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Ruben
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posted May 28, 2009 07:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ruben     Edit/Delete Message
Does anyone have any personal experience with this aspect? Does it really generate that feeling of a mystical emotional connection?

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posted May 28, 2009 07:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for plutoprincess     Edit/Delete Message
I don't have a personal experience, but ffrom what I know it gives a feeling of dreaminess, something like prince-charming-story

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posted May 28, 2009 08:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DD     Edit/Delete Message
Glamour, magic, illusion.

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posted May 28, 2009 08:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ruben     Edit/Delete Message
Does it necessarily have to indicate self delusion if the aspect is handlded correctly though? Can the potential of it be purely channeled spiritually and be used constructively, without the less positive effects?

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posted May 28, 2009 09:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
Of course it can be good and spiritual and well-channeled. I think it totally depends on the two people and how aware they are. But it does have strong overtones of spirituality, and a level of sweetness.

There are no 'bad' aspects. Aspects are just about potential; they're not set it stone. What you do with them is what matters.

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posted May 28, 2009 09:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DD     Edit/Delete Message
Yes they can be handles spiritually, but the risk of self-delusion is pretty big.
Chances are you don`t see each other or the connection too clearly, maybe through rose colored glasses.
This in itself hasn`t to be bad though. Can be very romantic, perfect, sweet, gentle.
But it also can lead to disillusion.

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posted May 28, 2009 11:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geocosmic* Valentine     Edit/Delete Message
Two years ago I watched as my roommate met a woman who would be his girlfriend for close to 6 months. It was as if there was a bubble around them and they couldn't take their eyes off of each other, like they hypnotized each other. It was like a tangible aura.

It was the other stuff in their synastry that reflected the problems in the relationship that eventually broke them up, but I'll never forget seeing them as a bystander. They had an exact Venus-Neptune conjunction in Libra.

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posted May 28, 2009 11:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message
Natally I have a tight Jupiter/Neptune conjunct.

Bet you wondered what I was going to say then.... anyway, so what I share with a friend of mine is Venus Conjunct Jupiter/Neptune. Not quite the same thing.

Prince Charming, romantic, sweet?

Mystical emotional connection. I'll tell you in a few years time. I find him easy to read, that I will say. Interestingly, we have draconic Moons in Conjunction.

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posted May 28, 2009 12:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ruben     Edit/Delete Message
Geocosmic* Valentine, you mean the aura was palpable when they first met or when they generally interacted?

I love this aspect, I have it with a guy (I'm the Neptune person) and I can tell he sees me in an idealistic way, probably too idealistic. But I don't think that means he's not aware of my negative traits, he just doesn't dwell on them and focuses on the positive facets.

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posted May 28, 2009 01:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venus in gemini     Edit/Delete Message
We have Venus trine Neptune double whammys in the synastry, as well as in the composite. I have been told this is a very "healing" love. All I can say is that it's this great sense of peace when we are together. It's warm and kind and loving, with a great sense of comfort, like everything will be okay, or that everything will work out somehow. It does have that "too good to be true" feeling to it. And I don't ever stay mad at him. I might be irritated at him for a few minutes, but it just seems to disappear just as quickly.

Hope that helps.

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posted May 29, 2009 01:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ruben     Edit/Delete Message
Wow, if only the trine works like that, I can imagine what the conjunction would feel like...

We also have a Mars, Pluto conjunction to balance out the spiritual side of the connection and add a very primal and physical facet to it, LOL.

Despite the fact that my Saturn conjuncts his Venus, my Neptune trines his Moon and his Neptune sextiles my Moon and I can definitely feel a telepathic, almost spiritual link.

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posted May 29, 2009 08:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ruben     Edit/Delete Message
How do you think the Neptune person would be affected in this case and who would have the upper hand? Wouldn't it be Neptune since Neptune is supposed to 'charm' the other person?

