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savanna20
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posted March 25, 2009 12:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for savanna20     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This article was interesting-http://www.californiapsychics.com/articles/Newsletter/3153/Bad_Love_by_Sign.aspx

You know the drill... the couple in your social circle who fight all the time but can't seem to stay away from each other. They break up and you breathe a sigh of relief, only to hear they've gotten back together - again. Whether you're willing to stomach that much stress in your relationship is up to you.

However, using this handy astology guide to know what you may be getting into may save you a lot of torture in love later on. It's always a good idea to look at which signs you might want to absolutely, positively avoid pairing up with. While sustained effort to make things work can glue two people together, such pairings demand an extraordinary amount of work.


Squared pairs
Here's the deal. Signs that form a 90 degree angle to each other (or three signs apart) are in a challenging "square" aspect, or influence. For instance, Aries and Cancer are "squared" signs. If a couple have a square between their Suns (individuality), Moons (emotions) or Venuses (relationship needs), their needs and temperaments will clash. Which isn't to say their relationship is doomed - determining compatibility is a complex art, and other elements between two charts can smooth over some of the rough edges in a union. And many of these squared pairs make fine friendships. Still, it probably won't be an easy intimate relationship. So get out your chart and check your Sun, Moon and Venus signs. Then look at the squared pairs below to see which signs spell trouble for your love life.



All couples disagree no matter what their gender Fixed signs: Taurus, Leo, Aquarius, Scorpio-

Stubbornness and a clash of wills can derail fixed-sign pairs. Compromise is difficult because egos usually get in the way of cooperation. Shared creativity and dividing up responsibilities (so one person doesn't infringe on the other) can improve their chances for success.

Taurus-Leo: Leo's fiery temperament can overwhelm Taurus's slower, practical nature. Leo sees Taurus as stagnant and boring, while Taurus views Leo as extravagant and egocentric.

Taurus-Aquarius: Taurus is instinctual and grounded, while Aquarius is intellectually oriented and forward-thinking. Taurus sees Aquarius as irresponsible and unrealistic, while Aquarius sees Taurus as pedantic and unimaginative.

Leo-Scorpio: Whether in love or at work, this is the power-pair of the zodiac (think Bill and Hillary Clinton, Melinda and Bill Gates, and Barack Obama and Joe Biden). Emotional ties are difficult, however, because Leo views Scorpio as secretive and withholding, while Scorpio sees Leo as demanding and childish.

Aquarius-Scorpio: Aquarius is super-friendly and emotionally objective, while Scorpio is passionate, possessive and needs plenty of time alone. Aquarius sees Scorpio as jealous, irrational and reclusive, while Scorpio views Aquarius as superficial, unpredictable and uncaring.


Cardinal signs: Aries, Cancer, Libra, Capricorn
Cardinal signs are ambitious, but in different ways. A clash of goals and how they go about achieving them make this pairing difficult. Mutual respect and good communication can improve their chances for success.

Aries-Cancer: Aries's headstrong temperament and need for excitement can clash with Cancer's sensitive, home-loving nature. Aries sees Cancer as timid and clingy, while Cancer views Aries as selfish and rash.

Aries-Capricorn: Aries's penchant for risk-taking can rattle Capricorn's need for security. Aries sees Capricorn as dull and materialistic, while Capricorn sees Aries as immature and foolhardy.

Cancer-Libra: Being emotionally oriented, Cancer can clash with Libra's intellectual nature. Cancer views Libra as a social butterfly with little emotional depth, while Libra sees Cancer as moody and closed-minded.

Capricorn-Libra: Capricorn can seem overly serious and duty-bound to Libra's idealistic, social nature. Capricorn views Libra as a lazy romantic, while Libra views Capricorn as an aloof workaholic.


Mutable signs: Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius, Pisces
Mutable signs usually have a lot going on, so these pairings can lack the focus and commitment it takes to make their relationships work. Placing a higher value on emotional closeness and creating time for each other can improve their chances for success.

Gemini-Virgo: Ruled by intellectual Mercury, this pairing can lack emotional depth. And Virgo's pragmatic nature can clash with Gemini's flightiness. Gemini sees Virgo as overly dutiful and security-oriented, while Virgo sees Gemini as flaky and two-faced.

