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Topic: how does someone with leo sun/moon get over what people think of them?
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gorgeousbutterfly unregistered
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posted March 18, 2009 05:52 AM
i care waaaaaaaaaaaaay too much on what others think, if someone has a negative opinion of me, it greatly hurts me when i hear about it. i get very very sad and sometimes i cry. i'm just too sensitive IP: Logged |
Peri Moderator Posts: 147 From: Ukraine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 18, 2009 06:14 AM
maybe you should realize that what others think of you has mostly to do with them not youthere always, always will be someone who has a negative opinion of you ... how old are you? IP: Logged |
gorgeousbutterfly unregistered
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posted March 18, 2009 12:30 PM
old enough to not carebtw, i was born in ukraine :P IP: Logged |
Peri Moderator Posts: 147 From: Ukraine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 18, 2009 12:37 PM
cool! IP: Logged |
Lucia23 Knowflake Posts: 36 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 18, 2009 11:09 PM
Well, I have no idea! Leo Sun/Merc, Cancer Moon/Saturn/Venus here, and I care waaaay too much what people think of me, and I am waaay too old to care that much.One thing that I've found helps is spending as much time as possible with people who inspire me, live in the present moment, enjoy life and who do NOT JUDGE ME or others. With people who judge me--either by putting me down, scrutizing me a lot, or even in seemingly positive ways you might think a Leo would love (telling me how smart or beautiful I am, etc)--it makes me focus waaay too much on how well I'm performing and creating an IMAGE. With friends who don't judge me, I can just hang out and really live my life and not think about images so much. Other things that help as I get older are yoga, meditation, trying to live in the present moment, and acts of bravery--trying things even if I'm bad at them. (As a teen Leo/Cancer I had to be perfect at EVERYTHING.) Also, the more good Leo things are in your life (creativity, children, romance, play, fun, drama, and true love), the easier the challenge. IP: Logged | |