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Topic: your mars/venus combination
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Lonake Moderator Posts: 8104 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 20, 2009 02:06 PM
hi lotion, quote: If you have Mars in Virgo with Venus in Aquarius you are... the Basically Rebellious LoverThere is an intellectual quality about your sexuality. You like to examine your erotic feelings. You view sexual behavior, both your own and that of others, with a cool, almost clinical objectivity. This intellectual distance in no way decreases your susceptibility to physical desire. If anything it makes you more open, inventive, and unconventional in your pursuit of earthy delights. Of all the Mars in Virgo Lovers, you are the most independent and the most uninhibited. This free-and-easy, anything-goes approach to sex may make you appear as though you are uninterested in commitment, but this is not true. Actually, what you want more than anything in your sex life is a sense of permanence and finality. You are looking for an ideal, quintessential love that will satisfy both your curiousity and your physical needs. All your intellectualizing about sex and experimentation is not about having fun. It's about finding a place to stop.
... quote: If you have Mars in Aquarius with Venus in Scorpio you are... the Sexy LiberatorSex often brings out the worst in you. It's not that you're an inept Lover. On the contrary, you take sex so seriously and approach it with such intensity and imagination that you are always in demand. What holds you back, however, is your inability to compromise on issues of desire. Your ideas are fixed and your needs a bit overwhelming. You tend to be a difficult and demanding partner even when your intention is to be gentle and loving. You are so hard to deal with because you are always pulled between an intellectual awareness of sex as a simple, unromantic transaction and your deep, emotional ties to the sexual experience. You are a Lover who is equally capable of white-hot passion and icy cruelty, or touching loyalty and callous wanderlust. You can overcome this inconsistency because, above all else, you are still an idealist who wants love to be true and sex to be meaningful. But it's not going to be easy.
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Lonake Moderator Posts: 8104 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 20, 2009 02:13 PM
hi Benedict Moon*, quote: If you have Mars in Gemini with Venus in Pisces you are... the Technician of ExcitementYou are an extremely alluring and sensual Mars in Gemini Lover whose sexuality is an uneven blend of craftiness and innocence. You are very rational about sex and approach it with great clarity of purpose. But even at your most calculating moment, deep emotional needs and feelings of vulnerability cloud your judgments. This makes you one of the most flightly and unreliable Lovers of this type--a partner who can be manipulative and openhearted at the same time. At your best moments you are a Lover of extraordinary skill and tenderness. You are a human catalogue of sexual positions with a real, deep-seated emotional need to make the most of them all. At your worst you are a compulsive charmer who wins everyone's love and no one's confidence. In between you are a delightful and infuriating enigma--someone all too easy to love but impossible to hold.
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lotion Knowflake Posts: 124 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted June 20, 2009 02:17 PM
thanks so much Lonake! eye-opening stuff!IP: Logged |
meta_4 Knowflake Posts: 1141 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 20, 2009 02:20 PM
Lonake,You're awesome. I know people have probably uttered this to you, but thanks a million for doing this.  IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 8104 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 20, 2009 02:20 PM
hi DD, here you go quote: If you have Mars in Sagittarius with Venus in Capricorn you are... the Conscientious Love ChildYou are a serious dreamer who can't be satisfied with just thinking pretty thoughts--you have to live them. You require concrete fulfillment of your childlike idealism more than any Mars in Sagittarius Lover. Often this means sex that encompasses a cause or includes an important sacrifice--sex that gives you the chance to play at being a hero or savior of someone less fortunate. But for all your emphasis on obligation and noble self-sacrifice, you are practical enough to always take care of yourself first. You are one of the most physical and calculating of all the Mars in Sagittarius Lovers. You adore innocence but do what you have to do to get laid. For this reason you are prone to segregate your carnal desires from your high-minded concepts of love. This plan may work in some instances, but it is fraught with potential problems. In the end, dividing your love life only makes it all that more complex and Mars in Sagittarius Lovers always suffer when love gets too complex.
