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Alvarella777
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posted May 19, 2009 03:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Alvarella777     Edit/Delete Message
Hello out there,

I wonder whether some of you have experienced Tr. URANUS opposing your natal VENUS?

How did this work out for you? Did you feel a need to "liberate" yourself, to leave the one you have been with until then? Or did it turn out the other way: Rather painful - you being the one who had been left down and out by the other?

If you have a story to share ...: Tell us a bit about where your natal Venus is located in your natal chart, how it is aspected etc..

My own expreince with this transit (went through it during 2004/2005, in my Midthirties): I finally managed to leave a love relationship of long standing (that man and me had been together for 9 years then!). There was no grief or anger on my side at all! No logical "reason" to put an end to this relationship! I just sensed so strongly and clearly that it was time to go, to make new experiences, to be "free". And even though this is 5 years ago and even though I din't manage to enter another substantial relationship since then ... I never felt any regret for having left that cozy, but outworn relationship. It just was ... over, "our story was told" ... (and luckily we managed to keep up some sort of friendship, no grudges - even though my decision must have hurt him immensely, 5 years ago ...)

So, for me: Tr. Uranus oppos. my Venus had a LIBERATING effect, to 100%! My Venus is located in my natal 9th house in Virgo, squaring my natal Neptune and ASC.

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Peri
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posted May 19, 2009 03:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Peri     Edit/Delete Message
what about his aspects?

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Alvarella777
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posted May 21, 2009 01:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Alvarella777     Edit/Delete Message
PERI, you mean: My Ex-Bf's transits during the break-up? While Tr. Uranus was opposing my Venus?

Here are some of the longer running transits to HIS natal chart, during our "splitting phase" - he had:

Tr. JUPITER (wandering through his 3rd)
... made some favourable aspects to his chart:
- cj. his PLUTO
- cj. his URANUS
- sextile his ASC

Tr. SATURN (wandering through his 11th/12th)
... offered a "mixed bag" for him then:
- sextile his MERCURY
- square his P.o. FORTUNE
- square his CUPIDO
- sextile his PLUTO
- square his SATURN
- sextile his URANUS
- square his MC

Tr. URANUS (wandering through his 8th house)
... did favourable things for his asteroids!
- oppose his MERCURY
- square his BM LILITH
- trine his CERES
- trine his JUNO
- sextile his VESTA

Tr. NEPTUNE (wandering through his 7th)
... smooth and gentle:
- trine his Pallas
- sextile his N.N.

Tr. PLUTO (wandering through his 5th)
... stressful times for him, his "power" challenged
- square his PLUTO
- trine his MC

Tr. CHIRON (wandering through his 6th)
... forcing a new "make-up" to evolve for him, to re-structure his day-to-day-life:
- square his SATURN
- square his MC
- trine his PLUTO
- trine his URANUS


And here are the transits I went through at the same time (during the break-up-phase, which I had initiated - after 9 years in a more or less smotth and comfortable running relationship):

Tr. JUPITER (wandering through my 9th/10th)
... supported me in many ways:
- cj. my ZEUS
- sextile my MARS
- sextile my NEPTUNE
- sextile my ASC
- sextile my MERCURY
- cj. my URANUS
- oppose my CHIRON

Tr. SATURN (wandering through my 8th)
... posed me a bag of difficult tasks and questions:
- square my CHIRON
- trine my PALLAS
- cj. my SUN
- sextile my PLUTO
- square my JUPITER
- square my P.o. FORTUNE
- trine my ASC

Tr. URANUS (wandering through my 3rd)
... strongly suggested a new "relating style":
- oppose my VENUS
- cj. my NN
- sextile my JUNO

Tr. NEPTUNE (wandering through my 3rd):
- no aspects -

Tr. PLUTO (wandering through my 1st)
... a very personal "upheaval":
- sextile my CUPIDO
- square my MC
- cj. my MOON

Tr. CHIRON (wandering through my 2nd)
... urging me to investigate some personal matters:
- trine my SATURN
- square my CUPIDO
- oppose my SUN
- trine my PLUTO

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Peri
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posted May 21, 2009 01:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Peri     Edit/Delete Message
interesting, I read on another forum that someone's husband cheated on her when he had tr uranus opposing nat venus from his 5th house.

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Alvarella777
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posted May 21, 2009 01:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Alvarella777     Edit/Delete Message
Hi again PERI: I read similar things - read about a wide variety of "occurences", actually. That's why I was posting this thread: To find out about the many "disguises" of this famous transit, Tr. Uranus opposing your natal Venus.

The most common description seems to be: You are being cheated on - watch out! Or: You're falling in love suddenly with someone who is unreliable. But, obviously, this transit (like all the other transits) depends largely on how the involved planets are aspected in your chart natally, etc.

In my case (from above): Neither did he cheat on me during that time (he had serious professional problems then, it was a phase of a rather "low profile" for him, personally, in many ways), nor did I cheat on him. I must admit: I started to discover a more "flirtatious side" on me, though. One could say: I was ready for mingling with other men ... but I left my boyfriend BEFORE "cheating" on him. I started my "adventures" after the break-up. ;-)

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posted May 21, 2009 02:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message
alvarella,

How is Uranus aspected in your chart?

also what degree is your Venus?

