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Topic: Mars--How do you irratate others?
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Josh Newflake Posts: 1 From: East Providence, RI, USA Registered: Jun 2011
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posted June 29, 2011 06:02 PM
i just did that not long ago, blew up on a doctor, my mars is also in aquarius quote: Originally posted by good girl: Mars shows how we make others mad. (As well as what makes us mad)My mars squares neptune, I will avoid an argument at all costs.But... when mars is in aquarius and I will suddenly errupt, and just as suddenly its over. Leaving sane people to wonder 'what just happened-is she psycho?' Also since neptune is in the 3rd, my aquarian mars tends to bounce around interupting people, as soon as I grasp an idea I don't want to finish it I am ready to go to the next thing. Hum, seems to bother other people...
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Benedict Moon* Knowflake Posts: 2791 From: Avendesora Registered: May 2009
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posted June 29, 2011 07:35 PM
Josh! Fellow Rhode Islander! Welcome to Lindaland!  IP: Logged |
Xiiro Moderator Posts: 1292 From: San Diego CA, USA Registered: Jun 2011
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posted June 29, 2011 07:41 PM
Mars in Leo 5th House here. I annoy people by being sensitive and defiant about being wrong. I also crave appreciation, but consider inclusion a form of appreciation (Sun in Sag 8th House in an exact Trine). The Sun is often a good tell about what is annoying about a Martian Leo.I don't jump into other people's business unless asked, and I keep any rare tantrums to myself. Unless someone has stepped on my Venus in Scorpio Tail (then I just plot their death). IP: Logged |
Benedict Moon* Knowflake Posts: 2791 From: Avendesora Registered: May 2009
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posted June 29, 2011 07:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dulce Luna: I have mars in aries in the 3rd house. I can have a short temper which shows up unexpectedly (square to uranus) and I've had an almost past bad habit of repressing my anger (square to saturn). I think its because its in my 3rd house that my most irritating trait manifests in the form of road rage. *hides* No, I don't obnoxiously honk my horn every five seconds but I do become very testy while driving.I also irritate people when I argue with them (3rd house thing too, me thinks). People think they can never win with me, and that I can be a real bish in an argument too.
L.O.L. Turns out I already answered this thread a long time ago. I still have road rage, btw.
I think there are alot of other ways I irritate people besides my Mars signs....think meticulousness (Virgo moon), sarcasm (Virgo Moon again), erratic moods (Cancer planets), laid back behavor (Mutable planets)...though this is particularly for heavily Cardinal and Fixed people. They seem to hate that about me. Thank God the majority of people at my work are mainly mutable. IP: Logged |
freebrainstorms Knowflake Posts: 667 From: Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 29, 2011 09:03 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dervish: I seem to make people the mad the most by simply speaking my mind, especially when I don't mean to .... I've lost count of the times I was sent to the office back when I was in school for asking questions out of curiosity that upset the teachers.