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Lonake Moderator Posts: 8104 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 20, 2009 02:27 PM
hi aqumoon, quote: If you have Mars in Leo with Venus in Gemini you are... the Maestro of AmusementYour attitude toward sex is uncomplicatedm playful, and far less serious than the typical Mars in Leo Lover. You are an inventive Lover who enjoys surprises and a spirit of discovery in your sex play. This frolicsome nature sometimes conflicts with your need for control. It's hard to constantly introduce new elements into a sexual situation without losing a degree of mastery. But you don't spend much time worrying about this kind of problem. You're too busy looking for adventure and having a good time. Your approach to sex is essentially cerebral. It is ideas, not sensations or emotions, that make sex exciting for you. What you think about your partner is always more crucial than what you feel. This is quite all right as long as your ideas are fresh and lively, but when your thinking becomes stale and exhausted so does your sexuality. Without new ideas to inspire your desire, you can simply lose interest in sex or at least lose your capacity to make sex interesting.
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Lonake Moderator Posts: 8104 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 20, 2009 02:33 PM
hi mercuranian, quote: If you have Mars in Gemini with Venus in Gemini you are... the Technician of Cool LoveYou approach sex like a scientist approaches the laboratory. You just can't wait to see what you will learn. Erotic experiences for you are less a means to sensual pleasure than a way to feed the mind. Sex is a realm of experience that is special because of its intensity, but, in essence, is no different than any other realm of experience. For this reason you can be remarkably free of both shame and restraint. Some may consider you cold and clinical but others will appreciate your openness and indefatigable curiousity. The one element of sexuality that may scare you just a little is commitment. You have no trouble falling in love, but you find it very difficult to stay that way. Your most important and enduring relationships will always have more to do with ideas than sex. The partner who thinks as you do or, better yet, leaves you free to think the way you want will always be closer to you than the person who just gets you aroused. After all, there is no sexual organ more crucial than the mind.
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Lonake Moderator Posts: 8104 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 20, 2009 02:36 PM
hi Vintry, quote: If you have Mars in Pisces with Venus in Aquarius you are... the Radical Love AddictYou are the Mars in Pisces Lover who never closes his or her eyes, no matter how emotionally intense the moment. You are a very sensitive, vulnerable person, but you also have the ability to view your feelings with a cool, intellectual distance. This essential objectivity in the midst of the most rapturous emotional episodes doesn't necessarily save you from painful errors. It does give you the ability to judge your behavior objectively and learn from your mistakes. You are an idealistic person with a strong sense of fair play and high moral standards all your own. You are also a very single-minded Lover and are willing to do whatever it takes to secure the kind of warm, emotionally-sustaining relationship you need. In some ways this uncompromising attitude toward love is your most positive trait. It enables you to overcome many obstacles and fight for what you need. At times it can also make you seem selfish, high-handed, and even dictatorial.
... quote: If you have Mars in Leo with Venus in Gemini you are... the Maestro of AmusementYour attitude toward sex is uncomplicatedm playful, and far less serious than the typical Mars in Leo Lover. You are an inventive Lover who enjoys surprises and a spirit of discovery in your sex play. This frolicsome nature sometimes conflicts with your need for control. It's hard to constantly introduce new elements into a sexual situation without losing a degree of mastery. But you don't spend much time worrying about this kind of problem. You're too busy looking for adventure and having a good time. Your approach to sex is essentially cerebral. It is ideas, not sensations or emotions, that make sex exciting for you. What you think about your partner is always more crucial than what you feel. This is quite all right as long as your ideas are fresh and lively, but when your thinking becomes stale and exhausted so does your sexuality. Without new ideas to inspire your desire, you can simply lose interest in sex or at least lose your capacity to make sex interesting.