The heliocentric Uranus Nodes are in 13 degrees Gemini/Sagittarius

I have them square my Ascendant in 13'27 Virgo.


makes me wonder if I should avoid women whose Venus will be transited by an opposition from Uranus.

I want to be in a lifelong relationship,have a wife and children.


I would hate to be in a longterm relationship for over 7 years,and she decides to leave because she feels that the relationship is outworn and feels the time to do new things.

I think that many people don't want that.

Raymond

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Alvarella777
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posted May 21, 2009 03:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Alvarella777     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Raymond,

natally, there's a semi-sextile between my Uranus (5°Libra) and Venus (4° Virgo).

My natal Uranus is in 10th house, aspects (0-3 dg):
- cj. my Sun/Moon-Mp
- sextile Mercury
- sextile Phoinix (exact)
- sextile Part of Change
- trine Part of Illness/Accidents
- trine Pax (exact)
- square Eros
- square Love
- semi-sextile Venus
- quincunx N.N.
- quincunx Juno
- quincunx Harmonia

My Venus is in 9th house, aspects (0-3 dg.):
- cj. S.N. (exact)
- cj. Helena
- cj. Anacreon
- cj. Sensitivity
- sextile Nymphe (exact)
- sextile Part of Happiness
- sextile Part of Popularity
- sextile Wildcat
- trine Eros
- trine Juno
- trine Harmonia
- semi-sextile Uranus
- square Phoinix
- square Pax
- quincunx Part of Illness/Accidents
- quincunx Humptydumpty
- oppose N.N.

Any clues from that, Glaucus/Raymond? ;-)

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Alvarella777
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posted May 21, 2009 03:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Alvarella777     Edit/Delete Message
I also want to answer to your remark ... you stated that you din't want to enter a relationship with a woman who'd leave it, all of a sudden ... Of course: No one would want to be in such a relationship! (With "such a person"!)

All I can say is: It was REALLY what I felt then, after almost a decade: That "love" had faded ... We were in our Mid-Thirties then, had gone through several ups and downs together, we really have been a "good team" then - BUT: The feeling of "friendship" had overrun everything else! I didn't feel like "man and wife" or "love couple" anymore ... it had grown more platonic over time ... and it had more of a "family feel" about it. Actually, I am NOT only talking about "Sex" here! I started to feel ... like a "mother figure" over time ... and this was not a role that I could identify with or felt comfortable with. We had no children - I felt like a "mother" to the relationship and/or to him! (Actually, my Ex-bf admitted, some years later, that he could understand me. In this regard and in many others.) During our relationship we somehow had drifted apart ... it was more like a flatshare with a good buddy ... and I just felt too young, being 34, to spend the rest of my days in such a marriage-like relationship - if the price for all that safety was that you'd live like "brother & sister" in a way.

I NEVER betrayed that man, nor did I lie to him or anything - we always had a very good, open way to communicate. I never cheated on him - but told him that I felt suffocated, caged in ... After all, somehow his "world" was a bit "smaller" than mine. I was just honest - and quit, after some time of trying seriously to "rejuvenate" everything. Some years later, he admitted that he sort of "failed" too - because he was trapped in some agony, then - and was not able to "do" anything, he just sat there and ... let me leave.

Just last christmas (5 months ago) we met again, for a talk. We are "friends" now, in a way , even if we're some "remote friends". Looking at how his life evolved during the 5 years since our break-up ... and how mine evolved ... we're definitely on different paths! So somehow ... we're interested in different things, basically - and this shows now. We spoke about that and laughed a bit about that. ;-)

Meanwhile he got married very quickly to another woman, because he wanted to have a family on his own so much. She got pregnant _ but it turned out the kid was from another man! Bad, bad hurt for my ex-bf!!! Huh, I feel great empathy/smypathy for him, and we spoke about that. He sort of ... wanted to rush into the next "safe and cozy nest" ... and chose definitely the wrong person. He filed for a divorce now. Nowadays he's coupled with a woman 12 years younger than him ... a relationship loaded with problems, as far as he alluded to me.

And for myself: At first, I have been a single person for 2 years - then entered a long distance relationship with a man for about 1.5 years, which ended very hurtful - now am a single person again for one year. Still ... I don't feel any regret. I woudln't want to miss the (inter-)human experience that I have gathered during these voaltile 5 years since our break-up... And I feel: I am ready for a next "big love", I am a sincere person, no pretender. And I tell it as it is: Either: "I love you" - or: "I don't love you anymore." No pretence from me. AND: I am conservative and reliable enough NOT to go for an "open relationship" with occasional "erotic sidesteps" ...

I am definitely made for the lonmg-run - not many people have had a serious relationship that lasted a decade, these days... Not in the age between 25 and 35... Know what I mean? I AM made for something like that! But ... I am honest and pure, and won't cling to the idea of love when, in fact, love has changed or vanished. That's all.

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