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librarising
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posted March 09, 2009 10:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for librarising     Edit/Delete Message
I have noticed there have been quite a few topics regarding this aspect and just recently bought a book that described it in a way I have never come across. I have this aspect in my chart and very much related to the description... Anyhow I just wanted to share the description to those that have been curious about the aspect:

"...mother of this individual plays an eccentric role when the person is a child. If the Moon symbolizes the mother and how she reacts to life, and her reactions inspire her child to react, to develop an emotional response to all life situations; and if the Uranus symbolizes the behavior pattern of a generation, as well as how we handle ourselves with others, then this square shows a person who is apt to abruptly end a relationship of any kind, for the Mother taught the pattern. This person feels that it's normal to end relationships abruptly, and that it's normal to make relationship decisions before discussing them with the other person. This produces brusque behavior with friends as well as lovers, family members and co-workers. This person can leave a job suddenly, or impetuously change his feelings about his present career. So, it can possibly indicate a person who has several careers over the years.
The most difficult part of this aspect manifests in personal relationships, for this individual doesn't give his partner an even break. When his feelings are hurt, he often plays the situation through in his head, and by the time he gets around to discussing the unpleasant situation with the loved one, he's really made the decision to end the relationship: any conversation regarding it is merely a polite form of speech. This aspect makes for lots of misunderstand in all types of relationships; the eccentric life reaction was learned from the mother because she was eccentric in her own way. If this person can remember the mother's relationships, how she handled her husband and friends or the rest of the family members, the behavior pattern can be broken. (Did have a friend one year and not the next?)When he understands where he got the pattern from, it can be easily resolved. In order to develop relationships that other people understand, this individual needs to recognize when his feelings are hurt, when animosity is beginning to build, so that the unpleasant life situations can be worked out instead of cut out. The alternative is to leave every unpleasant situation and start over and over again with new friends and new lovers. This doesn't help him handle the various cycles in life in a mature manner, for he never stays with anyone long enough to work through a crisis or a cycle.
Part of our development as we move from young adults to "Wise Old Man or Woman" is the growth caused by facing unpleasant situations and the working through of differences in personality, so that we can truly understand how someone else can "listen to the beat of a different drummer." In order to develop compassion or understanding, this awareness should be brought into consciousness.
This aspect gives potential for understanding, much personal growth, a chance to raise the consciousness to a high point, to break family patterns. When the creative energy burst forth, the square becomes more productive than the trine."

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lalalinda
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posted March 09, 2009 01:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message
Yes, Yes, and Yes

It sounds strange calling my mother eccentric but hey in this instance the shoe fits.
I was basically raised by my mother, not because my parents were divorced but because my Father was in the Military and he was mostly gone.

My Mom should have been a Nun
She was extremely naive and had a house full of kids by the time she was 26.
She had no working skills and when my father stopped sending her allotment she had to get busy and support all of us.

She was also very proud and excepted help from no one.
(she had a lot of guilt, she felt like it was her fault and it wasn't)

If you ask her today how she did it she will tell you
"I didn't do it alone, It was through the Grace of God"

My mother has the Moon conjunct Uranus
I have the square
my girls have the trine.

We're getting there

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Nightjar
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posted March 09, 2009 03:09 PM           Edit/Delete Message
Thank you for posting that, librarising

I don't have this aspect, but there's something that caught my eye, and I wanted to ask moon-uranus people if they find this to be true?

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If this person can remember the mother's relationships, how she handled her husband and friends or the rest of the family members, the behavior pattern can be broken. (Did have a friend one year and not the next?)When he understands where he got the pattern from, it can be easily resolved.

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lalalinda
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posted March 09, 2009 04:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message
Yeah like a Military dependant's life where you have to move, change schools, get new friends etc.

I just think of that as "dealing" with it
going with the flow (with Uranus)
or making the best of it
whatever keeps it positive.

anyone else?

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MyVirgoMask
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posted March 09, 2009 04:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
I hope I don't get kicked out of the club if I have the opposition and not the square, but I can relate a LOT to the article.
My mother was always abrupt and eccentric while I grew up and we changed residences a lot too. She has moon conjunct Uranus (and is an Aqua sun and rising to boot!)

"This person can leave a job suddenly, or impetuously change his feelings about his present career."

True, in a way - but this is just how it looks to people from the outside. Most of the time the change has been teeming inside the whole time.

"The most difficult part of this aspect manifests in personal relationships, for this individual doesn't give his partner an even break."

Not true, that whole section isn't really the whole picture. It's just what it looks like on the outside to the other person sometimes. Even if for years there's been talk to my partner (in my case it's been the way) about an issue, and then after mulling it over and trying, I hit a wall and decide I'm just done.

Maybe because I have the opposition and not the square? I dont know, I think Moon/Uranus excels at throwing people off-guard....even if they've talked about doing something until they're blue in the face, it's as though no one pays attention....and then they do it, and everyone is so shocked. Why? Sometime I think people don't pay attention, or don't want to. I don't think Moon/Uranus has a problem with changing habits or situations that feel wrong or off in some way.
It's always so weird when others involved don't see it coming even though it's been on the table for so long. It's only when it gets taken off the table do they notice!

Don't know if that makes sense.

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lalalinda
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posted March 09, 2009 04:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message
heck yeah it makes sense.

Interesting to note that we both come from Moon conjunct Uranus mothers.

Do you have daughters MVM?

