posted January 16, 2009 09:02 PM           

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An Aquarius male is nice and friendly to everyone else but when it comes to you, he is cold and distant? Now mind you he knows I have feelings for him but he has told other folks he doesn't want to date me because he thinks I'm too young for him and the fact we work together is also a problem to him as well. If anyone wants to know my birthday is 12/19/1988 and his is 2/2/1983.

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posted January 16, 2009 09:07 PM         

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It means he's into you... check the AQUARIAN thread under SOUL UNIONS !

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posted January 16, 2009 09:27 PM         

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Uhhh he doesn't want to date you? Aquarians mean what they say generally. He might secretly WANT you, but he's not going to do anything about it. And the fact that he's cold and distant with you means he doesn't want you to get any ideas.

This is coming from an Aquarius female.

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posted January 16, 2009 09:52 PM         

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that sounds wrong to me, he could secretley like you, but aquarius LIKE to make friends with love interests.

so that fact he isn't, is making me think he might not like you

im not an aquarius, but my dc is aquarius, and my 11th is in gemini, i definitely tend to do this with love interests (become friends allmost)

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posted January 16, 2009 09:52 PM         

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that sounds wrong to me, he could secretley like you, but aquarius LIKE to make friends with love interests.

so that fact he isn't, is making me think he might not like you

im not an aquarius, but my dc is aquarius, and my 11th is in gemini, i definitely tend to do this with love interests (become friends allmost)

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posted January 16, 2009 09:56 PM           

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They like you. Even Linda Goodman says it.

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posted January 16, 2009 11:41 PM         

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lol....wht does he mean by she is too young for me...i thought you might be 20 yrs or so younger than him....give me a break you are just 5 yrs younger,,,,,he is v funny

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posted January 16, 2009 11:42 PM           

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Well I told him I never had any expectations of ever being with him romantically but I asked him if we could at least be friends and he replied "I don't know". It just sucks because I have never fallen so hard for someone in my life. A year later and I freaking STILL can't stop thinking about him and wanting him so bad. He is the only guy I have ever met that makes my heart skip a beat when he looks at me. But since he wants nothing to do with me I need to obviously move on. And I am wondering how I am going to be able to do that considering that I have to see him at work every day. This has been going on a year now! It is not like he is totally rude to me or anything. We have both done really nice things for one another that we didn't have to do but he's always so friendly and jovial with everyone else and yet with me when he looks at me he quickly looks away and acts like I don't exist and it just sucks!

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lol....wht does he mean by she is too young for me...i thought you might be 20 yrs or so younger than him....give me a break you are just 5 yrs younger,,,,,he is v funny

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Apparently he only dates girls 23 and up. It might be that he goes to the bar A LOT with his friends and I am not even old enough to even legally get into a bar (only one year!). Or maybe he thinks younger girls like me play games a lot. I don't know.

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posted January 16, 2009 11:44 PM         

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posted January 16, 2009 11:49 PM         

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He likes you alot..My ex did me like that for almost a year. When I would see him at the gym where we would see each other he would speak to all the ladies and laugh with them and when he would see me he would turn his head oh he was just awful to me. My feelings were so hurt but I sucked iit up and kept it moving..I ran into one of his best friends and I asked him why is he holding a grudge and he said he;s not holding a grudge he's inlove with you and he does not know what to do with himself..I was so concused..LOL!! So yeah they are backwards as hell..eventually he told me bc he couldn't help it..

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posted January 16, 2009 11:54 PM           

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I am sorry, but it needs to be done, quick, like a band-aid....

I'm an aqua and when I know someone likes me, and I don't like them, I get like that.

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posted January 17, 2009 12:40 AM         

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My experience with Aquarians is that if they shut you out, they mean it. No game playing. It's because they don't want to have anything to do with you. I have Aquarius Moon. I shut people out if I don't want to have anything to do with them. My husband has Aqua Moon, he's the same. It's pretty black and white.

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posted January 17, 2009 10:14 AM           

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Well alright. Thanks guys.

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posted January 17, 2009 10:16 AM         

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wa, iloveastrology, your birthday is the same as mine, just you are younger!!

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posted January 17, 2009 11:06 AM           

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if he's distant, he probably likes u.

especially if he is different with u and others. he must like u a lot.

what i mean is that indeed he can be aloof because he doesnt want u to imagine stuff, for your well being kind of, or he can be aloof with u because he didn't get that u were after him, he didnt register. that is less likely because u said he knows about your feelings. so the last option is that he likes u but doesnt know how to deal with it and prefer the escape route. may be hiding behind the excuse of your age.

well may be your age or the fact u work together is really a problem for him. u should ask him what he feels about working with people and having an affair. but dont be put off if he says he doesnt want that, because he ll probably be talking in theory there, not necessarily about your situation.

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posted January 17, 2009 04:06 PM           

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Yeah I asked one of our mutual friends what his problem was and he said "Well he thinks you still like him and he doesn't want to hurt you." Whatever that means.

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posted January 17, 2009 04:09 PM         

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posted January 17, 2009 04:16 PM         

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Thank you FIST

PLEASE CHECK THE AQUARIAN MEN THREAD!!!! on soul unions.
Here it is! http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/003107.html

Happy reading LOL

Aquarian men pull away and become aloof when they fancy the pants off of you.

I have experienced this 3 times with ALL 3 Aqua's!

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posted January 17, 2009 04:18 PM           

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Unless you've guys have established a mutual attraction, and have kissed/gone out, I would take what he says and does seriously. He isnt interested, so dont waste your time. He definitely wont start liking you if you continue acting like you like him. When an aquarian hasnt established anything with you yet, and he ignores you, it basically means just that. Hes ignoring you, and not because he secretly wants you. Aquarians are jerks..dont waste your time time. Dont ever try to bring love into the equation, they cant handle it.(unless you hate them)...then they love you.

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posted January 17, 2009 04:40 PM           

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i agree with what praecipua said its true.

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posted January 17, 2009 05:38 PM         

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iloveastrology

If he has never shown any signs that there may be attraction from his side, even just non-verbal signs, then unfortunately I would take his comments seriously. Especially as his friend is confirming his message. I have several aquarius friends and although some have acted a bit strange in romantic situations, I think your situation is slightly different in that he has never given you any indications that there might be something from his side. Or has he been ambiguous?

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posted January 17, 2009 05:40 PM           

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Learn some body language. Aquarians can't beat it.

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posted January 17, 2009 05:40 PM         

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How do you mean Fisty?

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posted January 17, 2009 05:43 PM           

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Body language as in body language.

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posted January 17, 2009 09:01 PM           

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I think your situation is slightly different in that he has never given you any indications that there might be something from his side. Or has he been ambiguous?

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No he hasn't shown any signs of wanting to be with me but I notice he was a lot more friendlier with me before he found out that I liked him.

And I also wonder why it is that I can't get over him! It's quite frustrating. Do we have any "obsessive" synastry/composite aspects between us?

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He definitely wont start liking you if you continue acting like you like him

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The thing is though I don't act like I like him. He ignores me and wants nothing to do with me so I respect that and I leave him alone and ignore him right back. I don't talk to him unless I absolutely have to and I also don't flirt with him or anything. I avoid eye contact with him just like he does with me.

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