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GemGemGem
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posted January 29, 2009 10:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemGemGem     Edit/Delete Message
This man's personality doesn't seem at all like I expected from his chart. I'm not an expert astrologer so I could be wrong, but from his chart, I figured he would be the solid, laid back type (Taurus Sun/Moon), a little shy and passive (Cancer Mars), and reserved with his emotions (Taurus Moon)and rational.

He has Venus in Aries, but not much fire other than that, so I wasn't prepared for how incredibly aggressive he was. He was also very emotional, he basically poured his heart out asking me to be in a relationship with him,(It was our first date) and was ALL over me the whole night, holding my hand, trying to kiss me, even though I kept telling him no. WTF? He wasn't forceful or anything, but very "persistent"!

This is my first experience with a Taurus man, and I didn't think they were like this at all! Am I reading his chart completely wrong?

I don't know his birth time, but I am guessing his ascendent is Scorpio, cause I got that intense vibe from him and he has that "stare". LOL. But it's basically an unknown.


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posted January 29, 2009 11:03 AM           Edit/Delete Message
actually, I'm not surprised that he is so direct with his interest, just looking at his chart quickly. My dad has some similarities in his chart, also a taurus-aries-cancer-scorpio combination (sun in taurus, moon in cancer, venus in aries, mars in scorpio, asc.in gemini) and he was very full on, all or nothing when he met my mother. Same with my uncle, another sun in taurus, venus in aries, very, very direct with his interst. Also, notice your guy, has sun in th 7th and his DC ruler venus is in aries in the 5th. So his personality and his DC ruler is very relationship/romance focused...I think also the fact that his DC ruler venus is in aries emphasizes the aggressive drive to get what he wants in relationship terms. Yes, he has a mars in cancer and I probably also would have thought this is a bit shy, but look at the aspects it's forming, mostly harsh ones and I think harsh aspects of the mars always increases the impatience level.

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GemGemGem
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posted January 29, 2009 11:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemGemGem     Edit/Delete Message
"IMPATIENCE", that was the word I was looking for! LOL! He was definitely impatient! Needed to know how things stood with the relationship NOW. I told him I needed time to see if I want something more than friendship, his reaction was just to grab my face and try to kiss me again! LOL!

I don't know if the house positions are correct, cause I don't know his birth time. I'm just assuming he is a Scorpio Asc from the vibe I got from him.

Annaf, are your father and uncle workaholics? Cause this guy is too. I'm wondering about his chart also cause he was adopted from another country and brought to America. A lot of times, they don't have the correct birth info, cause the hospitals lose all that information. So I'm curious to see if his chart matches his personality.

Hmmm, which makes me wonder if being adopted shows up in a chart too?

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Happy Dragon
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posted January 29, 2009 12:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Happy Dragon     Edit/Delete Message
note his natal aspects from mars jupiter uranus neptune and pluto :-)

with regards to any taurean .. don't let the apparent laid back characteristics fool you ..
you'd be suprised what they can get get up to when madame passion strikes :-))))

maybe ask the asteroid club what transiting Pluto might do with asteroid Eros :-)
and it's starting to oppose his natal Saturn ..

** but I am guessing his ascendent is Scorpio, cause I got that intense vibe from him and he has that "stare"**
note the pluto aspect to his sun :-)))

hhhmmm the taurean stare .. welcome to taurusland
i had good reason to employ the 'stare' only yesterday .. :-)
some builder visting the neighbourhood was doing something he really shouldn't ..
and what he was doing was a health threat to folk here ..
so i waltzed down and gave him a piece of my mind .. it nearly got physical .. :-)
however i noted the taurean 'stare' had him backstepping a pace or two ..
only as i ambled off .. he peeked out of the house and called after me " I know where you live "
completely ingnoring the fact his van was parked outside with his business details written all over it
( i'm a pluto square sun nataly )

note his transits gem gem ..
look at t.Lillith ;-))) it's currently conjunct with t.Pluto

that Mars / Venus aspect in his chart is very close orb ..
as are the Mercury aspects to Venus and Jupiter ..

mars in cancer ? .. don't forget that basicly cancer is a primitive water sign .. being the first one on the zodiac wheel ..
and it very 'instinctive' .. i.e. emotionaly .. .. and cancerians generally have a lunatic side to them ..

well .. how you've described him is no suprise .. looking at his chart and transits :-)

mmmmm .. he also has pluto trine lillith in his chart ..
and pluto square saturn ... must have some fear and insecurity
saturn in cancer ~ http://www.happydragon.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/jkbx/sat.cancer.html ~
hhhmmm .. and a minor aspect in close orb from uranus to his sun .. ;-)
and natal Lillith is trine his Sun ..and sesquisquare ( minor aspect ) .. to his mercury placement
oooooo .. natal mars trine jupiter ;-)))))))

all of the above noted here without birthtime ..
oh and t.Uranus looks to have been trining his natal Mars :-)))
and t's Jupiter/Neptune/Chiron are starting to square his natal Sun ..

