posted April 26, 2009 02:17 AM         

between the ages of 23 and 37.!.!.!

Stand up and be counted, will you?

If your Venus is between 11 and 29 degrees Cancer, I'm starting to think there arent any of you out there! List the degree and any aspects please. And, heck, list all your other placements and aspects, too, if you feel like it. And feel free to mention whether or not you have a soft spot for eccentric, unemployed ego-maniacs suffering from terminal romanticism (terminal, that is, if a cancerian cure cannot be found!). Also, if your Ascendant is around 20 degrees Cancer, and your Venus isnt a total meany pants, then, by all means, post away! Venus/Moon is a good one too. Post!! And say something sweet. And, heck, if your Venus is between 0 and 5 degrees Leo, you're invited too. Post and say something glorious. I love you. Oh, and last but not least, if your Venus is at 15 degrees Pisces, will you marry me?

Okay, I think thats everything.

Let's see where this goes.

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Caring. You seem to want to know and understand the feelings or fears of the one you would flirt with. (If you are male, you come across as "a sensitive guy".) You offer emotional support or a shoulder to cry on, and might become the confidante or confessor for the one you desire. The Cancer style is subtle, and to flirt does not mean overt.

Nurturing. You care for one's comfort and cater to one's emotional needs. Call it the "care bear" strategy. Cuddling and coddling is part of the care bear mating ritual. Feeding is a form of nurturing, and offering food is a form of flirtation for Venus in Cancer. An invitation to a home-cooked dinner may set the scene for seduction. Even the suggestion to split a pizza may mean more than a passing interest.

Mothering. Fussing over the object of your affections is an indication of interest. You may act like a mother (or father) to the one you would entice - not necessarily a "romantic" role, but one that can successfully seduce that certain someone. You pamper the one you desire and cater to their comfort (and might unconsciously call them "baby" more often than you or they are noticing).

Protective. You make one feel safe from harm or emotional hurts. The more of your affection they attract, the more protective you will act.

Secure. You seem to offer a safe haven, a secure future, or a home base (and you might even mention that you are a home-owner or talk about your house). You seem like someone who could make one feel "at home", secure in the knowledge that they "belong" somewhere and are cared for. An invitation into your home is an invitation to romance.

Rooted. You value "family" and family traditions, and you value the past. Interest in someone's family means interest in them, so flirting may involve family pictures, family facts, or family history. You might offer help in finding one's roots or lost relatives. An invitation to meet YOUR family is not a flirtation, but a courtship.

posted April 26, 2009 03:09 AM         

I thought I'd find you here!

Truth is, its as real as anything
you're likely to see on these boards.

And, if I do say so myself,
its a rather daringly honest,
time-saving experiment.

Chances are,
it'll turn up nothing.

But, hey, I tried.

And I'm the only one who did.

I love me.

posted April 26, 2009 03:13 AM         

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Cancers dont like too much pressure either,
or they withdraw into shell.

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Good point.

No pressure. No pressure!!!!!

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A Cancer without tradition isnt really a Cancer.
Astrologically at least.

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True.
But there is no such thing as a Cancer.
Technically at least.

Pure Cancers exist only in the abstract.

posted April 26, 2009 03:19 AM         

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And I'm definitely looking for one with
a slightly more... unconventional nature.

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posted April 26, 2009 09:24 AM         

No offense, but...

Your Venus is exactly conjunct my Descendant.

posted April 26, 2009 10:28 AM         

I'm pregnant with my second child and she will have Venus in Cancer as well!

posted April 26, 2009 12:06 PM         

They must really love you.

Deux,

Hmm.. maybe you are right.
Well, I'm most of those things.
And a little bit of all of them.

Cheshire,

Now you're talkin'.

Summersunshine,

Too subtle!!!
Don't they know some guys
are suckers for their gifts?

Lucia,

posted April 26, 2009 12:55 PM         

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You have to be all those 6 things first before you will find her.

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posted April 26, 2009 02:06 PM         

Awesome.

Writesomething,

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Didnt you already have a post like this
before looking for cancers?

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I did!

This is the second post
looking for cancer women,
although this one is
slightly more refined.

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Lindaland isnt love connection.

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LOL.

Lindaland is,
to a large extent,
what we make of it.

There are volumes of posts
dedicated to people's
personal romantic troubles.
Why should there not be posts
dedicated to finding romance?

Personally, I think that
locating compatible people
is one of the better ways to make
occassional use of this site.

I'm glad somebody thought of it.

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You have to be all those 6 things first before you will find her.
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ditto.

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Honey, I'm closer to those six things than
just about any man or woman you know.

I dont need those things so much as I need
someone who can appreciate them in (and with) me.

posted April 26, 2009 02:15 PM         

Seriously, though,
I'm not looking to
step on any toes here,
or hi-jack any threads
or forums, as the case may be.

I just think there's room for us all.

Maybe you can take a minute,
and see this as something positive?

Love is a many-splendored thing.