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posted May 05, 2009 04:59 PM         

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People have different variations of good in bed or what makes one a good lover. There's no standard reply here.
Are we talking a lady who is 'technically' good at certain things in bed?
Are we talking about a lady who is attuned to her lover's body?

There's way too many shades of gray on this one.

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posted May 05, 2009 05:08 PM         

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ya know what gives a woman an extremely high sex drive? Pregnancy does it! It's all those hormones racing around the blood stream, triggering off the primal/animal urges to go mate. Some womens sex drive goes through the roof and other sex drives go the other way.

Could it be a lunar thing? I'm not sure where what I said would even fall into......

Cynn

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posted May 05, 2009 05:25 PM         

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"Lady in bed" is kind of vague. Someone who is into candles and music and wine? Someone who is a prude?? Idk.

And as for being good in bed, it has a lot to do with who you're sleeping with and the sexual chemistry involved. In synastry if you have Mars square Venus with someone the sex is probably going to be a lot better than with someone who you don't have any Mars aspects with.

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posted May 05, 2009 05:42 PM         

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I definitely agree with Amowls here. And wonderful chemistry with another person is something that can make you good in bed even if you're generally not LOL

I don't think high sex drive alone would make someone good in bed - just horny.
Pregnancy gives a high sex drive, true enough.
Being in my 30's have given me a monumental sex drive. I thought my late 20's were a blessing sexually, but my 30's are a completely different creature.

As far as being good in bed, I think a lot of it can definitely also have to do with sexual confidence and being comfortable in one's own skin. Just because a chick can give a great ****job for instance, doesn't mean she even likes herself or her own body. Or sex. LOL. She might despise it. But she's good at it because she goes through the motions well enough.

It means nothing if you're not able to enjoy your own body.
And that often does change with age.

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posted May 05, 2009 05:48 PM         

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Deliverance, maybe that is all credit to your wisdom and good sense.

But it does happen that women sometimes end up married to men who from the start, or later on, just somehow don't light their fires. Maybe they didn't chose that husband in the first place, or if they did, they go off him, it does happen, people have told me about this stuff.

Astrology? Maybe it is synastry, progression, whatever. It isn't necessarily something natal. Or in lay person's terms, it might just be circumstance.

Pregnancy? Put me off more than on.

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posted May 05, 2009 06:34 PM         

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posted May 05, 2009 06:57 PM         

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Or he might get threatened with blunt instruments several times a day. It's the roll of the dice.

I got my assignments finished whilst dipping in and out of this thread, so thanks everyone for the entertainment.

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posted May 05, 2009 07:05 PM         

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I definitely agree that chemistry makes all the difference which is why I think questions such as 'who's the best?' are ridiculous. Sorry.

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posted May 05, 2009 07:38 PM         

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Is chemistry mans venus and ladys sun togethr? chemisty means lovemakeing and flirtation no?

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posted May 05, 2009 07:48 PM         

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Interesting thread topics..whats next 'which sign has the most orgasms' lol! Anyway I've been told I am pretty good in the sack, Mars in Cancer, Venus in Virgo so I suppose I am a giver

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posted May 05, 2009 07:51 PM         

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Interesting thread topics..whats next 'which sign has the most orgasms' lol!

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libraschoice7, lol!!

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posted May 05, 2009 07:56 PM         

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sting and his wife have long orgasm they do tantrik. this is learnd and in the chart of yoga people.

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posted May 05, 2009 11:45 PM         

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How nice for them .

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posted May 06, 2009 12:54 AM         

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Such a fab couple with their multiple orgasms.

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posted May 06, 2009 01:13 AM         

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1st and 8th rulers in good apsect natally. With a transit for the time of the said good in bed experience.

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posted May 06, 2009 01:57 AM         

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A good lady in bed will let you have a second lady who is good in bed.

No no, just kidding. But we are all snowflakes, all different and unique, and as such, we require different lovers to suit our different snowflake needs..

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posted May 06, 2009 01:58 AM         

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ok i didnt wanna respond anymore but that was hilarious carl

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posted May 06, 2009 02:17 AM         

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Now everyone will eagerly check their charts to see if their 1st and 8th house rulers are in good aspect.

Mine are in Trine together.

I've been known to make myself useful, but then again, ply me full of whiskey and lay me down next to someone who makes me feel rather queasy and you won't get my best service. Not that it has ever happened, of course, just hypothesising.

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posted May 06, 2009 07:10 AM         

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Without a doubt, Venus in Virgo. The virgin inspires and harvests new love - a great choice as a first love!!

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posted May 06, 2009 07:18 AM         

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I have an issue with this ruler of 1st and ruler of 8th aspect theory

using traditional Mars rules both for me. But using modern one is rulled by Pluto the other by Mars. And they make no aspect to each other in my chart. So what would that mean? Either I'm so incredibly in tune with my sexuality or a lost cause?

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posted May 06, 2009 09:55 AM         

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Thanks for getting that horrible 80's song "Lady In Red" stuck in my head. ugh.

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posted May 06, 2009 10:06 AM         

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Dont Diss Chris!

Evander, you are Scorpio rising, yes?

What position (degree/sign) is:

A) Your Pluto?
B) Your Mars?

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posted May 06, 2009 10:13 AM         

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Anyone ever see the movie Hellboy?

Where the bad guys open up the evil doorway aka the flood gates and everyone and their sadistic uncle get thru?

Sorry to say but that's what's happened here in LL...

hense these threads...

nuff said...

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posted May 06, 2009 10:22 AM         

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Dude what ever are you talking about?

A topic...about penis!!! and soon to be vagina, which is what I am really looking forward to(why of course, how can you have one without the other)!

This is a golden age at LG. Not now with the penis, but soon to be with vagina.

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posted May 06, 2009 10:50 AM         

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I have:

Sun, Mercury and Venus in Taurus

Mars in Scorpio

and a Leo ASC.....

You know you all want me!!!

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