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Libralove09
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posted February 09, 2009 03:23 PM           Edit/Delete Message
is it typical for scorpio men to play hard to get? ( i wouldn't know)

is it common aswell that men play hard to get? or is it just the girlies?

do you think its nothing to do with astrology, or do you think some sign in particular, or signs, like to play this game? or hot-n-cold game lol.

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glamgem25
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posted February 09, 2009 03:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for glamgem25     Edit/Delete Message
I think its a typical game for both male and females. I have a scorpio moon and am crazy for this guy, but when I'm around him I practically ignore him and I argue with myself on WHY?!!! lol

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posted February 09, 2009 03:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message
I have Sun,Mercury,and Venus in Scorpio, and I don't play hard to get,and don't like when women play hard to get. I am 37 years old ,and so I feel that I am too old to be playing games like that and just would like to find a nice woman to settle down and have a family with. I feel that playing hard to get could send the wrong message about how I feel about a woman,and so she might not see that I am interested in her which would result in her getting involved with a man that she believes is far more interested than I am in her. I feel the same if a woman plays hard to get with me.

I am not sure what indicates a male playing hard to get.


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glamgem25
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posted February 09, 2009 03:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for glamgem25     Edit/Delete Message
glaucus-

You seem very knowledgeable in this..can you comment or give any feedback to my most recent post? Thanks!

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heart cakes
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posted February 09, 2009 03:44 PM           Edit/Delete Message
well i think it's a self-protective thing with scorpios, and not really an intention to deceive, in most cases. they TEST you and wanna make sure it's right before they'll do anything that might be construed as a leading-on, you know? i think they also wanna make sure you're really into them before they'll start to show their feelings. again, for self-protection.

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Libralove09
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posted February 09, 2009 03:46 PM           Edit/Delete Message
maybe nothing indicates it in the natal.

i completely agree with you also.

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Libralove09
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posted February 09, 2009 03:47 PM           Edit/Delete Message
that sounds about right heart cakes!

i wasn't implying scorpios do it for fun purposes, or for a purpose other than that.

i was wondering if its scorpio men who feel the need to 'use' this game, to be sure of revealing them selfs/

i guess in this world, playing hard to get against a woman isn't effective, unless shes a stubborn arien or taurus? or an obsessed scorpio haha

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Lucia23
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posted February 09, 2009 03:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message
Scorpio men have SUCH vulnerable, gooey innards underneath their sting-y carapaces that they definitely test you to make sure they can trust you before they open up. Some women (e.g. Leos) don't respond well to such tests, so everyone gets hurt.

The Scorpio men I know, including the promiscuous ones, really ARE hard to get, unless they've chosen you to be theirs. In which case they're a mixture of dangerously intense and vulnerable.

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Belage
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posted February 09, 2009 03:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message
Nevermind his sun sign. Find out his moon sign, his venus and his mars, and you'll have a better idea.

A Scorpio man with moon in Gemini, Venus in Libra, and Mars in Cancer might play hard to get.

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Libralove09
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posted February 09, 2009 03:55 PM           Edit/Delete Message
yeh, do u think then this is purley a scorpio trait? do you think other signs are known for this? gemini?

do you think an aspect could cause some one to wanna play these kind of games to test some one?

have you all had experiences of men playing hard to get against you? do you think its a really only a girls thing?

if not, do you think perhaps men with a feminine sign sun or venus or something, are prone to it?

or is it nothing to do with astrology, and its just an insecurity issue, or protective of ones feelings kind of thing?

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Libralove09
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posted February 09, 2009 03:58 PM           Edit/Delete Message
why those signs?

the scorpio and cancer part makes sense to me, the gemini part wouldn't surprise me, but why libra?

do you think pisces might play this kind of game?

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WaterDog
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posted February 09, 2009 08:49 PM           Edit/Delete Message
The real question is: what's the difference between playing hard to get, and just being hard to get?

If I knew how to tell them apart instantly, I'd be a happy gal.

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posted February 09, 2009 11:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for swirl-kitt     Edit/Delete Message
if a scorpio is not admitting it, then he/she might be seriously in love.. that is, if the other person is also only flirting and not admitting it. and that is, if the case does not involve a scorpio girl and a taurus guy. then she might as well make it really obvious.

but the greatest entertainment is to watch 2 scorpios, or a scorp and a cap, to act like they are friends when they have probably had upgraded fantasies of each other for weeks or months :O

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annaf
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posted February 10, 2009 06:18 AM           Edit/Delete Message
I guess my question/worry is always (with any sign) when someone acts ambiguous and elusive whether they are even r e a l l y interested.

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Libralove09
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posted February 10, 2009 06:29 AM           Edit/Delete Message
well, in this topic, my question is about when some one really does wan't some one, but for some reason, can only do the "play hard to get" game with that person, or hot n cold.

until they are sure or certain of the other person


so i was wondering, is this common in men too, or is it usually just ladies who might do this? is astrology a reason for this kind of 'testing'?

thats what my question is.

