posted May 04, 2009 01:47 PM            

Was Linda right about the Venus and Pluto?

Or is the truth much broader than a couple of planets?

Can anybody point me in the right direction?

posted May 04, 2009 01:52 PM            

From what i hear (and l could be wrong) it's AC/DC conjunct or opposition, NN contacts, NN/valentine, pluto/peresphone or proserpina and a few more l don't remember.

posted May 04, 2009 02:26 PM            

I have to disagree with Linda Goodman even though I respect her has an astrologer

My Pluto is conjunct my maternal uncle Eddie's Venus exact to the minute.

I don't feel like he and I are twin flames.

There is definitely no sexual attraction!

posted May 04, 2009 04:00 PM            

But I think you may be able to spot complimentary soulmates (or the potential) in a chart.

Actually I feel that in those kind of complimentary soulmates, Other halves - connections, there will be a lot of complimentary aspects in natal and synastry.

Like one may have Sun-Pluto, the other have Moon-Pluto-aspects or placements and so on.
And those would be reflected in synastry, too.

Another thing I would look out for are antiscias / contrascias; mirrordegrees.

Also conjunctions to the IC, as the bottom of oyur soul.

On top of that ASC-DSC is ALWAYS present with strong aspects I think.

And then I would also look for "asteroid-couples" like Pluto-Persephone, Adonis - Inanna or even Aphrodite, Isis-Osiris and so on.

But even if everything is there, it doesn`t need to imply that those people are twinflames.
It would imply, though, that they have very complimentary energies in their personality, Yin and Yang so to speak.

posted May 04, 2009 04:12 PM            

Can i add NN/valentine and eros/psyche

posted May 04, 2009 05:49 PM            

Eros - Psyche, sure, they are complimentary.

I count the normal mirrordegrees, solstice points or antiscia / contrascia - you know we`ve been talking about them.
But orb has to be pretty tight; 2° AT MOST.
Have an exact antiscia-conjunction and you will never really know what hit you. lol
Even though it doesn`t really "hit" you, it kind of sneaks up on youand you donīt understand why you are so connected.

I`m still not completely sure about mirrordegrees, but they are worth the observation.

posted May 04, 2009 06:28 PM            

I think DW NN/Valentine is potent. In fact when LL was down i found it in dw in tight orb in almost all the classic synastries, long-term marriages of family and in those l know who have a love till death kind of relationship.

I have NN/valentine DW across the entire board with gun man and l feel so different in this one. It's like nothing before. I'm sure it's this aspect but l totally dig that you are not sure. I might just be a very close soul mate aspect.

When you say exact aspect of solstice do you mean sol/sol or sol/n please?
I ask cos i have 6 exact conjuncts with gun man:
My sol mars conjunct his n ac (0)
His sol AC conjunct my n mars (0)
My sol karma conjunct his n NN (0)
His sol NN conjunct my n karma (0)
My sol valentine conjunct his n psyche (0)
his sol psyche conjunct my n valentine (0)

posted May 04, 2009 08:53 PM            

The natal planet person or point of antiscia person?

I looked at the charts of me and (GC)
my antiscia NN on his natal moon exact
and
his antiscia moon on my natal NN exact his antiscia uranus on my natal venus exact
and
my antisicia venus on his natal uranus exact

His antiscia IC on my natal IC exact.

haven't yet looked at asteroids interesting to see what pops up!

Well that explains it
My antisicia eros on his natal sun exact.
didn't see that one comming!

His antiscia sun exact on my natal eros!

his natal eros is opp my natal juno, venus and ASC and conjunct my natal uranus, DC

- Natal -
I also found we have the rulers of his ASC and my ASC in aspect (DW) and the Ruler of his ASC in aspect to the ruler of my DC (DW)
node square node
sun/venus interchange
I have the ruler of his DC and IC conjunct his ASC.
and each others names conjunct IC

posted May 04, 2009 11:19 PM            

We only get to meet our twin flame apparently, when we don't need one.
http://www.heartflamepublishing.com/twinflamephysics.html

posted May 04, 2009 11:37 PM            

Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward lasted, married for over 50 years until he died.

Johnny Cash and June Carter Cash lasted. After several years of ill health, he died of complications from diabetes on 12 September 2003, only a few months after the death of his beloved wife.

Jessica Tandy and Hume Cronyn lasted, married 52 years until she died.

Kevin Bacon and Kyra Sedgwick have been married for 21 years and are still going strong.

posted May 04, 2009 11:42 PM              

On another note~ just because they seem perfect to everyone else, doesnt mean they were twin flames, or whatever. Just could mean they were capable of lasting commitment to one another. Staying together forever doesnt mean youre twin souls.

posted May 05, 2009 01:04 AM            

I don`t have much time, just wanted to say something about the VAlentine / NN-aspect.
I don`t doubt, that it`s a very loving and beautiful aspect, but it`s not THE aspect (which doesn`t exist anyway imo).

Unlike you I haven`t found it to be prominent in such "till-death-to-us-part" or suspected soulmate relationships.

On the other hand I remember having a DW-conjunction of Valentine and NN with a particular musical actor.
Now, I DO like him as an actor and he has a very pleasant "style", but he certainly is not a soulmate of mine. lol

I also had that Valentine / Vertex-dw with another guy, and nope, no soulmates either.

So, I`m sorry I can`t confirm your or IQ`s findings in this case.

posted May 05, 2009 01:28 AM              

I dont buy into the hype.

Do you or I have all the answers? No.

posted May 05, 2009 01:55 AM            

I am always curious when I look at charts and astrology for indicators of potential, but in many ways I cannot buy it completely that there are any aspects....I've had those special aspects with a lot of people, and while they were special, they weren't really soulmate material (as in ZING! though the heart). So I wonder.

And I do agree with Writes, that just because people stay married/together doesn't mean they are soulmates or even happy. They just committed to staying together...lots of unhappy people do that too. And lots of soulmate and twinflame relationships don't last.

posted May 05, 2009 05:21 AM            

My mother and her husband have been married for 31 years now and they have never spent a night apart, eat every meal together, walk arm in arm down the street and are totally in love!!