posted January 29, 2009 05:38 AM           

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so it is now officially two weeks that we've been together. i didn't want to write about it cuz i wanted to make sure it was as real as it felt. but we are very very happy and all is flowing and easy and harmonious, incredibly comfortable and fun. he chose the time to meet and talk and our relationship chart is very nice with sun trine moon .

so! i was wondering if i could post our synastry and composite and if anyone could take a gander and help me understand this soup of loveliness a little better, or test out their theories (to which i will respond). i feel like i know him inside and out, and we are incredibly close already, on so many levels. haha, i know this makes me a dork, but i just wanna share my happiness!

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posted January 29, 2009 05:39 AM         

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Yay for you heart cakes!! I'm soooo happy for you!

Is this the guy that had the Venus in the 1st house (I think) ?

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posted January 29, 2009 05:41 AM           

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yessss! actually we both have venus in the first, conj AC. and i'm starting to 'get' the aspect more now, seeing how it's manifested in him as well.

thank you mVm!!

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posted January 29, 2009 05:50 AM         

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wooo hooo!!!

So happy for you Heart Cakes

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posted January 29, 2009 05:58 AM           

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thank you so much lara!!! hey, as with the potty training and such, haha, i hope with all my heart that the man you are fond for is every bit as wonderful as mine

okay i gotta go do something and i'll be back soon to post the charts.

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posted January 29, 2009 06:23 AM         

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So glad...I had a feeling it was just a matter of time with him acting all shy

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posted January 29, 2009 06:28 AM           

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weeee! me too! and hey i gotta say, your encouragement helped a lot mVm! i was so freaking nervous cuz for years he acted like he really did NOT like me, when in fact it was quite the opposite!

okay here is our synastry!

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posted January 29, 2009 06:31 AM           

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and our composite!

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posted January 29, 2009 06:38 AM           

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dang it won't upload the pdf aspect grid chart. how do people do that anyway?

anyway, we have some interesting aspects! i'm curious what people think!

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posted January 29, 2009 07:16 AM         

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aww lovely news! always nice to hear about happy stuff! good luck and all!

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posted January 29, 2009 07:29 AM           

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aww thanks nyah! how sweet of you to say

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posted January 29, 2009 07:53 AM           

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Im always happy to see couples living their love..............

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posted January 29, 2009 08:21 AM           

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heart cakes,

unfortunately I dont know your story, why did you think he didnt like you? In the synastry, are you the person in the inner or outer ring?

Thanks,
A

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posted January 29, 2009 10:01 AM           

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hi annaf. well it's a long story but basically we have very different outward temperaments. i'm a big goofy geek and he's a very plutonian person, and we didn't really start to mesh until we started to see one another every day for a couple of hours, over the last 4 months. i'm the one on the inside (blue).

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posted January 29, 2009 10:01 AM           

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woops

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posted January 29, 2009 10:52 AM           

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oops, not sure whether it is just my connection, but can't see the charts anymore. Can everyone else still see them?

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posted January 29, 2009 05:12 PM         

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congrats..

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posted January 29, 2009 11:32 PM           

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annaf, i can still see them!

diandra and venusmars, thanks!!

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posted January 30, 2009 03:48 AM           

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aww... Glad to hear its finally working out for you.

It almost inspires me to write a novel about someone going on multiple dates and finally finding the write one after searching for too long.

Actually, that might work for my 3D Animation class.

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posted January 30, 2009 04:10 PM           

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well if it might work, you might wanna do it

thanks so much thirdbenjamin! it's kinda funny too cuz after my last bf (3 years ago), i decided i did not want another relationship for three years. and i had a few test runs, which learned me a lot about what i wanted and didn't want, and this guy is everything i want and not everything i don't want, at all . and it was exactly three years too!

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posted January 31, 2009 07:55 PM         

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who is te outer wheel person?

the outer wheel person is way more affected by the relation.(receptive house 4th activated and 1st and 7th activated) Heart cakes? are you the outer person?

congrats!

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posted January 31, 2009 10:32 PM           

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thanks emma! actually i'm the inner. hey how is his 7th house activated? i don't have any thing there (except sun-moon midpoint and IC). do you mean that my pluto in his first means he's more receptive to and affected by me? also, my sun, merc and mars are JUST into his fifth (but conj his 4th house jupiter.. is that activation enough?). but he does have stuff in my fourth and first too, so isn't it kinda balanced? sorry if these are silly questions; i've just never heard this before!

i was told i'm super affected by it since in our composite half of the planets are exactly conjunct my natal planets, oddly enough!

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posted January 31, 2009 10:54 PM         

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oh my bad
any way the blue moon is in red's 8th house, again a receptive house, so v powerful, and house person in more affected (i read it on cafeastrology that all even houses are more receptive, and in my expereince activation of 4 th house is very hard to get over)

blues venus though in reds third is v close to IC...atleast visually it seems to be conjunct, and also o__ to reds neptune....

and reds moon is almost conjuct blues IC,,,,excellent in my opinion

IC is also v powerful bond

and the thing u mentioned abt composites is also right and important

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posted January 31, 2009 11:48 PM           

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oh oh thanks so much emma!

that is amazing because as much as i've looked at our charts i never noticed which houses eachothers' moons fall into. haha. and it's so very accurate, because he DEFINITELY has let me into his 8th house, which he never reveals to anyone. i have access to his unspoken emotions, and by god it is a beautiful realm. total, blissful intimacy. powerful may be an understatement! and his moon in my third is also incredibly accurate; i am so compelled to COMMUNICATE with him about every little thing and i'm always worried i'm overdoing it, but he encourages it and doesn't like when i *don't* explain what i'm thinking/feeling. interesting!!

so you mean my stellium is activating his fourth just by being conjunct, though in his fifth? that is really interesting because all of our alone time is spent in his childhood room, which i'm now renting out! and thee is definitely an aquarian flavour to our interactions within the dynamic of his family home, where i'm living now.

never noticed about the IC conjunctions either! thanks so much

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posted February 01, 2009 12:04 AM         

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well i was talking abt yr venus conjuct his IC

and yr stellium conjuct his jupiter i wld interpret as 5th cz his jupiter seems to be v close to 4ths end, which is almost 5 (dark side of 5), which is also a v good placement, light hearted, bright and fun

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