posted January 25, 2009 06:43 AM           

I really just wanted some comments on her chart. She's a very reserved person.. but I see that her Sun&North node are in the first. Does this mean she should work on expressing herself? Also, what can you tell me about her 12th house stellum? I know that she's had a pretty traumatic past though. She grew up without a father.. and an abusive sibling..& probably a LOT that she hasn't told me. I also have a brother with a 12th house stellum like this.. and he's pretty insane. His planets are in Sagittarius though..

I also notice in our synastry, we have Sun/North node conjunction.. Amor conjunct.. Also all the axis' are aligned.. Does this really indicate a past life relationship?

posted January 25, 2009 06:49 AM           

& my chart... just incase it makes the synastry more clear.

posted January 25, 2009 05:07 PM         

Also the her 1st house sun (ruler of 7th/other people) trines jupiter in 5th/house of love.While jupiter opposties the planets in the 12th, I think she will be able to overcome the obsticles in her life to go on to offer love and healing to others. (virgo moon=healer, service to others)

A packed 12th means there are a lot of skeletons in the closet, loads of secrets.

And the fact that her father was absent left its mark clearly on her by the stellium in capricorn. She is looking for a sort father figure in love, (venus in cap/ sun ruler 7th/mars cap).

With such a packed 12th there is too the likely hood of spending some time in seclusion, if not by choice then by force, jail, hospitals that sort of thing.

Also with mars conj neptune in 12th, full 12th and the trines to moon, there could be little to resist the temptation to escape reality and its difficulties with drinking or drug use, perhaps to the point where she would be institutionalized at some point to recover.

posted January 25, 2009 05:30 PM           

her moon trining neptune exactly...

is beautiful and corresponds with your Pisces moon

Your chart is incredibly intense..

but you may have more self-control than her...

although she may seem more controlled,
she may not have the control to give up control,
if you know what i mean

because she has a loaded 12th house, and that area is very sensitive and unconscious

and all that capricorn and saturn is very fearful and limiting

i would not recommend putting any pressure on her to be more loose or open

i would just try to bring those energies to her,

and if you are loose and open, she will trust you and open to you

but it is not easy for her, and always takes time (capricorn and saturn)

You are both very complicated people...

unfortuneately, there are no easy answers for complicated people.

there are definitely some powerful and potentially binding contacts in your synastry:
venus conjunct mars
saturn conjunct mars
saturn trine moon
sun conjunct pluto
mars trine jupiter
moon trine jupiter

your jupiter in cancer can challenge her mars in cap to open up,
but you dont want to do it in a dogmatic, "here is the truth" way
(that can happen with hard aspects to jupiter, and her mars will fight it)..
but your jupiter in cancer can show her how
to be comfortable with emotions,
and can do it in a playful, humorous, indirect way.

hope that helps a little