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Lonake Moderator Posts: 8104 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 20, 2009 02:38 PM
hi mblover, quote: If you have Mars in Scorpio with Venus in Scorpio you are... the Ultimate Powerhouse of PassionYou and sex have a special relationship. Sometimes your sexuality is your greatest adversary. You struggle with it night and day. It gets the best of you as often as you get the best of it, but winning and losing is less important than the struggle. At times your sexuality is your greatest friend. It provides you with a phenomenal, almost supernatural, store of physical energy and psychological intensity that cannot be confined to your sex life. Lovemaking represents only a small part of your sexual power, though it may well be your favorite part. Sex is such an overwhelming issue in your life that it is sometimes difficult for you to focus all that power on any one partner. In some instances, the partner may even become superfluous because you are so busy wrestling with your own inner demons. At your worst, this self-involvement masks the true warmth and sensuality of your sexual nature and makes you seem cold and ruthless. At your best, it makes you a stronger Lover--able to reach out to the people you love with confidence and spiritual purpose.
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Lonake Moderator Posts: 8104 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 20, 2009 02:51 PM
hi songwriter, quote: If you have Mars in Libra with Venus in Capricorn you are... the Damned-Well-Better-Be Perfect LoverYou are the most devoted of the Mars in Libra Lovers. You honor your commitments not just because you need a relationship to feel whole, but also because you feel the essence of love is living up to your obligations. Your standards are high. Love is a serious matter and only the best need apply. Physical attractiveness will be judged as strenuously as mental, moral and emotional attributes. However, when you find the right person, he or she becomes the object of affection so endless that it will almost pass for worship. Your sex life is full of rules and regulations, mostly of your own design. But the one overriding concern is always your strong physical need for sex. It is very easy for you to play the Mars in Libra game of dividing sex into the kind that matters and the kind that doesn't. The problem is that you tend to be more dogmatic about this intellectual division than you need to be, and this can seriously limit your ability to enjoy either kind of sex.
... quote: If you have Mars in Scorpio with Venus in Pisces you are... the Pulsating Powerhouse of PassionYour sexuality is so powerful that it has a way of changing reality--or remaking the world in the image of your desires. It's not just you that can be led around by your strong emotions. The influence of these powerful feelings is bound to spread to all who love you, and many who don't. Now this is not necessarily bad. Those who are willing to submit to your subtle, psychological bullying are so amply rewarded with love and sex that they seldom complain. But you have to be mindful of the power you possess and use it wisely. Because your feelings are so strong and so personal there is little middle ground in your emotional life. You tend to love and hate with the same extreme prejudice. Sometimes it even becomes difficult for you to distinguish between these two strong emotions, and you begin to enjoy the the hatred as much as you delight in the love. In the world of dark sexual extremes that is Mars in Scorpio, the difference between these two emotions is not so great.
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Lonake Moderator Posts: 8104 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 20, 2009 03:03 PM
hi SaturnIdu, quote: If you have Mars in Sagittarius with Venus in Aquarius you are... the Wild Love ChildYou are the most adventurous of all the Mars in Sagittarius Lovers--a liberated and liberating Lover with an enthusiasm for sex that is both thrilling and infectious. There are few things you won't try and virtually nothing about sex that makes you nervous, with the exception of commitment. You tend to be an unconventional Lover and you have some pretty strong opinions when it comes to sexual issues. Because of this, and your unwillingness to compromise your freedom, it is difficult for you to hold onto your relationships. To like you is easy. To love you can be a trial. Despite all the frenetic energy you bring to it, physical sex is not all that important to you. You use sex mostly as a way to know people, or simply to get their attention. Occassionally, you also use it just for fun; but you do not use sex as the basis for a relationship. Relationships must be based on matters far more intellectual and spiritual, as far as you are concerned. They have to represent a blending of energy and purpose. Sex can be a part of this, or it may not. You can be happy either way.