ahaha SO TRUE. I'm a Sag mars too. I used to turn it into a game, to see how long I could keep the teachers off topic, how far off subject I could get them, what interested them apart from their topic, how long it would take before somebody in my class would object, who would object, why they objected, etc. etc. I would always ask roundabout questions that I was somewhat interested in, that way so I could always go: "I'm sorry, *innocent wide-eyes* I was just curious..." I was never sent to the office though, I could usually charm my way out of it or they'd just end up rolling their eyes at me and get back on topic. I suppose I'm antagonistic as my Scorpio friend once called me, I just like the mental challenge. It's all an experiment to see how people will react, debating is awesome, but i don't always indefinitely believe the point of view i'm arguing but i believe it at that second. it's like dueling but with words - awesome. IP: Logged |
girl27 Knowflake Posts: 30 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 05, 2012 11:57 PM
My Mars in Pisces bothers people because I'm more empathetic than action orientated. IP: Logged |
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posted January 06, 2012 12:11 AM
Cap Mars trine Saturn in Virgo and square PlutoApparently I irritate others by being a bossy know-it-all. IP: Logged |
tautomer4314 Knowflake Posts: 659 From: Oregon Registered: Dec 2011
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posted January 06, 2012 12:45 AM
Mars in cancer for me. Most major aspect is mars opposing neptune exact. Also have mars opposing saturn 1deg orb. In general people seem to never get angry with me. I am very very good at keeping the peace and I put a TON of effort into making sure I do not get in trouble or anger people. Universally the thing that ****** the most people off with me is when I lack common sense, break something, or generally space-case and it results in something going wrong. ------------------ It's All Elemental ----- My Chart if relevant IP: Logged |
lilithpluto Knowflake Posts: 1421 From: pluto Registered: Dec 2011
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posted January 06, 2012 12:45 AM
Mars exact conjunct lilith conjunct pluto in libra in 1st house I make ppl uncomfortable when i talk - too direct n out of nowhere comments that sting.  IP: Logged |
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posted January 06, 2012 12:47 AM
quote: Originally posted by lilithpluto: Mars exact conjunct lilith conjunct pluto. I make ppl uncomfortable when i talk - too direct n out of nowhere comments that sting. 
Hey I pointed this out about you when u asked for an interpretation and you totally denied it. Wtf.IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 8748 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 06, 2012 01:32 AM
Mars in the 3rd, people hate how I drive. All I want is to be the only one on the road. I hated driving/other drivers/traffic/radio/speed limits/rules of the road/car maintenance/car salespeople/car prices/cops/pedestrians/dmv/gas prices/gas stations from the 1st time I got behind the wheel and it's stayed that way. But when I'm the pedestrian, I hate the drivers  V.happy to let someone else take the wheel. Relieved.IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 4817 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 06, 2012 02:13 AM
Me? Irritate others?  Mars in Pisces: * Even if I'm the one to wake up the earliest, I'm usually the last one ready to go, and people keep rushing me. I hate being rushed. * I cry easily, and can have a "poor me" attitude. the depressive traits get on my own nerves, too. I whine a lot, and spend a lot of time in the bath or under the shower water, trying to relax, or just because I enjoy it. I used to take my budgie in there, to let him out of his cage for a while, and give him access to the large mirror, where he could sing, dance and talk with his buddy in the mirror. I'd sing with him, too, and after a while, have my sister banging on the door to let someone else in there. * I can be very messy. I'm more messy than I used to be - I used to clean everything up once a week, work in the kitchen more ofte and clean up behind me, do the dishes every day, etc. there's more, I'm sure of it. I'm too noisy for one family member, even when I really try not to be. I leave lights on. I run a hairdryer a lot, to relax me, too (for warmth and some sort of noise to block other things out). IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 4817 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 06, 2012 02:16 AM
I'm as skittish with visitors, as my cats used to be, too. Very sensitive about people being in my home. I grew up with people always there; this happened after I became agoraphobic/socially anxious, and then had a lot of time to myself at home, with only family members or pets around.4th house Mars. I'm too self-conscious. one girl saw my notes about my artwork, years ago, and asked me if I liked anything I'd done. I've practically apologized for my very existence, when I'm usually a nice person. that makes me sad. I'm not a pushover, though. that tends to annoy people. IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 3671 From: Bay Area, CA Registered: May 2009
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posted January 06, 2012 02:23 AM
quote: Originally posted by teasel: Me? Irritate others?  Mars in Pisces: * Even if I'm the one to wake up the earliest, I'm usually the last one ready to go, and people keep rushing me. I hate being rushed.
That is SO Mars in Taurus. I hate being rushed too. If I am being rushed, I deliberately slow down lol.
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teasel Knowflake Posts: 4817 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 06, 2012 02:29 AM
quote: Originally posted by MyVirgoMask:
I think my Saturn in Cancer is more annoying though. I whine incessantly to myself or whoever's listening when I'm not feeling emotionally secure.