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annaf
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posted February 10, 2009 06:56 AM           Edit/Delete Message
I did understand your question. Well, hopefully some men will come on board this thread and give their side. From my own experience I have seen hot and cold behaviour from men (gemini, pisces influence), which triggered hot and cold behaviour from my side in return, and as a result nothing ever came of these connections whatever you want to call them. In all these cases I never found out whether their actions were triggered by self-protection (but interest) or just happened to be half-hearted flakiness.So my guess is if a man displays this kind of behaviour, women will just figure they are not interested, give up on them and will never know the real story. So yes, would be interesting to hear whether there are men out there who act ambiguous despite serious interest.

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Libralove09
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posted February 10, 2009 07:09 AM           Edit/Delete Message
lets say there is then annaf, do you think astrology could indicate this behaviour in a natal? hot n cold and play hard to get?

i was thinking scorpio.

but maybe its in the aspects, or sign and hous of there venus mars?

do alot of you ladies out there use this kind of behaviour? do you think it might be written in your natal?..

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annaf
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posted February 10, 2009 07:46 AM           Edit/Delete Message
to me this doesnt sound like scorpio at all. Yes, scorpio are very hard to open up, but all the scorpios (men and women) I know tend to be very, let's say 'focused' on the object of their affection. They might keep their feelings to themselves if the other person doesnt give clear signals or if they feel the other person isnt interested.But that's just reserve and has nothing to do with hot and cold. Those scorpios I know (or those with strong pluto/scorpio in their natals) I havent experienced like that at all and defitiely not as game players.

Also I think it depends on what kind of hot/cold you mean. Fickleness/undecidedness or fear of rejection. The former I have seen in men with strong gemini and being confused about their feelings I have seen in friends with strong neptune. But the latter, the'reserve because of fear' I strongly associate with capricorn and cancer placements. (i have that and I have seen that in a couple of friends with strong capricorn) I think the last guy I have been intensly interested might claim that I was playing games and from the outside my behaviour may have really looked confusing. But I really wasnt playing games, my hot/cold behaviour was just a reaction to his ambigous vibes, so it was just self-protection as mentioned by some other posters. Also I have a tendency to ignore anyone I'm strongly interested in, again I think this is classic for capricorn or rather venus in capricorn. But if someone I'm interested in gives me clear signs of interest, I will drop that immediately.

Well do you know any men who cover up their interest?

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Kismet
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posted February 10, 2009 09:53 AM           Edit/Delete Message
I had a horrible run-in with Scorp man last year. He was Scorpio Sun/Moon/Uranus and so it was all or nothing and all on his terms!

Don't forget that Scorpios are all about power. They like to have the power by remaining aloof untl they've decided that you are what they want. Then, watch out, you couldn't hide - even if you wanted to.

And, yes, they have gooey insides but will bite and sting first, cuddle later. Never has it been truer that still waters run deep than with Scorpios. He might seem like he's playing hard to get but actually behind the scenes he weighting up all of the pros and cons and testing whether you are going to a good bet. They are just as emotional as Cancerians but its all hidden from view.

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Scorp31
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posted February 10, 2009 11:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorp31     Edit/Delete Message
** To me this doesnít sound like Scorpio at all. Yes, Scorpio are very hard to open up, but all the Scorpios (men and women) I know tend to be very, let's say 'focused' on the object of their affection. They might keep their feelings to themselves if the other person doesnít give clear signals or if they feel the other person isnít interested. But that's just reserve and has nothing to do with hot and cold. **

Annaf you are dead on. Speaking from a personal point of view I could be a boiling caldron of molten passion and fiery lust but the object of my desire would never know unless I am absolutely sure there is something there, and I "test" to find that out.

Testing is not a game IMHO, I donít even consciously realize I am doing it, itís just a way we Scorpios clear the fog and get right down to the root of the persons core.

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Sun: Scorpio
Moon: Capricorn
Ascendant: Libra

Venus in Sagittarius
Mars in Sagittarius

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Libralove09
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posted February 10, 2009 11:34 AM           Edit/Delete Message
so what aspects or placements could make people prone to do this testing on a serious interest?

or is it not astrology..

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posted February 10, 2009 12:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemGemGem     Edit/Delete Message
LL, I don't think Geminis "play" hard to get. I think they actually "are" hard to get! LOL!

I honestly thing Sag's are the hardest to "get" and "keep" in the whole zodiac! Then all the air signs after that!

I think Aries likes when people play hard to get, cause they like the whole chase and pursue part!

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Libralove09
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posted February 10, 2009 12:53 PM           Edit/Delete Message
can't be aries, they are bold, and straight forward, and they chase, rather than be chased.

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