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Lonake Moderator Posts: 8104 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 20, 2009 03:05 PM
hi meta_4, you're welcome babe  IP: Logged |
mercuranian Knowflake Posts: 545 From: the 12th house Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 20, 2009 03:14 PM
Thank you! Haha "the technician of cool love"  IP: Logged |
lalalinda Moderator Posts: 2324 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 20, 2009 03:47 PM
Hello Lonake, how very sweet and generous of you  I did look but didn't see one for Venus in Taurus and Mars in Gemini Please and thank you IP: Logged |
Lucia23 Knowflake Posts: 2395 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 20, 2009 04:01 PM
I'm ALSO quote: If you have Mars in Virgo with Venus in Cancer you are... the Basically Bewitching Lover You are one Mars in Virgo Lover who needs more from sex than just a physical release. Feelings mean something to you and you are always looking for emotional security and reassurance. This sensitivity fenerally makes you one of the better Lovers of this type. Your lovemaking never stops with just the simple mechanics of sex. There is always intensity, commitment, and vulnerability to add spice and substance to your physical expertise.No matter how serious about sex and love you appear to be, there is always a part of you that finds all the sentiment rather laughable. You have real emotional needs but you abhor being forced to admit them. This conflict makes you a very unpredictable Lover--someone who changes from warm and cuddly to cool and critical without warning. It can also make you appear both ungrateful and insincere to the people about whom you care the most.
This is horribly accurate. :/ IP: Logged |
Yin Moderator Posts: 2676 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 20, 2009 04:50 PM
Hi Lonake! Would you post Mars in Leo, Venus in Sag, please? Thank you!IP: Logged |
safari Knowflake Posts: 28 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted June 20, 2009 05:02 PM
thanks for posting lonake!  The Maestro of Amusement.  much appreciated. IP: Logged |
FoxyAries Knowflake Posts: 62 From: Bay Area, California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 21, 2009 12:31 AM
Gemini Mars, Taurus Venus?Don't know if your post that was Taurus Mars, Gemini Venus is the same thing. IP: Logged |
Benedict Moon* Knowflake Posts: 2791 From: Avendesora Registered: May 2009
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posted June 22, 2009 11:58 AM
Thanks a bunch, Lonake! My sister enjoyed that very much!  IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 8104 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 22, 2009 08:46 PM
i'm not sure if some read my earlier posts but i've given the book away to a friend this past saturday the book wasn't really a big help to me anymore and i offered some interps for a bit not really thinking that many would be interested since it's more "pop" astrology. but there's a "look inside" feature on its page at amazon.com, also the used copies are super inexpensive (something like $1.50 - the "throw away" books always sell very cheaply)...i've just been trying to whittle down my library to the essential. but i'll put all the combos i posted and their pages as an edit to my 1st post here. hope some of these will be useful to you in your synastries in the future! ~lonakebook: the mars venus affair by linda and wendell perry IP: Logged |
Scotscorp Newflake Posts: 23 From: Saint Louis, Missouri Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 21, 2009 08:14 PM
Lonake: Thank you for posting the table of contents for the thread and for all the info in the first place.Scorpio Mars & Venus is right on target for me! ------------------ Scorpio/Leo/Leo "When you realize how perfect everything is you will tilt your head back and laugh at the sky" Buddha After all, when someone at a party asks you what sign you are, and you look at them (penetratingly) and reply, "Scorpio", and they give a little gasp and back away, or instantly inquire what you're doing later, well, it can get a little...tiresome. -Liz Greene IP: Logged |
JChristine Knowflake Posts: 108 From: Brooklyn, NY Registered: Jul 2009
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posted September 21, 2009 08:35 PM
May I see Mars in Aquarius, Venus in Aries?Thank you!! IP: Logged |
StarrofVenusGirl Knowflake Posts: 1314 From: Down the Rabbit Hole Registered: Jun 2009
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posted September 21, 2009 09:21 PM
Whenever you get a chance, please do:Mars in Virgo/Venus in Aries ------------------ My Chart IP: Logged |
Lara Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted September 21, 2009 09:25 PM
WOW!I love this thread!! I noticed that Venus in Cancer, Mars in Libra is missing  Any chance of it please? Thank you! IP: Logged |
nove731 Knowflake Posts: 52 From: Strasbourg, France Registered: Jun 2009
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posted September 21, 2009 09:36 PM
Aww, this looks cool!If you have time, could you please post Mars in Aquarius, Venus in Pisces? Thank you!  IP: Logged |