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Knowflake

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posted February 04, 2009 03:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for peace     Edit/Delete Message
A Virgo female friend of mine is attracted to him.As for the Scorpio Male his feelings for her are mutual.However he seems detached.He used to be loquacious.
How do you know if he's into you or not?.


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posted February 04, 2009 04:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Love     Edit/Delete Message
Hmmm...well it's kind of a generalization, but I've never had the experience of wondering if a Scorpio male was interested in me or not. And what I mean by that is if a Scorpio likes you, you'll know.

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posted February 04, 2009 05:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message
It really depends on the person and what else is going on in the chart.

I am a Scorpio male. I have Sun,Mercury,and Venus in Scorpio. I have long history of shyness. I was attracted to the opposite sex since preschool,and I flirted with girls back then and even in kindergarten. After I was placed in special education in 1st grade, I developed a shyness. I was so shy that I didn't go out on a date until I was 22 years old when I was in the navy. I am still very shy. Therefore, it's not easy for women to know that I am attracted to them.

My Scorpio planets are modified by Saturn

Sun in Scorpio quincunx Saturn
Mercury in Scorpio contraparallel Saturn
Venus in Scorpio contraparallel Saturn


also Scorpio is a watersign,and so it's associated with sensitivity, and that can sometimes come off shy as shyness at first and then be more outgoing as they become familiar with the person and get the feeling that they are ok.

My Moon is in Pisces square Neptune so that emphasizes the sensitivity stuff.


detachment can be rather tricky. There can be various causes of it

I also want to make a point that shyness could be misinterpreted as lack of interest,being stuck up, and also if people are kinda homophobic, then they think that they are gay. We homo sapiens(human being species) are weird in the misconceptions that we can have about each other.

the animal,the scorpion is very interesting, and I think that it applies to Scorpio in certain ways.

Scorpions are generally harmless and timid, and only voluntarily use their sting for killing prey, defending themselves or in territorial disputes with other scorpions. Generally, they will run from danger or remain still http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scorpion


detachment is said to be a Uranus/Aquarius thing and can be connected to independence,the feeling of being different/outsider,or somebody that marches to the beat of his own drum. I can be like that with my Mars in Aquarius and my planetary unaspected Uranus trine Midheaven.

The detachment can be Saturn too. Saturn is after all,the traditional ruler of Aquarius.

the detachment can be Neptune,water....because many highly sensitive people tend to take a break from other people and prefer some alone time to regroup their energies after being highly stimulated in the environment. Metaphysical oriented people might even see it as psychic overload,absorbing the energies of others. They will often protect themselves from negativity. I am like that myself with the Moon in Pisces square Neptune.

Maybe the Scorpio male has some significant Uranus,Aquarius or maybe Saturn or Neptune/Pisces.

Raymond

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posted February 04, 2009 05:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Love     Edit/Delete Message
Glaucus,

I'm curious about something. I've known shy Scorpios before and I've found that within the context of the general public they may be labeled due to their sensitivity and/or shyness. (Many of the Scorpios I've known either had Neptune conjunct their Ascendant or a Pisces Ascendant.)

But I found that the energy I could feel from them was far different than what others reported feeling. Maybe it was just that when you have a deep, soulmate connection with someone, you see and feel them in a special way. But I wonder if your outward energy toward a woman you're interested in might be different than toward the average person...and if so, perhaps she can feel it?

Maybe it's just me, but I really tend to feel the energy of Scorpios.

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Lucia23
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posted February 04, 2009 01:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message
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I've never had the experience of wondering if a Scorpio male was interested in me or not. And what I mean by that is if a Scorpio likes you, you'll know.

See, and this is probably because I'm a Leo, I had the experience of wondering if a Scorpio man was interested in me, for almost two years. It is the only time in my life I've wondered if a man was interested in me for very long! I have 8th house Sun-Mars-Merc and 7th house Moon-Venus-Saturn-Vertex. This man acted EXACTLY like teenage boys who were madly in love with me, but too shy/awed to act on it. But really, since we are in our thirties, it just meant he was a) not interested or b) screwed up or c) screwed up and not interested. He did all of this weird stuff like staring at me, then looking away, and avoiding touching me. He has Taurus Rising, Pisces Moon.

The Scorpio I'm hanging out with now is almost opposite.

One thing I've learned is that Scorpios operate a lot on the vibe level. It's less important what you say or how you act, and more important the vibes/energy between the two of you.

My new rule of thumb--ANY man (unless you are teenagers) who is both interested AND capable of being with you will:
-Seek you out to spend real, in-person time with you
-Be interested in/curious about your life and desires
-Enjoy looking at you and touching you

A Scorpio Man shows his interest, beyond the above, by:
-Opening up to you and confiding in you about his life (and be careful--they are vulnerable inside! Don't betray their trust! If they trust you it goes very deep for them)
-Wanting to show you off to people he knows/being proud to be in public with you
-Being loyal and supportive of your goals and dreams
-Vibing you until you feel like crawling out of your panties and dissolving into a pile of hopeless mush

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savanna20
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posted February 04, 2009 02:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for savanna20     Edit/Delete Message
When a scorpio likes a girl, they pursue her. It's all or nothing. You'll know. My ex was a scorpio and pursued me til I fell for him. LOL. He was known as someone who hardly ever spoke a word, but to get to me, he was talkative and pursued me as if I was the last girl on the planet.

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posted February 04, 2009 03:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Love     Edit/Delete Message
"Vibing you until you feel like crawling out of your panties and dissolving into a pile of hopeless mush."