Gemini-Pisces: There's a clash between head and soul with this pairing. Pisces is spiritually oriented, while Gemini is logical. Gemini sees Pisces as deluded and irrational, while Pisces views Gemini as spiritually shallow.

Virgo-Sagittarius: For Virgo, it's all about the details, while Sagittarius sees the wider horizon. Virgo views Sagittarius as a commitment-phobic rolling stone, while Sagittarius sees Virgo as judgmental and cautious.

Pisces-Sagittarius: Pisces is sensitive and imaginative, while Sagittarius is adventurous and straightforward. Pisces sees Sagittarius as caustic and fiery, while Sagittarius sees Pisces as passive and fearful.

If you discover some incompatible elements in your relationship, don't despair. No relationship is perfect. And yes, it can be a long-lasting love. Only your souls know for sure if you're meant to be together, forever.

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Lara
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posted March 25, 2009 12:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Taurus-Leo: Leo's fiery temperament can overwhelm Taurus's slower, practical nature. Leo sees Taurus as stagnant and boring, while Taurus views Leo as extravagant and egocentric.

huh? wow.. that's not my experience of leo having dated them for 20 years

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darkdreamer
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posted March 25, 2009 12:59 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lara,

that is only a general description.

You with your Aries stellium will probably have a different connection to Leos.

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aqua/scorp
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posted March 25, 2009 01:04 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
DD's right and you def exude Arien energy.

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Lara
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posted March 25, 2009 01:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
true!! I never thought of that.. actually it's spot on cos l do get ruffled by cancer/capricorn

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posted March 25, 2009 02:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for songwriter     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"Taurus-Leo: Leo's fiery temperament can overwhelm Taurus's slower, practical nature. Leo sees Taurus as stagnant and boring, while Taurus views Leo as extravagant and egocentric."

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Lucia23
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posted March 25, 2009 04:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah, people with Aries stellia tend to think we Leos are just lotsa fun!

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sunshine_lion
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posted March 25, 2009 04:03 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
aries and leos have lots of fun together.

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posted March 25, 2009 04:07 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I get along with Sags though and there is no Sag influence in me except Mars in the 9th house and Eros in Sag. I could see myself in a relationship with a Sag, they have that laid back and easy going personality that I kinda like.

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Lara
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posted March 25, 2009 04:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
They do! I have that 6'7 hunk of a Leo Adonis fome the guess the AC thread coming to dinner in 15 mins!!!

My Aries stellium is currently doing loop the loop haha

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posted March 26, 2009 04:25 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"Taurus-Leo: Leo's fiery temperament can overwhelm Taurus's slower, practical nature. Leo sees Taurus as stagnant and boring, while Taurus views Leo as extravagant and egocentric."

i'm a leo, i've known a loooooooot of tauruses, although not all of them are like this, i find them too slow and boring. but if they have fire in there chart they seem more fun to me. i think they see me as childish though, but i don't know if that's because they also had some cap influence. i'm a kid at heart. :P

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Got Gemini?
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posted March 26, 2009 08:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Got Gemini?     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've ALWAYS thought you were an Aries Lara LOL! It was when you posted that thread about your chart rectification that I found out you were a Taurus. However, you definetley act like an Aries LOL!

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Gemini Sun 24˚
Libra Moon 14˚(conjunct Pluto 0˚ in 2nd house)
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And yes, i'm a guy!

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posted March 30, 2009 12:50 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow I feel like I'm the opposite of that with Leo's. They have never yelled at me. I have yelled at two of them and they didn't yell back they just kind of took it. Then I appologized after because I felt bad and I knew they were mad at me. They were like no worries, don't worry about it. Totally didn't hold a grudge. I have some fire though maybe thats why! They also do anything I ask them to do.

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posted August 05, 2021 09:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MoonMystic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Can't help but wonder if this could be the issue with a particular Sagittarius and
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Hikaru29
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posted August 06, 2021 02:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
“Taurus-Leo: Leo's fiery temperament can overwhelm Taurus's slower, practical nature. Leo sees Taurus as stagnant and boring, while Taurus views Leo as extravagant and egocentric.”

This is me and my mom. She says I’m stubborn; I say she’s over-controlling and egoistic.

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Randall
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posted August 09, 2021 03:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump!

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