reckless, but people do mention that word every once in a while... IP: Logged |
Chryseis
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posted January 17, 2009 05:23 AM
yeah actually, Lechien, that made me think...what others say is prob a good indicator...something that comes to mind as a periodic statement from others(my Mars is in Leo in 7th)...
'I'm a tough nut to crack'
I don't get it tho. It has always confused me...what actually does that mean. I don't think it sounds very good, lol. What are they trying to crack? does 'nut' have any literal significance? haha
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etherealenlightenment
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posted January 17, 2009 11:11 AM
leapinglemur, no it's not mean... i understand what you're saying... yes i can't live without it... it is and always will be my passion... somehow i know that that's just what im supposed to do... and eventually that will be my main profession... but in the meantime i just need something to make money off of to support my acting... that wont take up 100% of my time, leaving no time for acting...What kind of acting do you do?i am considering getting a yoga certification... my yoga teacher said that it might not be a bad idea for me, since it cures my stress, makes me more tolerant of others, and helps me sleep... maybe i could do that part time... any advice on how to relate to my mars in scorpio? IP: Logged |
DepTaurus
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posted June 28, 2011 11:49 AM
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sand
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posted June 28, 2011 12:15 PM
mars in scorpio 1st house. i know what you absolutely hate then do it. on a more general note to people i don't really know i use a lot of sarcasm but i respect people that can detect it, like one of my teachers that would catch it and get mad. i had a teacher once that could never figure out why the whole class was laughing. he quit when i got elected class pressy ehehe! when i was even younger i would go after physical features or mimicry or i would draw an unflattering caricature on this podium the whole class could see except for the teacher coz he stood behind the big thing. ay kids are meanies! that was about a decade ago. i dunno now why anyone would want to irritate people LOL. i dunno why i was like that then either. someone has to irritate me first nowadays and i guess with all my fixed signs i'd rather cut them out of my life if possible. i dun like vulgar people but that's bout it. oh maybe pluto conj asc could have had some influence on my past behavior as a kid. hard to control. IP: Logged |
feitlebaum
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posted June 28, 2011 12:51 PM
Aries Mars, unaspected.People get mad at me when I make everything a challenge and I get competitive.  IP: Logged |
Taineberry
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posted June 28, 2011 03:46 PM
Mars in VirgoBy correcting their spelling! "Irritate" not "Irratate"  no, really ... by being inconsistent and rebellious. Mars conj Uranus. IP: Logged |
samsaoule
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posted June 28, 2011 04:53 PM
Mars conjunct Neptune (opposite Saturn) in Sagittarius in VI. I have strong ethics and a benevolent attitude towards people, but deep inside there are anger feelings due to deep frustrations. My mood changes easily and people can get irritated of what they feel of me.IP: Logged |
JoJo
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posted June 28, 2011 06:17 PM
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Originally posted by taurus/gemini cusp:
Mars in Scorpio, 4th house.I agree with mblover, I don't irritate, I devastate.
Mars in Scorpio in the 4th here as well. Truer words have never been spoken
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Ami Anne
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posted June 28, 2011 06:19 PM
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CosmicKarma360
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posted June 28, 2011 06:57 PM
Mars in Aries, 12th house Pisces. Seems like my poor Mars gets stomped on in that house, but it is Aries, so it will fight back.Mars squares MC. Bad news with bosses. Seems like no matter what I try, I will at least tick off one boss, who will then have it in for me. Usually by saying something off-the-cuff that they take MAJOR offence to. Mars sextiles Venus. Seems to be a lucky break here. I tend to get along better with men than women, and it seems like guys are real comfortable with my energy. Or something. Maybe they like the Mars/Aries aggression? Definitely like the feel of the Mars/Venus flow. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted June 28, 2011 07:03 PM
Mars/Neptune conj -- I irritate others by being evasive and quiet. That's my initial response to being annoyed/upset. I simply avoid.
When this has happened in the past some people have reacted worse than others. My ex with the Mars/Pluto opposition took it particularly badly. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted June 28, 2011 08:28 PM
Ohhh I have Mars in Leo... It also sq Neptune.. Im very good at ******* people off IP: Logged |
CancerRising
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posted June 28, 2011 09:13 PM
Mars in Capricorn conjunct Neptune, and opposes moon, mercury and venus. Also Mars in 7th house, I guess I annoy people with my need for aggression and competition in relationships?Just realized this is probably why all of my best friends and closest relatives all have Mars in Scorpio. They're aggressive, loyal and passionate but I feel right at home. IP: Logged |
Benedict Moon*
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posted June 29, 2011 01:53 PM
I irritate others when I turn everything into a p!ssing contest.
Signed,
Afflicted Aries Mars.
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Aya_and_baby
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posted June 29, 2011 02:14 PM
Hmmmmmm how do I annoy people? Good question... I can only say that pessimistic people annoy me. And other things as well, but I particularly don't like people who are too pessimistic in what they say.I can sometimes fear the worst as well though, like anyone I suppose, so it's a bit hypocritical of me to be so annoyed at people who express their fear of the worst. But anyway... What in me annoys people? I don't know. I keep asking questions and analyze people all the time. It annoys them because on one side it makes it hard for them to keep secrets from me and on the other, people just don't like to be analyzed. Not sure how that ties in with Mars in Capricorn or in 2nd house though. Not the two most analytical placements. Something else that I don't know if it annoys people in me, is that I can stay remarkably calm and positive under stress. But then again, that's because I often express my problems and let it all go with someone else, that kind of helps me to stay calm when actually facing the stress. I can imagine though that it annoys some people because there have been people on occasion who thought I simply didn't see the seriousness of my situation  ------------------
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Ami Anne
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posted June 29, 2011 02:18 PM
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Originally posted by Benedict Moon*:
I irritate others when I turn everything into a p!ssing contest.
Signed,
Afflicted Aries Mars.
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Ami Anne
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posted June 29, 2011 02:18 PM
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Originally posted by Benedict Moon*:
I irritate others when I turn everything into a p!ssing contest.
Signed,
Afflicted Aries Mars.
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Aya_and_baby
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posted June 29, 2011 02:22 PM
... Oh yeah, and the fact that I always seem to have what you could call "the luck of the Irish" (damned coincidental luck, that is) on my side... Slightly annoys people as well. Even my mother is still convinced I don't learn any lessons because I'm always lucky enough to get out of bad situations before they get dire
But I blame my Sagittarius placements for that 
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