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writesomething
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posted January 04, 2009 07:34 PM           Edit/Delete Message
I want to know some aspects from synastry/composite of people with experience with this question. No guesses but from actual first hand experience or knowledge.

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MyVirgoMask
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posted January 04, 2009 07:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
It's probably different for everyone, but my synastry with my ex had:
His sun conjunct my Midheaven, his Venus conjunct my North Node.
Also, his 7th house cusp was in Virgo, which is where my Sun landed. He had Pluto in there, which is my 7th house cusp.
My 7th house cusp is in Scorpio, with Neptune in there - which echoed his Pieces rising.
Also, both of our 7th house rulers had a lot of aspects to one another's charts: My Pluto was heavily aspected with him, and his Mercury was heavily aspected with me. I have found that when 7th house rulers have a lot of aspects (especially strong ones to the other's personal planets), it makes people somehow more likely to want a form of commitment. Just from my own experience it's felt that way.
And I hate to say it, but some Saturn stuff figures in. In our synastry, his Saturn squared my Sun. My Saturn opposed his Venus. Bound. Whether or not you like it. LOL.

Interestingly, our composite was very smooth and nice (barely a reflection of the marriage itself really). But just about all of our planets fell into the 7th and 8th house. I don't feel that's a sole indication though, because I've seen a lot of marriages with planets clustering in other houses. However, one theory I've read (I think it was in Cafeastrology?) seems to hold somewhat true so far: If it's a significant involvement, most likely planets do tend to cluster together in only 2-3 houses at most - if the planets in the composite are scattered and all over the place, then the relationship itself is a bit scattered perhaps, and maybe doesn't know where it 'stands'.

I've heard a lot about Sun conjunct Moon as indicative of marriage, but I've had that and it didn't become marriage. Marriage was discussed, yes, but I don't like my Moon conjunct someone's Sun. Feels stifling to me. That's just me though. I think it can bind people, and the closer the conjunction, the higher the odds of feeling bound in some way to the other.

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Lara
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posted January 04, 2009 07:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
okay, my synastry with my nutter ex husband looks like this:

his sun/NN/saturn conjunct my AC/moon/venus/NN/saturn
(ALL his planets listed were in my 12th house!)
my sun/mercury conjunct his DC
my mars in his 7th house grrrr not nice
his AC in my 7th
his neptune in my 7th

COMPOSITE
considering we fought all the time we have a huge stellium in 3rd H of:
sun/mercury/venus/saturn/NN
mars in 4th - OUCH!
moon in 6th - yeah, l felt like l was his slave.
jupiter in 7th
rest of the planets scattered all over the place!


I just peeked at my synastry/composite with my present bf cos it feels like we are destined and:
his NN conjunct my AC/moon/venus/saturn/NN
his venus conjunct my MC
his MC conjunct my DC
my DC in his 11th
his moon/mercury in my 11th
my sun/moon/venus/saturn/NN/AC in his 5th
his jupiter in my 5th
nothing in each other's 7th is that bad?
my AC in his 8th

COMPOSITE
venus & sun/moon conjunct in 1st
chiron/mercury/saturn/mas/NN in 2nd
jupiter/pluto/uranus in 7th
neptune in 9th conjunct MC

so yeah, l agree with the cluster effect.

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good girl
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posted January 04, 2009 08:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for good girl     Edit/Delete Message
My moon sextiles my husband sun. (sun/moon connections are one indication of marriage possibility)His sun is also the ruler of his asc.

My venus/mars conj in his 7th (venus conj his desc) (usually there is a connection between the desc of one to chart of other)

My sun opposite his mars/jupiter conj (yup we fight)

His sun/moon coj. sextiles my jupiter (lots of joking around)

His venus opposite my venus/mars conj--this opposition falls over his asc/desc line.


Those are the most important one we have.

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scrappydog
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posted January 04, 2009 11:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for scrappydog     Edit/Delete Message
No one aspect really indicates marriage, look to the 7th houses. Especially planets closely conjuncting the 7th cusp (desc.)in the synastry chart, or several planets in 7th in composite.

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CrabbyFish
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posted January 04, 2009 11:44 PM           Edit/Delete Message
My Marraige (which is no more)

I want to first share a couple things I have come across.

"The prime significators of the wife in a man's chart are Venus and the Moon. In a woman's chart, the prime significators of the husband are the Sun and Mars. The sign and house placement of these planets in the nativity, as well as placements of and aspects to the rulers of the 5th and 7th houses, indicate the type of mate the native is likely to attract or be attracted to."