You do? I would never have pictured that. My Saturn is in Cancer, too - it's ten degrees away from my Mars, so out of orb for a trine, which is a shame. It squares my Mercury and asc ruler, too. I whine a lot when I'm insecure, or when I really want something. (how embarrassing, but it is true, unfortunately. I prefer to whine in my journal, but my family hears it a lot.) IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 3671 From: Bay Area, CA Registered: May 2009
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posted January 06, 2012 02:46 AM
Yes, Taurus Mars is very fixed and we can be notoriously lazy esp if we are in relaxing mode. Intruding on our Venusian indulgent time is never appreciated.And yes, it's funny, I was going to say the rest sounds very Saturn in Cancer because I have that too and do that >_< LOL Also Cancer is my sun/moon midpoint and Saturn conj it exactly. So yes, I whine a lot when I am upset and want something. Either I rant and rave or just whine and cry lol. But I think it's totally ok, it took me years to be ok with my whining and make peace with it. Whining is just slightly distorted self-love, it's needing compassion, nothing wrong with that IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero Moderator Posts: 4367 From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop Registered: Sep 2011
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posted January 06, 2012 04:01 AM
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Desiring Shadows Moderator Posts: 1655 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 06, 2012 05:16 AM
MARS IN SCORPIO - 6TH HOUSEBeing a Libra, I'm not much of a fighter or an outwardly passionate person. More of thoughts and perspectives. I don't like to get angry. I avoid it. Mars in Scorpio - 6th When I'm annoyed, I nag. I'm very meticulous about certain things. If I want something done, it will be all I think about. I will think about ways to perfect it. I will ask you the same question 10 different ways until I get the answer I want from you. When I am angry, which never happens, its very rare, I will stop what I am doing, make sure I have your attention, staring at you with my eyes wide, eyebrows down, face held, I will scream at the top of my lungs pointing at you. "DO YOU REALIZE WHAT YOU HAVE DONE? YOU ARE A STUPID ***********. YOU NEED TO ASK ME NEXT TIME." If I care about you, I will blow the lid off and tell you my needs so this doesn't happen again. IF I don't, then I will just think that you are a stupid ******* idiot and never speak to you again. Oh, and I'll let everyone else know. Sometimes... When I am slightly aggatated but I don't want to waste my energy explaining myself (I am a lazy Libra. lol)I will simply state my opinion then hope the other person will adjust the situation to a way that doesn't upset me. If they continue their ways, I will cry. I'm passionate in my own way. lol
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pandacake Knowflake Posts: 321 From: Europe Registered: May 2011
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posted January 06, 2012 06:07 AM
Mars in Virgo in 11th house. Mars square Uranus.I'm not sure how this translates in everyday life or in the way I bug people. I don't think I have Virgo traits, I'm not a perfectionist either. If I irritate people I think it's my Moon sign that acts up. So I often have to isolate myself if I need to work things out because I can't think straight if I'm emotionally intense. And when I do show up again, others can find me very cold or aloof. I also like to put myself through small electric currents because it calms me down and I often ask people whether I can "zap" them with small electric currents to see what happens, I guess in a way that's also bugging people.  IP: Logged |
anongrl10 Knowflake Posts: 4557 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted January 06, 2012 06:13 AM
Mars in Aqua here (with a fixed t-sq in my chart). I guess I annoy people because I simply march to the beat of my own drum. I am very considerate of other people's feelings and needs BUT you can't -just can't- boss me around. Try it and you will end up voluntarily pulling all your hair one by one...
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lilithpluto Knowflake Posts: 1421 From: pluto Registered: Dec 2011
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posted January 06, 2012 06:16 AM
quote: Originally posted by Capriquarius: Hey I pointed this out about you when u asked for an interpretation and you totally denied it. Wtf.
Really? I did? I dun think so... Hmmm... Which post was that? Serious.. I dun think I deny... I dun remember. 
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