" The powerfull passions are another fictional hero's trait apparent in many Taurus men. "
~ http://www.happydragon.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/jkbx/sign.taurus.html ~

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Got Gemini?
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posted January 29, 2009 02:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Got Gemini?     Edit/Delete Message
His softy Mars in Cancer is square his impatient Venus in Aries. When I think Aries I think two things: Action and Impatience. With the square to Mars he probably had a hard time going from cautiously waiting to I want it now. Also, his Venus is in the 5th house of romance so that side of him may be pronounced (even though his 5th house is ruled by Neptune, most of the house is in Aries). All in all, I'd say look to that Aries Venus for the source of the aggressiveness and impatience. But hey, this is just my uneducated guess.

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Virgo Asc 6˚& Mars 0˚
Gemini Sun 24˚
Libra Moon 14˚(conjunct Pluto 0˚ in 2nd house)
Gemini Mercury 25˚
Cancer Venus 29˚
And yes, i'm a guy!

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good girl
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posted January 29, 2009 07:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for good girl     Edit/Delete Message
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I told him I needed time to see if I want something more than friendship, his reaction was just to grab my face and try to kiss me again! LOL!

I'm soooo jealous!!!

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Geocosmic Valentine
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posted January 29, 2009 08:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geocosmic Valentine     Edit/Delete Message
In addition to what everyone else said I want to add one thing. He has Pluto quindecile Venus. To put it mildly:

IT GIVES HIS ARIES VENUS THE POWER OF A HYDROGEN BOMB!!!!!!!!!

He also has Mars square Venus, Mars doesn't completely wash out just because it's in Cancer, don't underestimate it. It's boiling over with emotions, causing very hot steam.

Uranus squares his Mars, intensifying it. Jupiter trines it.

His Mars and Venus are in full play. And Taurus is the sign of SENSUALITY!

That's an incredible amount of astrological focus on the sexual planets.

He doesn't have to be a Scorpio Rising to act the way he's acting and to have the stare. Remember that Taurus is opposite Scorpio so we automatically draw some of the opposite sign into our make up.

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GemGemGem
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posted January 30, 2009 11:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemGemGem     Edit/Delete Message
"IT GIVES HIS ARIES VENUS THE POWER OF A HYDROGEN BOMB!!!!!!!!!"

Wow, apparently I was incredibly wrong about my interpretation of his natal chart! LOL! I think I underestimated his double Taurus, cause all the Taureans I know are so laid back, and are not the "chasing" type. I know Aries is a pretty strong placement, but I figured since there is only 1 placement, it wouldn't have much effect!

So I guess the Aries gets magnified because there are a lot of aspects to his Venus, and also because his chart ruler is Venus, and his Aries is in Venus? Is that right? I'm still learning, so I want to see if I'm getting this correct.

I ran into him unexpectedly at an event last night. It was so strange that he was there. He seemed much "gentler" than he was on our first date. None of the agression was there. Like night and day! It turns out he had planned for his roommate to bring me to that event, so he could see me. I thought that was sweet, in a creepy, stalker type of way. I don't know where we stand other than the fact that I've told him numerous times that we are just "friends".

So I guess I shouldn't underestimate his Venus in Aries! This is a lot of "firsts" for me. He's the first Taurus guy, and first Venus Aries.

Happy Dragon, are you a Taurus? I didn't know Taurus had the "stare" too! Maybe he's not a Scorpio Asc. It's frustrating not to know!

GG, a man grabbing your face and trying to kiss you is not as passionate or romantic as it seems, unless that man is Brad Pitt of course. LOL!

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Lara
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posted January 30, 2009 11:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
hahaha

he has a severe case of 'good old Venus in Aries'

"give it to me.... NOW!"

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GemGemGem
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posted January 30, 2009 01:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemGemGem     Edit/Delete Message
Exactly Lara! LOL!

My Taurus Venus seems to conflict a lot with this. It likes things sloooow!

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