posted December 31, 2008 02:01 PM           

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can any one help me with the synastry of these two charts....please?

its really fustrating as i can sense that she feels the same but she is going really cold. we are not going out as we have only just met each other and its starting to get uncomfortable!

the sexual tension is unbearable, even to the fact that i have to stop myself from pinning her up against the wall!!...... aaaarrrhhhh!!!

anyway, do u think this is mutual and that she feels the same or am i just being a plank?

are we compatible in the long or is this just a crush?

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posted December 31, 2008 02:59 PM         

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Your Venus is opposed to her Mars: unbearable sexual tension is going to be par for the course with this one. Also, the "can't live with you, can't live without you" dynamic is another side effect of this aspect. It doesn't help that her Sun and your Moon are conjunct as well, since there is a definite understanding between you and her. However, because it's your Moon and her Sun, it is very likely that you feel like you are playing second-fiddle to her a lot of the time.

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posted December 31, 2008 03:10 PM           

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thats interesting! thanks for that.

so how does this moon/sun conjuction manifest itself? am i the one doing the running around?

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posted December 31, 2008 03:17 PM         

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Her sun is conjunct your moon=excellent for long term.

Her mars opposite your venus= classic case of attraction.

Her venus/saturn/jupiter square your Asc/neptune/jupiter= not great for clarity but helps with attraction.

Overall there's enough to start and keep a relationship, of course that doesn't mean it's perfect, some problems..

You aren't showing the degrees of the planets so it is a bit hard to tell but it looks as if your saturn/mars conjuction is conjunct her uranus/Asc conj. I think this may turn out to be the biggest problem of the chart (without spending time to really dig through everything).
This would bring the excitement that you feel in the relationship. Problem is that aside from attraction this will in general mean that you dampen her originality or will want to curtail her freedom.
What happens is that saturn (you) finds uranus (her) exciting because she is able to express the things you fear, or are cautious expressing. While initially this is exciting it is a bit threatening to saturn (you) and the conquering that takes place sexually is masking a rendering impotent the threat that saturn feels from uranus. In the long run the thing that excites you also threatens your sense of security and in order to deal, you become what she will experience as a wet blanket.

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posted December 31, 2008 03:17 PM         

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I was going to ask you about the running around! Do you feel as though you are the woman in the relationship and she's the man? This happens a lot when it's the man's Moon and the woman's Sun: you're the one doing the work and she's the one in control (at least in my personal experience).

The thing that I would add also is that, while the Sun/Moon conjunction is a very good indicator of a long term relationship, it works at its best when it's the man's Sun and the woman's Moon, unless you are a very effeminate male, which in that case it really doesn't matter.

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posted December 31, 2008 03:29 PM           

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goodgirl....id hate to restrict anyone or be a wet blanket!! thanks though, very insightful.

PP...we are not in are not in a relationship at the moment so i dont feel any running around but i do feel that she is trying to manipulate me sum what.

cheers guys

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posted December 31, 2008 05:27 PM           

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What if it's a double whammy Sun/Moon?

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posted December 31, 2008 05:55 PM         

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I think that a double whammy Sun/Moon conjunction helps to balance out the energy and effectively neutralize it as both energies are flowing to both sides of the relationship.

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posted December 31, 2008 07:42 PM           

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If I never feel you in my arms again....
If I never feel your tender kiss again.....

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posted December 31, 2008 09:53 PM           

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the man's Moon and the woman's Sun: you're the one doing the work and she's the one in control

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The Sun may be "in control". However the Sun is likewise "doing the work", if we go by traditional interpretations of masculine/feminine, which you seem to be doing.
Traditionally:
Masculine planets - (Sun/Mars) pursue.
Feminine planets - (Moon/Venus) attract or seduce.

In that case the Moon person would be supportive of the Sun and welcoming to whatever the Sun initiates.

If a role-reversal occurs, then by classical definition - he wouldn't be doing any work *at all*. Because in the same vein, his Venus would seduce her and her Mars would be doing the pursuing.

But this doesn't sound like a classic scenario (yet!). Perhaps she will get around to pursuing eventually. The problematic factor is her Mars in its fall. A Cancer Mars would behave in a feminine manner even whilst pursuing, so it could get confusing.

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posted December 31, 2008 09:58 PM           

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You may have meant "emotional work". I wasn't sure. I agree that the Moon does a lot of the emotional work in the relationship, once a relationship is established.

However in the initial stages, it is almost always the masculine planet doing the pursuing or "the work" to initiate dating or something more serious.

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