posted April 16, 2009 09:12 PM           

I appreciate any time anyone could spare. Thanks in advance.

posted April 16, 2009 09:26 PM           

Both 7th house rulers (Marriage) are conjunct, which is the best aspect you can get. To me, you two seem ideal or marriage based on that indication alone.

I hear a lot of things, most of it is untrue.
Lots of same planets can be good, yes, but need to look at individual bits. More than just signs.

posted April 16, 2009 10:28 PM           

Both 3rd rulers are conjunct - excellent for communication.

Lots of similar planets bunched togther. Which means lots of conjunctions - best aspect. Sexile and trines too.
The planets do spread out a bit which does mean "bad" aspects like Qunicunx, Square and opposition.

All together, A very good synastry combination with some challenging bits. That sounds like a normal healthy relationship.
A very good one at that, just maybe different sex drives being the major worry.

You could have a great sex life even. Best to check out the composite, with the two very similar charts you have here.

Two people that are alike get bored?
It is possible. I think that people who say that just make excuses for not wanting to be with someone good for them. It is good, nice and easy, so something must be wrong.

You would be good friends if you chose that option as the area of sex is likely to cause problems. If you take the relationship and remove the sex, you would be friends.

posted April 16, 2009 10:46 PM         

Other than that, your communication looks good for now, but this comparison chart, too me, looks like you will both have one of those long and miserable relationships because of his Saturn conjunct your Moon and your Saturn opposite his Mercury.

That's a very high probability of pure depression between the two of you. Saturn depressing the emotions (Moon) and the mind (Mercury). If I saw that I had that with a guy, I don't know if I'd take the chance.

There looks to be some sexual chemistry because of the Uranus opposite Mars you both have, but it also suggests anger. Do both of you have problems with instant anger or rage. It seems you may both have it individually not just with each other. If not, perhaps you are both technological geniuses.

posted April 16, 2009 10:50 PM           

I'm actually wanting someone who could compliment me and ground me and he seems like one who I could respect enough to listen to. We have not met in person yet. I've been waiting for the Venus retro to be over to move forward with anything...didn't want to jinx it I need all the help I can get...haha! I usually rush into things but this time I want to take it slow and let things develop at a natural pace and really get to know him unlike i've done in the past. He says he really wants a family and to settle down and that's what I want as well so I'm taking it slow. Thank you for your time I really appreciate it.

Here's the composite if you have any extra time to take a look.

posted April 16, 2009 11:07 PM           

1st and 8th rulers are conjunct in house 10.
his can indicate all good things relating to house 8, such as: SEX, sharing resources, SEX, and even more!
With Sag on the 8th cusp, hat can mean a lot of it, maybe even "foreign" practices.
Jupiter is in house 10, which can mean outdoors.

There is a square to Jupiter from Uranus.
Might say something about after/during/before talk when doing it. Could get a little weird.

On top of that, there is a trine between 1st and 7th rulers, Venus and Pluto. Yeah it is good.

posted April 16, 2009 11:28 PM           

Wow not the Saturn thing. I believe I read that the Saturn person feels obligated to the Moon person who starts to feel oppressed(sp?) emotionally. I hope this is something that can be worked out. Could it be a trust and security thing?

Communication does seem to be open and honest and flowing. He says he doesn't want somebody that lies because even though the truth hurts it's still better for both people in the end. He's already told me alot of things about himself and his family and I'm in listening mode right now just absorbing all I can and asking a lot of questions...may be my Cancer Moon being cautious

Instant anger...well only when my 8 year old daughter gets on my last nerves I can blow up...lol. I don't really like to argue in relationships I guess I've just outgrown the fussing and the fighting. That relationship with the Sag left me drained. I just don't have the energy for those love/hate relationships anymore. He was also in a relationship for 5 years and remains single by choice. He says he's very picky and wants Ms. Right and not Ms. Right Now. I've worked on my communication skills more since I've been single because I used to hold everything in until it exploded but now I find that addressing things and not letting them build up is much easier on the blood pressure.

As far as technology goes I am in the computer IT field and he is a retail manager. So we are both familiar with technology but far from geniuses...lol.

posted April 16, 2009 11:39 PM           

Do I need to start stocking up on the "toys"...LOL! May not need that Viagra after all *dances a jig*

posted April 17, 2009 01:36 AM           

I want never gets.

Or......

Your wish is my command.

Stock up on as many toys as you want
Doubt you will need the viagra.

What you say about companion is good. Your 7th ruler is placed in Aquarius, the sign of friends. I guess you can have "companion"
and "friend" as the same thing.
His 7th ruler is in Aquarius too. You both want the same thing.