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comica23
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posted May 05, 2009 07:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for comica23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Great composite aspects, bad composite aspects.. While the great ones feels great, the bad ones can drive us crazy sometimes.. Well, in my case, I have a nice composite, yet a few bad aspects would give me headaches from time to time, specially the Moon square Neptune one. >_<;

So guys, what are your thoughts/experiences about good/bad aspects in composites?? And how do you deal with the bad ones??

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posted May 05, 2009 07:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The worst I've experienced was an unaspected Sun in the Composite. The relationship had no real identity.

Moon square Uranus is annoying.

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posted May 05, 2009 08:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for libraschoice7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This one is hands down Venus square Uranus, because the relationship has no real stability to it..its there today gone tomorrow type of situation. Or too many planets in the 6th house, it just doesn't feel right.

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posted May 05, 2009 08:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Curious about the 6th house composite, why is it so bad? What if the whole composite has wonderful and lovely aspects otherwise?


For me, it's been composite Saturn square Mars and Venus. Both together were like hell. Slows everything down to a grinding halt.

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Venus aspecting Saturn and Capricorn and Aquarius anywhere..lol
Moon square Saturn
Moon in aquarius is very uncomfortable for me and too uncomfortable for me to deal with on a day to day basis. I remember when I had this in a composite with someone, the weirdest sh-t happened to us during 1 week(weird road trip). I never wanted to hang out again.(aquarius moon and rising in the composite).

Neptune/pisces just causes a lot of lies and confusion about truth. I have pisces rising in a composite with someone, and feel like they lie about everything. Deception seems the focus.

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posted May 05, 2009 09:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for comica23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Auch it seems like negative aspects to outer planets are harder to deal with.. Uranus can bring instability, while Neptune can bring confusions/deceptions.

Somehow, Saturn seems to represent the man while Moon seems to represent the woman, so any aspect between these two seems meaningful.

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Curious about the 6th house composite, why is it so bad? What if the whole composite has wonderful and lovely aspects otherwise?

Hmm it seems that the 6th house can give a feeling of "being at service of" (bigger sense of duty and responsibility to work things). But well, in my case, I have Saturn and Pluto there, with Saturn on the DC. It seems that this position means hesitation towards commitment (being almost at the 7th house yet not in the 7th house). But well, there are other nice aspects, so it never seemed to be a problem.

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posted May 05, 2009 10:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"It seems that this position means hesitation towards commitment (being almost at the 7th house yet not in the 7th house)."

You know, I think that's probably the most articulate description of 6th house composite I've ever read. Nicely done.

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posted May 05, 2009 10:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for libraschoice7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Comica your description of it is spot on...MVM if there was mabe only one planet in 6th house an the rest were in more romantic houses, I would be more tolerant and be willing to work with it. But when there are three or more planets there(especially Sun, Venus, or Moon)then I feel like I always have something to prove in the relationship. I personally find it frustrating. It seems more out of duty than love, an thats not my cup of tea

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posted May 05, 2009 11:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think if two people have 6th house stelliums it's rather hard to avoid having one in a 6th house composite LOL.
Both people are caretakers to an extent, which can be a lovely thing.
Comica's description feels so right to me because I have this with someone now (and we both have 6th house stelliums) - Sun, Venus, Mercury in the 6th and going into the 7th there's Pluto and Uranus. The composite itself without the house thing is lovely - Sun conjunct Venus, Venus conjunct Pluto, Moon conjunct Mars (well, I like that aspect anyway lol), Pluto conjunct Sun and Dsc, Jupiter in nice aspects, and only smooth aspects from Saturn, and no really funny Uranus or Neptune stuff.
It looks great on paper and feels good too.
But the hesitation of it being in this ALMOST state as Comica says is dead-on. It's like something feels like it's missing, that is true.
So it just makes total sense to me.....interesting.

But I think in general 6th house composite can be healing. The general association with Virgo/6th house/service is soooooo freakin' boring lol. I feel there's more to it. There's a selflessness and a sense of healing to the 6th house, and I know for me and him this has been a very healing, regenerative relationship especially after both our divorces. I just don't see it 'going' anywhere past that point, because the thing feels like it's serving a very specific purpose.

At any rate, it sure is interesting.

As for Saturn stuff, I had a Grand Cross with someone in composite, complete with the Saturnine madness. The thing was so deep and connected and yet never went anywhere but stayed in a deadlock. I think in romantic relationships if you're not used to those energies or if your own chart is not friendly to them, then certain restraining aspects can be particularly hard to deal with.
Even the same can be said of smooth aspects if you have a challenging natal chart.


PS - amowls talked about Sun with no aspects, and I have to agree that peregrine planets do also set off a red flag for me in composites.

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posted May 06, 2009 02:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'd go for the word tense rather than bad.

Tense is where we get to work through learning lessons and end up dynamic.

I'm thinking more here natal and synastry. I don't go in for composites much. I couldn't tell you what was on mine without looking and I have been with him for 16 years.

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posted May 06, 2009 02:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If two people are not used to the 6th house, 6th house stelliums in Composites are effing awful. It feels like the relationship is totally one sided.

The unaspected Sun I mentioned was in the 5th house, most of the other planets were in the 6th in the Composite I experienced. Including Venus conjunct Neptune. Talk about not knowing where you stood ever. With that guy, whenever we said goodbye to each other for the day I never knew if I was ever going to see him again.

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posted May 06, 2009 09:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for comica23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow the 6th house placement seems to be so common here. O.o But by the way, what was the sign in which those 6th house planets where? The signs in which the planets are in a composite can also give some hints about how the energies are.

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posted May 06, 2009 09:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for comica23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
By the way, anyone here have experienced Saturn or Pluto square Sun?? How does it manifest??

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