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posted February 04, 2009 03:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorp31     Edit/Delete Message
One thing I've learned is that Scorpios operate a lot on the vibe level. It's less important what you say or how you act, and more important the vibes/energy between the two of you.

Lucia23-You hit the nail on the head.

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Sun: Scorpio
Moon: Capricorn
Ascendant: Libra

Venus in Sagittarius
Mars in Sagittarius

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posted February 04, 2009 03:46 PM           Edit/Delete Message
savanna, i agree with you on that one, however, i also agree, glaucus, that their shyness can conceal their strong feelings to the point that you really cannot see what they are about.

my scorpio has pluto exactly conjunct sun, so he's kind of a double scorpio and he's liked me for many years, but i never realized. he is extremely shy, but it's more like a self-protective thing. to me it seems like he needed me to see that he did, and why, and for me to start to surrender to his VERY SUBTLE, but very strong, interest in me, for it to actually go anywhere. which in itself is darn sexy, isn't it?

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posted February 04, 2009 03:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message
It really depends on the Scorpio though

I am a Scorpio(Sun,Mercury,Venus..my Sun contraparallels Pluto too), that stuff that applies very little to me.

when I was a teenager, instead of pursing the girl that I was interested in, I was too shy to approach her. I'd lose my compensative speech mechanisms,and so my speech problems would come out and I would like stutter a little or say things that I didn't mean,and/or have trouble finding the right words to say.

A lot of times, I wrote romantic poetry for the girl that I liked, but I didn't read my poetry to her. I was too shy to recite my poetry to her. I would give my poetry for others to read,I got a lot of compliments. One time, one guy asked me if he could use my poem to give his girlfriend,and I agreed. He told me that she really liked the poem,but then she got mad because he didn't write it. haahahaha

One of the reasons I am very shy is because I have a history of viewing myself as unattractive even ugly even though I have been viewed as being totally the opposite. My mom was the same way too,and she has Moon in Scorpio along with Sun sextile/parallel Pluto.


I wasn't one of those Scorpio males that thought he was some damned sexy thing,pursuing gals with relentlessness. I definitely wasn't having sex a lot. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 22 years old, and it had more to do fitting in with the navy guys. To be a man in the navy,it was like you had to drunk and get laid. My personality type didn't fit in with navy,and so I had a lot of social problems in the navy.

one of my other reasons that I am shy is that I don't fit male stereotypes with my having strong feminine traits including have a highpitched,softspokened voice. Many females want masculine males. They are drawn to guys with masculine facial features like squared jaw,big muscles,great looking abs,deep voices,athletic prowess,sexual prowess/experience,and not "too sensitive". A lot of females do seem to be attracted to jerks too, and what gets me is that they complain about how guys are dogs,but they end up going out with a guy that's a "dog". I am not generalizing all females btw. I believe that a lot of females do that though. What makes things even more complicated is that females that get screwed over by the jerks gets so bitter that they think that all males are bad including even the nice guys. There is a saying that nice guys finish last,and I think that's true in a lot of ways. I am one of those nice guys. Males with high levels of testosterone have natural advantages when it comes to mate selection with their high fertility,their seemingly to be able to protect their mates from danger. However,these males have high sex drives,and very likely to have multiple sex partners and cheat. Males with lower levels of testosterone,high levels of estrogen are viewed the opposite,and I am one of those types. It's part of that natural selection,attraction of the human species.

I think the constellations might have just as much influence as tropical sign placements.
My Sun is actually located in the constellation of Virgo. That could indicate that my ego/self expression has combined Scorpio and Virgo traits.

My Mercury and Venus are actually located in the constellation of Libra. My Mercury is in alignment with Beta Star of Libra,Zuben Eschamali. I feel that I am very Libra-like too in that I am very relationship-oriented,always wanted to be married and stay married until the day I die,but I am having difficulty with that being 37 years old and not really having much longterm relationship experience and never being married.


I really believe that the whole chart needs to be taken into account. Other things can factor in how a Scorpio male deals with females like their testosterone,estrogen,serotonin,and dopamine levels.

I did read about matchmaking based on brain chemistry. They seem to think that brain chemistry in people vary with personality types without viewing it as a disorder.

Fisher began an exhaustive review of the scientific literature and eventually came to believe that there were four broad biological personality types associated with four specific neurotransmitters and hormones: dopamine, serotonin, testosterone and estrogen.
Fisher suspects we are all some combination of these four types, which she has named the explorer (risk-taking, associated with dopamine), the builder (calm, traditional, associated with serotonin), the director (analytical, tough-minded and decisive, associated with testosterone) and the negotiator (emotionally expressive and empathetic, associated with estrogen). http://abcnews.go.com/2020/Story?id=6761212&page=1


note: Dopamine is said to be the chemical that is found to be abnormally high in ADHDers. DRD4 7R gene is a dopamine gene that is connected to novelty-seeking). Therefore, people with the DRD4 7R Gene, ADHD fit the Explorer type.

Raymond

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posted February 04, 2009 03:53 PM           Edit/Delete Message
scorp31, yes EXACTLY!

as an aquarius i'm so busy in my own head that i miss vibes completely sometimes. well, i pick up on stuff people project unconsciously (pisces SN/4th), but i overanalyze how people behave toward me so it took a lot of rearranging to start to feel him on that vibe level. and it's great cuz so much is unspoken, but the feelings are so potent and easy to feel, once you can. the key is surrender i think. so you have to trust them, yourself, and they have to trust you.

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