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posted June 03, 2009 05:33 PM         

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Well, I'm glad I could help! If you can own those feelings, then you shouldn't really attract people who do that to you. I guess you have to keep it in balance, though.

Look out, I'm off to own my dc...

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posted June 03, 2009 05:35 PM         

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did they say so in this article?? hmm, lol I am so absent-minded if I managed to notice this I would have never posted it lol too late to delete it I guess

<<< notorius foot-in-the-mouth Saggie syndrome I have Moon in Sag

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posted June 03, 2009 05:36 PM         

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Peri,

Did they say what? I'm confused...

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posted June 03, 2009 05:41 PM         

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Diana, it's not that they're worse, they're just more pronounced and yet less likely to be noticed right away, which makes it hard, I think.
I've been reading about it and it's so weird.
I think Peri had another article posted about this, I will try to find it.

Like, I have Neptune in the 7th/almost 8th, and I tend to get lost in relationships to the point of merging with the other. Self-sacrifice has been a huge theme with my relationships. I also tend to forgive the other person's faults A LOT but then at some point the Pluto dsc kicks in and demands payback and an evening of the score lol.
Interestingly, the two planets are in a (generational) sextile.

But that's just one example with the outer planets in the 7th. I think they play a really important role.

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posted June 03, 2009 05:43 PM         

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well I thought they said 'you need to acknowledge your negative, undesirable DSC traits and be responsible for them instead of projecting them onto other people,

Scorp31 and you seem to understand it the way that if you become all that (negative qualities of the DSC sign) then no one will dare approach you with this **** lol, like you have to be bitchy on purpose?

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posted June 03, 2009 06:26 PM         

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Peri

That's the long and short of how I understood it.

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posted June 03, 2009 06:41 PM         

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It means you monitor yourself and when you begin to think something unflattering or negative about someone else, which happens most deeply in close relationships, (with people we don't know we just think "idiot" and go on with the day) then we are to say: "Wait, I am really talking about MYSELF here. I don't like this because it is something I do not like about myself, or do not allow myself to express... so I am upset that they are doing what I wish I could do, or something I know deep down that I also do and I don't like it."
Then we correct our thinking about our partner before we say something cruel or behave badly, and we learn from our thoughts instead of playing out the power struggle/control drama.
Which doesn't mean that we should become a loud-mouth if that offends us... but recognize that we are guilty of that at different times too and carefully adjust our own outspoken expression to the fearless expression we admire deep inside while respecting others expression styles as part of their path and learning. When we recognize Ourselves and see it is always "us" just at a different part of the journey, we can accept others behavior without reacting with anger etc.

It was a really good article and gave me that key I needed to click a bunch of "Tetris pieces" right into place and cause a wonderful chain reaction.

Thanks again, Peri! I hope others enjoy it too (since I passed it on). I hope this makes sense.

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posted June 04, 2009 01:26 AM         

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yes, MM, this is how I initially undertood the article but there's confusion about it >>> must be Merc - Jupiter/Chiron/Neptune square

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