" In my observation, the most powerful cross-aspects in love relationships are the man's Moon or Venus conjunct or oppose the woman's Sun, Mars, ascendant or ruler of the ascendant; and correspondingly, the woman's Sun or Mars oppose or conjunct the man's Moon, Venus, ascendant or ruler of the ascendant. "
By Jaquie Smith

His Sun and Mars TRINE my Ascendant
My Moon and Venus TRINE his Ascendant

My Merc conjct. Mars is Conjunct w/ his MC (10th house cusp/angle)

My NN sits almost exactly on his IC. (4th house cusp.angle)

My Moon conjuncts exactly his NN in his 5th house. ( we had children together, also I have been instrumental in his musical/entertainment career/hobby)

My Mars SEXTILE his Venus (Mars is ruler of my asdnt, Venus is ruler of his asdnt)

He has one aspect from his Saturn to me only..and that is trining Pluto.

Apparently, I have/had the majority of lessons to teach. My Saturn squares his Moon and Mercury. My Saturn Trines his Venus and Uranus.

The ruler of his desendant his Venus (Taurus)or Mars (Aries)(its a close call..technically mars..but almost into venus) the ruler of My desendant is Venus (Libra)

Either way...Mars and Venus SEXTILE eachother in our charts and Venus and Venus TRINE eachother widley (over 8 degrees)

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venusdeindia
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posted January 05, 2009 12:56 AM           Edit/Delete Message
Some say the novile chart is a strong indicator.

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Love
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posted January 05, 2009 06:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Love     Edit/Delete Message
I've never been clear on how to read any of the harmonic charts, but I've read the same thing many times as well.

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CrabbyFish
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posted January 05, 2009 08:53 PM           Edit/Delete Message
What is the Novile?

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Love
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posted January 05, 2009 09:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Love     Edit/Delete Message
CrabbyFish ~ If you go to astro.com or whichever program you use I suppose, you can do a harmonic chart. You just click on harmonic chart/day and then make the date with whichever number you'd like to make up your harmonic chart. For example, put in the number 9 to make a novile or 9th harmonic chart.

Many astrologers use that to get a read on a person's marriage partner.

writesomething ~ I can give you some of the aspects between my grandmother and grandfather who were married for 60 years. the only problem is that their birth times are pretty sketchy, so aspects are all I have. If I remember correctly, you're not a fan of asteroids so I have not included any, but I will if you're interested

Synastry ~

His Sun, Moon and Mercury trine her Venus
His NN conjunct her Neptune
His Vertex conjunct her Mercury
His Moon and Venus sextile her Pluto
Her Sun and Mercury conjunct his Pluto
Her Moon sextile his Venus and Jupiter
Her Mars and NN conjunct his Venus
Venus square Saturn double whammy
His Uranus trine her Mercury, Venus and Pluto
His Sun oppose her Uranus
His Saturn square her Mars and NN
Her Moon square his Pluto
His Moon square her Neptune

That's not all of it, but it's a sampling.

Composite ~ (without houses unfortunately)

Sun conjunct Mercury, Neptune and NN
Sun (Merc, Nep and NN) square Mars
Moon conjunct Venus
Moon square Saturn and Chiron
Moon and Venus trine Uranus
Venus square Saturn and quincunx Jupiter
Pluto sextile Mars
Jupiter sesquisquare Sun, Mercury and Mars
Jupiter quincunx Moon and Venus
Jupiter square Uranus
I included those minor aspects since Jupiter was basically making hard but minor aspects to almost everything except:
Jupiter sextile Saturn

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FistOfLegend
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posted January 05, 2009 09:31 PM           Edit/Delete Message
How do you read into your marriage partner using harmonic charts?

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CrabbyFish
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posted January 05, 2009 10:13 PM           Edit/Delete Message
Thank You FistOfLegend. I want to know the same. If Novile are great indicaters...what;s the indication? What am I looking for?

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leapinglemur14
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posted January 06, 2009 12:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for leapinglemur14     Edit/Delete Message
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leapinglemur14
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posted January 06, 2009 12:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for leapinglemur14     Edit/Delete Message
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aqua/scorp
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posted January 06, 2009 06:41 AM           Edit/Delete Message
ok heres some links that may give a better idea what to look for and what the 9th Harmonic chart reps about the self and ones partner.
http://www.aquarius-atlanta.com/aug04/harmonic.shtml
http://www.astrologyforthesoul.com/insider/ninthharm.htm

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Sun:Aquarius 11H
Moon:Scorpio 7H
Mercury:Aquarius 11H
Venus:Sagittarius 8H
Mars:Aries 12H
Jupiter:Pisces 12H
Saturn:Sagittarius 8H
Uranus:Sagittarius 9H
Neptune:Capricorn 9H
Pluto:Scorpio 7H
AC:Aries
MC:Capricorn
T.Node:Aries 12H

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