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Topic: Destined to fail?
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Martian08
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posted January 11, 2009 12:49 AM
Hello everyone, this is my first time posting but I have been searching the boards for a month now. I have been interested in astrology for many years now but never knew that there were so many aspects that went into it so I am still learning. I was wondering if anyone could look at the chart of my ex and I. Long story short, we were together on/off for 9yrs, he was pretty unfaithful for much of the beginning but we eventually worked through that and got engaged in '06. As it got closer to the wedding which was supposed to be in aug. '08, I had numerous doubts and ended up calling off the wedding the day before. I still do not even know why I did it and am not sure if its what I really wanted to do. What I have realized about myself over the years though is that I have this side of myself that wants to belong to one person but another part of myself can start to feel caged when things become too serious and I have to break free. Just curious to see what anyone can pull from our charts. 
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leapinglemur14
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posted January 11, 2009 12:54 AM
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Martian08
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posted January 11, 2009 01:04 AM
Will this one work?  IP: Logged |
lalalinda
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posted January 11, 2009 01:58 AM
Hello and Welcome to LL Martian08  IP: Logged |
venusmars
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posted January 11, 2009 06:29 AM
Hi Martian  You said 9 years or I misunderstood it?
You have few saturn aspects in synastry his saturn trine your sun and mercury.
No saturn aspects in composite either..
I'm surprised when I see only blue lines in the chart
I am no expert so I will wait till someone interpret it.. IP: Logged |
FistOfLegend
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posted January 11, 2009 11:24 AM
That's composite. I need synastry.
I hope that man has changed his ways. IP: Logged |
Lara
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posted January 11, 2009 12:32 PM
hmmmcan we see his natal please. The reason l say this is that i'd possibly cheat too with that composite. Not enough challenge or tension for me. I'm NOT at all saying this is why he cheated though IP: Logged |
Martian08
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posted January 11, 2009 12:35 PM
Is this the synastry chart? Sorry, I am still a newbie at this.Venusmars- yes, we were together 9 yrs on/off. We met in '99 when we were in high school. So are no saturn contacts bad? I still get confused as far as comparing charts. I think I was always looking at the two (natal I think it is) and comparing them together i.e. my mars is in scorpio and his venus is in scorpio so they are conjunct? Any help in learning how to interpret them better would be vastly appreciated in reading them! FistofLegend- Did he change his ways...hmmm...with the cheating yes I believe so. But I guess you can never be too sure. He was a very emotional person which suprised me because of his sun but he liked to keep it internalized. He also was the type that once you hurt him, then its basically like he would never really open up to you again. Is that typical of a scorpio moon? I am very curious as to why I seem so restless myself. I feel I want a stable relationship with one person but when things get too "normal", I get really bored and begin to feel like I want something else. That is how I felt as it got closer to the wedding. He was so happy about it and I was I felt so disinterested. Then of course when I no longer have something anymore, I'm like wait come back. I believe it may have something to do with my venus in aqu which I have read about or possibly my venus square pluto maybe? Do you see anything else that may attribute to this restlessness?  IP: Logged |
ErickaF
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posted January 11, 2009 12:46 PM
VenusMars:
Does not matter if their are no Saturn aspects in composite, as long as their some in synastry.IP: Logged |
Martian08
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posted January 11, 2009 12:50 PM
Lara- Is his natal chart different then the original chart for him I posted? The sad thing is though, he cheated on all of his girlfriends. I always wanted to feel that I wasn't good enough or something but he could not be faithful to anyone. IP: Logged |
Lara
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posted January 11, 2009 12:53 PM
oops, sorry Martian - i missed that chart Well his chart has a LOT of stressful aspects so l would think he thrives off tension in a relationship. Having said that, it's not a reason to cheat - although he does have Libra sun.
Look on the other thread entitled "players"! IP: Logged |
Martian08
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posted January 11, 2009 01:07 PM
Lara- I definitely posted on that thread about him and a few other libra sun men that I know who definitely fit that title. I wonder if the whole tension thing is what made our relationship last so long. I was the only girl that he had been able to sustain a relationship with for so many years but there was always an underlying tension in our relationship. Something always seemed to keep us from being completely happy but then we could never stay apart for that long either.IP: Logged |
leapinglemur14
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posted January 12, 2009 01:46 AM
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Nightjar
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posted January 13, 2009 07:25 AM
leapinglemur14, if you mean the synastry Saturn conjunct Saturn, I'd say it's not worth paying much attention to. Outer planet conjunctions are very common because the planets move so slowly, and are more of a sign of the two people belonging to the same age group than of anything deeper than that. IP: Logged |
VinayM19
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posted January 13, 2009 07:37 AM
Can be------------------
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Lara
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posted January 13, 2009 07:39 AM
to not have a saturn - saturn conjunct, don't you have to be with either a golden oldie or a toyboy though? IP: Logged |
VinayM19
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posted January 13, 2009 07:58 AM
A person life depends on
Karma-previous life, this can't be changed. Person need to understand if he goes through some serious issue which he think he didn't deserve. Well this can stopped by doing good work and spreading love with true faith and strong desire.Birth-the time he takes first breadth,based on this time birth chart is created and this helps a lot to understand the problem person might go through. Location- this one's too important as this affects a lot. If we have some issue in above said points and if we are in good atmosphere with full of positive energy around us then this too helps a lot in life. His own will power,desire,faith which is something anyone can try and posses and achieve success.So it's not just chart which will help us to achieve enlightenment, we need to create achieve all these in life for enlightenment. Remember Linda always mentioned it's desire which has immense power to achieve. ------------------
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Mama Mia
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posted January 13, 2009 01:48 PM
"What I have realized about myself over the years though is that I have this side of myself that wants to belong to one person but another part of myself can start to feel caged when things become too serious and I have to break free." And that would be your Venus in Aqua, ahhh it gets me in the same kind of way.. IP: Logged |
Martian08
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posted January 13, 2009 06:58 PM
Mama Mia- At least someone understands the feeling! I feel like i love/hate my ven in aqu. I love it because I think that it calms down my piscean emotions and I am really not overly sensitive about many things. I hate it though because I like stability(probably that taurus moon)but when things are stable, then they are boring. I don't know how I will ever have a lasting relationship.... IP: Logged |
leapinglemur14
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posted January 13, 2009 07:53 PM
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