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From: Mercury
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posted January 01, 2009 04:16 PM         

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I have someone's Venus trine my Moon 1*. We have been together a long time and the relationship has been mostly disharmonious and is subsequently nearing it's end. One thing I have noticed though is the effect of our Venus trine Moon.

Venus in good aspect to the Moon can be a powerful and wonderful aspect. However, if the rest of the synastry is mostly hard and disharmonious, then in my experience, a good Venus Moon contact will have you living in fantasy land thinking things will always get better. In my relationship, this contact has been very Neptunian in making me idealize the few good moments we had.

Her Venus is in Aqua and my Moon is in Libra. I believe this aspect plus my Asc conjunct her Moon (in Virgo) have played a large astrological reason in the reason we are still together.

What do you guys think about this theory?

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Virgo Asc 6˚& Mars 0˚
Gemini Sun 24˚
Libra Moon 14˚(conjunct Pluto 0˚ in 2nd house)
Gemini Mercury 25˚
Cancer Venus 29˚
And yes, i'm a guy!

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posted January 01, 2009 05:20 PM         

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You're right about this.
I've had my Aries Moon conj someone's Venus and it felt very sweet. I've also had my own Venus conj another's Moon. Sweetness, for sure. But that aspect alone, I feel, can't really make a relationship. I think it's good for a level of admiration and bonding on a special level. It's like icing to me.

In addition to the Venus conjunct Moon, I also had their Moon conj my ascendant. That made me feel bound - even when the rest of the relationship was, as you, say, not so great. It was downright impossible. But I have found Moon conj. the ascendant to be more of a strong force than with Venus. You're on the same wavelength, synchronized. It's great. If the rest of the synastry sucks though, then it's like being tied to someone against your own choice almost. At least that's what it felt like to me!

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posted January 01, 2009 05:26 PM         

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I forgot to mention that it is also really important to consider how important the Moon and Venus are in your own chart. Depending on how prominent both those planets are to the more intimate houses, then aspects to the Moon and Venus can play a bigger role when 'activated'.

Your Venus is in Cancer, which is ruled by the moon. So a good aspect to your own Libra Moon (which is in turn ruled by Venus) would be binding. Regardless of how badly the relationship is going, she must resonate with your ideals of the feminine on some level, I would think.

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posted January 01, 2009 05:38 PM         

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You're right MVM. In the VERY beginning, she did resonate with me, something which I idealized waaaaaaay too much. We are now on two different wavelenghts.

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Virgo Asc 6˚& Mars 0˚
Gemini Sun 24˚
Libra Moon 14˚(conjunct Pluto 0˚ in 2nd house)
Gemini Mercury 25˚
Cancer Venus 29˚
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posted January 01, 2009 07:49 PM         

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my venus is in cancer and i tend to have a lot of troubled aspects to it. the really good ones that i always seem to find is a conjunction, trine and sextile to pluto.

however my moon (which rules cancer) is in virgo and i seem to find better connections to my mercury, (which is also in virgo), or moon/mercury.

for me i've found that a hard aspect to saturn and pluto usually kills the relationship. like sun/saturn, venus/saturn and esp mars/pluto.

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