posted March 14, 2009 12:28 AM           

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I'm posting the aspect of the composite chart of myself and the guy I'm involved with. For five months we have been very close...almost withdrawn from society. Our sexual and emotional live was very intense and potentially healing to us both. It was like psychotherapy. Recently, he left me to return to his home country, and now I'm crushed. I feel like half of a person, and I can't seem to shake the depression. Please give me some feedback regarding our composite and any future information you could offer that could either give me hope or help me to come to terms with the harsh reality. Thanks in advance.

Sun Gemini 26°41'26 in house 9
Moon Scorpio 19°20'26 in house 2
Mercury Gemini 17°18'35 in house 9
Venus Gemini 14°02'50 in house 9
Mars Gemini 1°28'12 in house 9
Jupiter Cancer 22°25'54 in house 10
Saturn Gemini 18°01'09 in house 9
Uranus Libra 17°59'45 in house 1
Neptune Sagittarius 4°39'01 in house 3
Pluto Libra 1°30'24 in house 1
True Node Capricorn 17°54'19 in house 4
Chiron Aries 17°44'31 in house 7

HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)Ascendant Virgo 28°56'54
2nd House Libra 25°51'58
3rd House Scorpio 26°23'51
Imum Coeli Sagittarius 29°11'10
5th House Aquarius 1°49'30
6th House Pisces 2°07'14
Descendant Pisces 28°56'54
8th House Aries 25°51'58
9th House Taurus 26°23'51
Medium Coeli Gemini 29°11'10
11th House Leo 1°49'30
12th House Virgo 2°07'14

HIM ME
Sun Square Mercury 0.28 -369
Sun Trine Venus 2.17 137
Sun Trine Mars 0.52 143
Sun Sextile Jupiter 0.28 121
Sun Conjunction Saturn 3.08 137
Sun Square Uranus 2.08 -114
Moon Opposition Venus 1.29 87
Moon Opposition Mars 1.39 -109
Moon Trine Jupiter 1.16 101
Moon Conjunction Pluto 3.49 82
Venus Square Sun 2.59 -161
Venus Trine Moon 3.03 99
Venus Trine Neptune 2.53 47
Jupiter Trine Mercury 0.56 94
Jupiter Square Jupiter 0.57 -112
Jupiter Sextile Uranus 1.40 40
Pluto Square Moon 0.22 -125
1088 -990

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posted March 14, 2009 09:01 AM         

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I'm sorry you are crushed. I don't know why love has to be so painful. It shouldn't be that way at all.

I hope you get some satisfaction with your astro details...

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posted March 14, 2009 09:17 AM         

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wow, are you all 3 earth signs in sun/moon/AC?

No wonder you are crushed.... i'm sorry.

Can you post the synastry please, if you are happy to?
(including karma, valentine, amor, juno)

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posted March 14, 2009 10:20 AM           

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Yes I'm sun/Taurus, moon/Capricorn, and Asc./Virgo. My venus and mars are Aries. Ouch, right? And both in the 7th house of partnerships.

He's a sun/Leo, moon/Libra, Asc./Virgo. His venus is Leo and his mars is Cancer. His venus is in the 12th house of secrets and sorrow.

We met both in the process of considering divorce from our spouses. I chose to divorce, and he went back to his wife. I'm glad I chose divorce because I was unhappy to begin with, but he seems stuck in his marriage because of business reasons. It seemed he couldn't do without the social power that accompanies his marriage. Thus the Leo (I hear they usually seek fame.) leaves the Taurus (who seeks stable, tangible relationships). Both he and I spent the last two years searching for true love. However, when I found it, I was ready to jump in. But for some reason, him finding me made him realize just how important his social life was to him. In a way we found ourselves through one another. But I was all too happy to live in the love/bliss for eternity. True love was the reason I left my marriage. Heck, I'm a Taurus and I even left my husband the house and everything in it. Instead, the Leo used the love/bliss to propel his career. He said I helped him to gain confidence; I'm ten years younger than he is. Now he's gone and has made no effort to contact me. I feel used and abandoned. Funny thing is that all he left me was a house full of furniture. Why on earth do I keep acquiring all this furniture and no love? I hate furniture (brooding Taurus )

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posted March 14, 2009 10:25 AM         

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How sad and yet when l read your last post l sense a real awakening and a fundamental lesson learnt.

I am also taurus sun/mars and l hate furniture too lol
I'm aries moon/venus and aqua AC.

Im so sorry that you are going through this pain. It's horrible when your love with another awakens them to realising you are not wha they want.
grrr

Everything happens for a reason l believe and at least now you are more aware and are out of your marriage, have had a great love experience and are now open for the right man to enter.

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posted March 14, 2009 10:55 AM           

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Wow! Both moon and venus in aries . That's quite lucky. I don't mean to seem so surprise, but as I've said, my moon is cap and my ven. is aries. It's like my emotions and love nature are intrigued by one another and yet frustrating one another at the same time. For this reason, I am always either sexually attracted to someone or emotionally attracted to someone, but usually not both. The problem is that with this guy I speak of, I had both for a short time. Must of been our virgo ascendent.

And now that I think of it, that was the problem with my marriage--emotionally but not sexually attracted. Furthermore, my husband and I are still good friends. Actually, we've counseled one another through several relationships since us. So I guess I have an option here. Stay single and play or get married and suffer...hmmm, maybe that furniture may come in handy after all. I wonder what condos are costing these days. Enjoy your moon/venus connection. I can't imagine having love and sex for too long with the same person.

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posted March 15, 2009 12:13 AM         

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I've been there 2 years ago Taurus..It was the most painful time in my life..
I hope you feel better soon..Best Wishes..

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