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Libralove09
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posted April 09, 2009 03:36 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
what are usually considered powerful relationship aspects without being sexual ones, but more love?

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Got Gemini?
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posted April 09, 2009 03:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Got Gemini?     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus conjunct or trine Moon. Moon conjunct Moon. Mercury trine Mercury. Venus trine or conjunct Mercury. Venus trine or conjunct Sun. Sun trine or conjunct Moon. Neptune trine or conjnct Moon and/or Venus. Asc harmonious aspect to any personal point.

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Virgo Asc 6˚& Mars 0˚
Gemini Sun 24˚
Libra Moon 14˚(conjunct Pluto 0˚ in 2nd house)
Gemini Mercury 25˚
Cancer Venus 29˚ (Mutual reception with Moon)
And yes, i'm a guy!

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Mama Mia
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posted April 09, 2009 04:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have a few of those and they feel really good. ITs there even when we are apart..


Sun Conjunct Moon

With Sun conjunct Moon in the composite chart, the two of you will have a single- mindedness of purpose that is usually lacking in other relationships. This aspect is especially good in the chart of a love relationship. It indicates that you are truly complementary partners.

Your relationship has the potential for bringing something new into the world. This position indicates that you are somehow more complete as a partnership than as individuals.

Sun Conjunct Venus

The conjunction of Sun and Venus in the composite chart is one of the strongest indications of a love relationship between two people, even in a friendship. It does not primarily indicate a sexual relationship; instead it signifies love, pure and simple. The attraction indicated by this aspect is so powerful that it can bring together people who are incompatible by ordinary criteria.

If the relationship is laden with conflicts, even a strong feeling of love between you may turn to hatred. In most cases, however, this will be a very fine personal relationship.

Moon Conjunct Venus

The conjunction of composite Moon and composite Venus is a most positive aspect for any personal relationship. It indicates a strong feeling of love between you that you will express openly. The relationship may even have something of a dreamy quality, as if it were too beautiful to be true.

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posted April 09, 2009 04:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would add Venus in conjunction,opposition,trine,sextile Midheaven

also Venus in conjunction,opposition,trine,sextile Ascendant

also Moon in
conjunction,opposition,trine,sextile Ascendant

also Moon in
conjunction,opposition,trine,sextile Midheaven

Ascendant oppose Ascendant
(the same as Ascendant conjunct each other's Descendant)


Ascendant conjunction,opposition,trine,sextile Midheaven

Midheaven conjunction,opposition,trine,sextile Midheaven


btw...I consider the Midheaven as the "I like the cosmobiologists and uranian astrologers do. I don't see it as career like mainstream astrologers do.


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darkdreamer
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posted April 09, 2009 04:10 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So basically flowing and easy aspects of Moon and Venus to personal planets / angles and Neptune.

Personally I would also include Moon-Jupiter and Venus-Jupiter, very generous and feeling-good-like.

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Libralove09
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posted April 09, 2009 04:21 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thanks for these responses!

i love sun - venus aspects.

obviously the sun conjunct venus is most powerful.

how do Tight trine and sextile aspects between sun and venus feel in comparison to eachother?

i currently know 3 girls with sun venus aspect to my chart, but all different ones -

conjunct, trine, and sextile.

the sextile has there venus in my 11th, (aqua house, aqua dsc here, venus gemini aqua decan) tight sextile to my sun. this person is whom im most interested in.

can sextile's still be powerful and offer the same type of feeling between two people?


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belgz
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posted April 09, 2009 05:25 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mamma mia those interpretations are for a composite chart.

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Sun.. Cancer

Moon.. Gemini

Mars.. Cancer

Mercury.. Cancer

Venus.. Leo

Ascendant....... Virgo

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Geocosmic Valentine
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posted April 09, 2009 06:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geocosmic Valentine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Don't forget Saturn. Part of relationships is support, respect, wisdom, honesty-truth. Sun sextile or trine Saturn, Moon sextile or trine Saturn.

I'm only mentioning the sextiles and trines because the conjunction, square and opposition can be unpleasant and difficult.

But it all depends on who you both are and what you both need from relationships. Just wanted to remind you that Saturn needs to be in there if you want some stability and support.

Mild Uranus aspects are necessary, also. Especially if you want excitement (not sexually) and a constant feeling of freshness, new-ness and adventure.

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Libralove09
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posted April 09, 2009 06:11 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
the person i currently like, has saturn trine my venus, and my saturn is conjunct my 7th house ruler, and my 7th house ruler is in capricorn.

tbh, i feel way more a stable person than her. lol

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posted April 09, 2009 06:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geocosmic Valentine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Does "tbh" mean to be honest?

If it does, I imagine that you feel more stable than a lot of people. It might be one of your lessons to understand that you are the stable one in relationships so that your significant other fly a little higher.

Or...

You can learn about freedom from your significant other.

I'm just throwing out ideas, potentials, I could be completely off base. Only you know for sure.

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posted April 09, 2009 07:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venusmars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmmm..
maybe some of you remember the leo guy I was with last summer..he was my friend,then we started a relationship,we have many mutual friends he didnt want to tell about our relationship to anyone,it lasted 3 months and I saw him with another woman at a restaurant and its over..I dont talk to him ever since(although he came to my work place couple of times)I am totally ignoring him..

