posted May 23, 2009 12:01 PM         

The past 3 days my 6 year old has had 3 out of control episodes. The principal described it as my daughter became another little girl.

I looked at her transits and oh my! Her Sun/Saturn Conj /Pluto opposition is really getting slammed by T Uranus and Saturn. The Sun Pluto aspect seems to be really coming out as she is defiant and is being quite spirited.

I took her for a blood test the other week and she gave them holy hell at the 1st lab. They couldn't get blood drawn cause she was kicking about. The 2nd lab, with 4 staff were able to get blood but she really put of a huge fight.

I'm trying to place where her insecurity of getting a new baby sister and stepdad figures in.....in the Solar chart Saturn would be going into the 4th house.

We're trying to get some help into place to help stabilize her behaviors and to work through the problems in her life. Looking into schooling as she will be falling through the cracks and not get an education that she needs cause she is special needs and is in need of a specialized education - which is hard to find in this city I live in. Oh there is a place but it's $500/month.

posted May 23, 2009 12:17 PM         

Lucky saturn is in virgo sextile her moon.

Uranus isnt the best. When its close to an exact square to my moon i had sleeping difficulties too making me moody.

Is she constantly like that or is it just she kind of explodes frustrated energy.

I hope she gets better soon

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posted May 23, 2009 01:21 PM         

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The principal described it as my daughter became another little girl.

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She is Leo rising (mask she wears) with Sun in GEMINI. Maybe that could explain why she became another little girl.

The people issue too. A word mentioned with Leo is Ego. Its not good for the ego when there is another person to draw attention away from you. Like a sibling. I know these things

posted May 23, 2009 04:57 PM         

Then she gets it in her head that she wants "her family" together and she never wants my boyfriend and I to get married. (Her family in her mind is her dad, her, and me). We tell her that this won't happen as my ex and I split up a long time ago.....This is possibly due to her clingy cancer placements.

We explain to her that she has 2 families that she is in who love her very much.

I took her to the Childen's hospital yesterday to get some urgent help for her - they did bring up a hospital stay for 5 to 7 days to monitor her but they opted not to.

In her progressed chart T Uranus squares her progressed Sun which would bring about sudden erratic behavior....Progressed Moon is in Libra squaring her cancer planets..

I'm not sure when all this will pass....

posted May 23, 2009 05:29 PM         

My ex and I have the Saturn Mars square aspect that I've been reading about on the boards....but My saturn also sqaures his Mercury/Mars conj in Leo...He also has Sun in Leo...no earth in his chart...

posted May 24, 2009 12:47 AM         

In her case its opposing her sun.

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posted May 31, 2009 12:23 AM         

did Saturn go direct? Cause I just wonder if it set her opposition off....Sun/saturn opposite Pluto.......

posted May 31, 2009 04:20 PM         

i hope the healing elements come forward before long. maybe you can find a way of helping that scenario manifest. i feel for you - estranged fathers blaming moms for everything is at the very least frustrating, and scary...and she sounds like echoing her father's fears of being replaced along with her own. but i don't know you guys so just theory...!!

posted May 31, 2009 08:56 PM         

I met my Aquarian man back in Jan 2007 and we got to know each other as friends. November 2007 he was introduced to my daughter and in December 2007 we became a couple. My boyfriend would come in each week for a visit and both seemed to like of each other and got along well.

In November I became pregnant and at the end of January he moved in cause I was extremely ill. During the time I was ill, my daughter stayed with her father. Her father helped me out for a year and within that year he was investigated by child services for abuse, child abandonment and neglect.

Things these past few months seem to have gone along good until 2 weeks ago and then all hell broke loose. I have called many community agencies to get help for my daughter and was put on waiting lists. I have taken her to emerg twice and the 2nd time I actually got to talk to a psychiatrist. He has prescribed her Respiradone to calm her down cause she gets too keyed up. (But then I wonder with her 6th house Neptune.....I have it too and I know what meds are like with me)

He is getting a little frustrated with it and is starting to feel the pressures of being a parent. My daughter is putting him through training.

His data is Jan 30, 1971 Windosr, Nova Scotia 10:10 PM

I like your point on how there is a fear of being replaced....it makes sense and another view to it.....

I can assure her 50 times a day and she is still worrying etc. I have experienced the same as her and tried to relate to her on a peer level....tried telling her a story about a girl who's parent has split up etc.....

Thanx soooo much