I've read other interpretations that say that since the nature of Neptune is spiritual and idealistic, when contacted by a planet that focuses on emotions like Venus or the Moon, Neptune would be stimulated to offer a lot to the other person to the point of self sacrifice. So in this sense, despite the fact that Neptune affects the perception of the other person, does the Neptune person offer more in the relationship?

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posted May 29, 2009 06:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diana     Edit/Delete Message
I think I remember reading that the venus person becomes angry with the neptune person, because they can never live up to their expectations. This leaves the neptune person disillusioned.

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posted May 29, 2009 06:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ruben     Edit/Delete Message
Diana, it's usually the other way around. The Neptune person is perceived by the planet person in an idealistic way. The Venus person tends to assign Neptune qualities they don't possess and Neptune may feel pressured to live up to the expectations of Venus.

But that's only one possible manifestation of the conjunction.

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posted May 30, 2009 06:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diana     Edit/Delete Message
I actually couldn't remember if it was the venus or neptune person. I changed it a few times, lol.

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posted June 01, 2009 01:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for eve     Edit/Delete Message
I've experienced this 3 times with people close to me, with me always the Neptune person. I have a love/hate relationship with this conjunction.

I love the sweetness and acceptance it brings. To me, this makes it honest, b/c this is my preferred way of relating with others.

But then it does bring something false to the table, overvaluation of me from the Venus person and some secret-keeping on his part, and a sense that I can't fulfill what they expect of me as the Neptune person.

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posted June 01, 2009 06:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for crabbypatty     Edit/Delete Message
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posted June 01, 2009 01:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ruben     Edit/Delete Message
crabbypatty, since I'm the Neptune person in this case, that is actually scary, LOL.

But now that I think about it, one of my closest friends has her Neptune conjunct my Venus and it's true that I idealize her to an extent. My perception of her seems to be fairly constant. I'm aware of her less appealing traits, but they don't seem to obscure the image.

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posted June 01, 2009 09:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 23     Edit/Delete Message
Well the basic rule is that the Neptune person acts Neptunian and the Venus person acts Venereal. The Neptune person will be confused with the other and thus idealise the other. The Venus person at most sees Neptune as an undefined heap of mess.

Remember that in synastry we play the role and wear the mask of our planet in the synastry; so if we are Mars, then we will be Martian in character etc.

With Mr 23, his Venus opp my Nep (and his) and my Mars (chart ruler) opp his Nep. We both do it to each other.

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posted June 02, 2009 12:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diana     Edit/Delete Message
I thought that's what it was...

Is "venereal" a synonym for "venusian?" Or do they act like an std?

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posted June 02, 2009 03:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ruben     Edit/Delete Message
Isn't Venus supposed to idealize Neptune?

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posted June 02, 2009 07:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diana     Edit/Delete Message
Ruben, I think you act like whichever planet you are, so if you are neptune, you personify the neptunian qualities.

Maybe someone else will come along who knows for sure, because I am not too great at synastry.

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posted June 02, 2009 07:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for UranusinPisces     Edit/Delete Message
Well there's an "Neptune in Synastry and the Composite Chart" book on scribd that says which one is which. Here is the link: http://www.scribd.com/doc/8219806/Neptune-in-Synastry-and-the-Composite-Chart

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posted June 02, 2009 11:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Benedict Moon*     Edit/Delete Message
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Isn't Venus supposed to idealize Neptune?


Yeah, (especially in my experience) the idolatry is ALL in venus' perception....not neptune's.

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hi!

we have the square ( i am nep he is ven)and the trine ( he is nep and im the ven)

so i guess we have the illusion part,and the magic part.

i would say that we both tend to be idealistic in love ( i have the trine natally) he has the square natally) so i guess it is only natural that appearing in the sinastry.

the confort,the magic,the kindness and soft love,the caring is always there.
Even if we argue we cant stand to be angry too many time...we just dont like to be angry with each other.

there is a great need of taking care of the other and we see the best in the other.

it can lead to delusion yes,if we just focus on waht we want to see,but yet again we do have some other aspects that turn things more realistical.

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