Hmmm..because in our synastry we got nearly all aspects you mentioned above..

his sun sextile my venus exact

his jupiter sextile my venus exact

venus-venus sextile

his sun trine my moon

his venus trine my moon

his jupiter trine my moon

all under 2 degrees..

his neptune conjunct my moon

his pluto conjunct my venus(3,5 deg)

his moon sextile my saturn..etc..

we have mercury sq.mercury but arent these

great aspects enough??

Dont get me wrong..I dont love him

anymore,I dont even like him..But I have to

confess that this relationship is the

biggest astrological mystery to me..

I mean I am not expecting a life long

marriage from this synastry but I generally

remain friends with my exs..

This is new to me..I was expecting more

from this easy synastry..So I basically

agree the aspects you wrote above but you

see, it isnt always enough,even for a

friendship

It depends on your natal aspects I guess and what you need from a relationship..


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Lucia23
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posted April 09, 2009 09:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venusmars, I agree that it depends on what you want and need based on your natal chart.

Since I started looking carefully at my own and other's synastry, I've noticed that some people are very much more drawn to challenging aspects--squares, tough Saturn, Mars, and Pluto contacts, lots of friction. It all depends on the individuals and what they look for in love. Similarly, some people might be more drawn to conventional love house overlays (1st, 5th, 7th, 8th)...while others are more lured in by lots of 9th or 10th house contacts. What is considered important all depends on the individuals.

Sort of like how some people's idea of great romance involves marriage, two kids and a house in the suburbs...while other people's involves a two-year round-the-world-trip, lots of sex, and never ever getting married...and other's would involve being a Power Couple together.

However, in synastry between couples with mutual connections/attractions/romantic feelings of all kinds, I notice:
-snugly conjunct angles (AC, DC, MC, IC)
-double-whammy aspects (including to asteroids)
-mutual node contacts

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posted April 10, 2009 06:06 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree with looking at the natals first:

Let`s say you have no conventional houses overlay, but your Venus and Mars are in 10th and 11th house and the ruler of your 5th, 7th and 8th house are also in 10th and 11th house. I guess it would not be too hard to figure out that you might be very attracted if someone had significant planets in your 10th and 11th house.

VenusMars-

it`s not all about the easy aspects, you have to see what is there beside those.
First of all the natals as you mentioned, and secondly what about hard aspects of Saturn, Uranus, Neptune, Pluto or even Mars?

Maybe there are some personal planets in conflict?
Mercury square Mercury is very often quite a challenge, especially if Mercury rules 1st, 5th, 7th or 8th house or falls into those houses.

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Libralove09
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posted April 10, 2009 06:37 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
my chart is mixed up a bit, my mars is in the 2nd, my venus is in the 3rd, widely conjunct my mercury.

im unsure which cusp my 5th is on - scorpio or sag. but i think its sag. if its sag my ruler of the 5th is in the 11th, if its scorp its in the 4th.

my 7th house is aqua, ruler is in my 5th in capricorn. my 8th & 7th house ruler is in the 5th too.

i dno why i wrote all that.. heres my chart lol

synastry with person of interest (no birth time as of yet - set it to mid day, moon in middle position of time?)

composite?

i see some easy aspects, but not particularly powerful ones ? i wouldn't mind seeing more asteroids but i don't know which ones or what numbers they are. i think we a fair few /juno/eros/venus/psyche aspects though.

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posted April 10, 2009 08:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for koiflower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Glaucus - Do cosmobiologists and uranian astrologers consider the Midheaven as an ego? What we drive toward? Our desire?

Thanks,

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posted April 10, 2009 08:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

This is from Ruth Brummond's Rulebook. She's a Uranian Astrologer. It can also be used for Cosmobiology which is an offshoot of Uranian Astrology that doesn't use hypothetical planets and planetary pictures like the Uranian Astrologers do.


MC : Midheaven : PSY: The individual's personal awareness or consciousness.
MANIFESTATIONS : The spirit. The psyche. Consciousness. The Ego. That which is "me" or "mine". The individual. Inner character. Inner nature. Life goals or aspirations. The conscious mind. The moment. The minute. The character of a city [in locational astrology].


SU : Sun : PSY: + energetic. indefatigable. able-bodied. strong. achievement-oriented.
MANIFESTATIONS : Archetypal Man. Humanity. Person. Being. Physical body. Physical manifestation. Vitality. Material substance. The day. The years.
MED/CHEM: Vitality. The heart. The living cell. The element Gold [Au].
- forceful. [overbearing.]


This is for Venus-Midheaven combo:

MC.VE.*
+ giving. event-tempered. agreeable. sympathetic. benevolent. engaging. desirous. people-oriented. aesthetically-conscious. has good taste. has a good sense of texture, color, and form. artistically gifted.
Inner balance. Feeling of love. To experience affection. To be attractive. To enjoy sympathy or popularity. My enjoyment. Personal preference. One's own desires. My hobby. Me and art.
- takes for granted. narcissistic. vain. has cravings.

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posted April 10, 2009 08:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for koiflower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks, Glaucus

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posted April 10, 2009 07:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Neptune conjunct, sextile or trine sun, moon, or venus. Neptune symbolizes the highest love, and people with these aspects are able to tolerate and forgive each other which is essential for long term happy relationships.

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posted June 07, 2023 02:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vansio     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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