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MyVirgoMask
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posted March 09, 2009 04:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
I don't have kids, Lalinda....but if I ever do, I hope it's a trine only as well lol

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librarising
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posted March 09, 2009 05:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for librarising     Edit/Delete Message
I changed numerous schools because my mother's constant moving, my mother had numerous friends that would be around and then one day be gone, she would gleefully talk about how she could "Cut people out of my life and not think twice about it.", she was a young single mother who went to college (unlike what statistics show of teenaged mothers and education), she'd have men fawn over her and they'd be gone once she was "through" with them, she was/is estranged from numerous family members, when I was 10 she decided to leave Rhode Island to "get away from everyone" and move to Arizona where we lived for two years... The list goes on and I think I divulged enough about her.
I find it quite easy to cut people off, no matter who they are to me or how important and/or how much I love(d) them. It's positive in the sense that I can easily detach myself from negative people but there has to be a negative to such behavior that I am not aware of. I will calculate and tally all the wrongs someone has done to me and eventually come to the conclusion that my life without a certain person is more beneficial. Once I make this decision I cut them out of my life, usually with the person having no idea what they did wrong or atleast be aware that I took notice to what they were intentionally doing. Examples of people intentionally doing certain things are people who will make back-handed compliments, indirect insults, are constantly late or lie ...I usually will never bring it up to them but mentally keep record of their actions and then one day when they try to call me they get hung up on or find that my number has been changed. I don't bring up such behavior because it's usually people who are content with such behavior and/or too ignorant to understand how their behavior comes across.
I sound like such a sweetheart.

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MyVirgoMask
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posted March 09, 2009 05:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
No, Librarising, it doesn't sound bad to me at all (guess I'm a real sweetheart too). I can relate to an extent (I don't say anything for a while either, but when I do, you're in for it....and my list tends to be quite long LOL).

I think the biggest challenge over the past few years has been to say something and make the observation come across as non-judgmental as possible, and clue in others. And I make sure to now, though it is hard (sometimes it's such basic stuff, I find it strange that others don't see what they do). But it strikes me as odd that even then people are so 'surprised' and shocked.

I guess that's what Uranus does.

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posted March 09, 2009 06:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for scrappydog     Edit/Delete Message
This sounds a lot like me, I have uranus in the 7th tightly semi-square my moon. This is more powerful than all of my mid to loose squares, it's been extremely "active" in my life. I can't stand to stay anywhere, I move somewhere I like then I just feel an overwhelming compunction to get up and go, this includes all the way across the country too. I'm an extremely erratic woman. I am also bad about getting mad about anything and just cutting people out like that, even after I've known them for years.

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posted March 09, 2009 06:19 PM           Edit/Delete Message
I lived my childhood by my mother's whims. When I was 12, she informed all her children that we were moving to Florida because 'it was too cold in Wisconsin' (the weather hadn't really changed in the decade and change that we'd lived there) in three days. Just an example, but I learned to stuff my feelings and just roll with the punches.

Like another poster mentioned, it may seem like I change my mind on a dime, but truly, I've been pondering the change for months or even years. I do let relationship problems percolate in my mind until I can discuss it without screeching, but rarely is it just a dump over a simple problem that can be resolved. Most often, I've voiced the same complaint over and over, gave several opportunities to change, and when it didn't happen, I was just DONE.

I switch friends quite a lot, but it wasn't a pattern I got from my family. Most often, it's a decision of the friend, or my decision after a very clear boundary violation (sexing up my man, for instance). I usually feel like I have a purpose to serve in the lives of the people who pop into mine, and once they get whatever message they were to get, they leave.

As a side note, I just realized that people tend to get really fantastic, satisfying, well-paying jobs after they meet me. Yet I never do...odd indeed.

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posted March 09, 2009 06:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
" I usually feel like I have a purpose to serve in the lives of the people who pop into mine, and once they get whatever message they were to get, they leave."

I can totally relate to this!

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librarising
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posted March 10, 2009 07:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for librarising     Edit/Delete Message
"When I was 12, she informed all her children that we were moving to Florida because 'it was too cold in Wisconsin' (the weather hadn't really changed in the decade and change that we'd lived there) in three days."
Sounds familiar to my move.

Despite whatever negative that is associated with this aspect I find it entertaining.

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posted March 10, 2009 08:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
I think this aspect feels to me like the voice that pipes in and just says the most random thing. If I'm sitting in a room with very serious people, I have to fight this weird overwhelming urge to not start laughing uncontrollably, imagining overripe blueberries raining from the ceiling or something.

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posted March 10, 2009 09:16 AM           Edit/Delete Message
My mother has moon (Scorpio) opposing Uranus which in turn forms a T-square with her Aqua Sun.
My mother was 3 years of age when her own mother died from a massive heart attack, she was only in her early twenties.

My mother had 5 children
4 of those 5 children have Aqua moons,
2 of those 4 have moon in aspect to Uranus (1 square, 1 opposition).
The other has Leo moon conjunct Uranus, technically not conjunct but both involved in a stellium.

I experienced her as the coldest and most cruel human being I have ever met to this day.
Another family member describes her much more kindly – “The lights are on but no-ones home”.
I was terrified of my mother, her volatile temper was really freaky.
We moved so many, many times, always without any notice, no chance to say goodbye to school friends. Here one day and gone the next.

She once told me ‘It was easy to cut myself off emotionally but I just couldn’t cut myself off financially’. Considering the context of the surrounding story, the only thing I can offer her is to try to sympathize with her - from afar, very very afar. Three years ago I saw her for the first time in 28 years. We talk briefly about once a year.

I have the Moon/Uranus conjunction (by stellium).
I am quite level headed in my friendships but I am erratic in relationships. Unfortunately I get bored easily so the Leo creates the scene and then Uranus makes a run for it.
I really need to make the effort NOT to get my drama kick from the man who seems to put up with whatever I dish out. He has an Aqua Moon (so he’s probably the best qualified for the job). His sister has the conjunction. His mother has the square. His father has the trine.

My daughter does not have a Moon/Uranus aspect, although she does have them almost parallel with a 2 degree orb.

Hopefully its getting better.

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