posted January 29, 2009 12:43 AM           

-sun in h1 so opposite would be sun in h7 = sun in libra, someone with sun conj venus, or an angular venus.. this resonates with your libra venus which is at home and thus very strong,

-moon in h9 = moon gemini, moon conj merc, moon h3...this also resonates with aquarius being the ruler of your h7 and it's corresponding house [11] falling under gemini.

-asc leo = angular uranus, or conj sun or even moon which would be compatible again with the gemini influence from above, again with your air you have venus sq uranus so ideally the aquarius placement of the other [if they have one] would neutralize that inner tension and trine your venus and sextile your uranus [also your h7 ruler]...

-uranus [since its your h7 ruler] in capricorn = well its opposed jupiter in the 11th so again it's pointing to an airy house

with what looks like a grand cross, it seems that it'd be nice to get a grand trine from your partner, so i'd look to: someone with a trine from early gem to early aqua to help your venus out of it's "web".. its opposed the moon so im wondering if its difficult to think of a woman who's a wife [moon] and desirable [venus].. or maybe with the strong venus you'd seek to live that out as strong artistic avocations outside of the marriage that would fulfill that side of you. to neutralize that moon again look for the early stages of gem and aqua to give helpful sextiles on either side...id recommend a trine from leo to sadge but then the sadge placement would be squaring your mars.

btw your planets falling in someone's h6 would just mean that you would be very interested in the details of their day to day life, very focused on that in conversation with merc, for example.

my $0.02

posted January 29, 2009 12:47 AM         

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I can't fathom why your name is Libralove when you're a Leo with only one planet in Libra.

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lol me neither... you guys are funny!

posted January 29, 2009 12:58 AM         

Like I like Moon conjunctions, some people prefer trines. I like Mars and Venus to be square, for that spark, other people prefer conjunctions or trines.

I've done it for myself. I've narrowed down birthdates of people who might be perfect for me ^______^

posted January 29, 2009 02:32 AM         

My sun/5th - his Sun 11th, and my 11th house has Aquarius n the cusp - he had Uranus square Sun

My moon in Aries - his Moon in Gemini

Also, there's the other theory about how the 7th house somehow describes your future spouse:

I have Pluto 7th house cusp - He had Pluto in the 7th
I have Neptune in the 7th - he was a Pisces rising
He had Virgo 7th house Cusp...my Sun fell right into there...so, it's interesting...

...but didn't last

Anway LOL.
So I guess, Libralove, it's best to just enjoy yourself and not worry too much about it...because I don't think astrology will point you to who you should be with, or even *will* be with, but would explain to you why you're drawn to someone...it'll reveal clues...but the connection would occur first, to propel the research, and ultimately put the clues into *perspective*. Looking for clues is great right now, ok, but it can be like searching for the light bulb switch in the middle of a forest, or wondering when the chicken will turn into an egg.

EDIT: Libralove, there's also the theory of how we meet people we become involved with...by looking to Venus and where she is. For instance: Mine's in the 6th, I've met just about every man I've been seriously involved with through work - either I was on the job, or he was.

posted January 29, 2009 04:13 AM           

i understand my chart, im not trying to figure out what "i want", im trying to figure out or get some idea on what some ones chart would look like, if i was the 'right' match for them. i guess this question confuses people very easily, accept for the gemini lol.

but arnicka, you gave me a nice answer for what im looking for, i will look out for these aspects, .

amowls, why venus in pisces, and sun in leo?

MVM, nope i havent, iv never tried to seriously find girls online, but when i was younger i loved chat rooms. lol

what im surprised by though, is no one has mentioned anything about virgo.

i get along with virgo's soo easily, friends wise, and romantically!

you guys think that it wouldnt be possible that the right kind of person wouldn't be a virgo sun? juno virgo here

this is just basically why i wanted help in getting an idea about what kind of charts i'd be looking at if i met the perfect person in life some day.

my planets are too spread around.

aqua/scorp, do you know where i can get a free 9th harmonic chart done?

posted January 29, 2009 04:24 AM           

You where its has the start date (should be todays date) just change it to 9. And when you have done it tell me what you think and if it you feel it would make sense to you. For me mine makes alot of sense.

posted January 29, 2009 04:26 AM           

im also unsure if my sun is in the 1st or 2nd house.

posted January 29, 2009 08:14 AM         

Check it out LL...
i found his natal sun conjunct exact my 9th sun, moon conjunct 9th moon, mars opposing exact 9th venus.

my natal sun conjunct his 9th moon, my sun/moon midpoint conjunct exact his 9th AC.

posted January 29, 2009 12:30 PM         

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i guess this question confuses people very easily, accept for the gemini lol.

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I don't know that it's confusing so much as it is likely impossible.

My issue with the question is that a positive aspect can also be a negative aspect. You know, it can be really great with part of your chart, but otherwise cause conflict with other aspects of your chart. There are so many things, especially including maturity, that can play into whether another person's chart works with yours.

Throw in the fact that so often what we're looking for is [our unconscious shadow] ultimately uncomfortable to us, and a correct answer to your question could prove to be a very uncomfortable relationship for both parties. Armed with a seemingly correct answer, you may put yourself in a world of hurt.

posted January 29, 2009 12:45 PM           

i was just trying to build an example to look at the a natal, and look for similar aspects in others