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Topic: What makes you angry?
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SilverFairy
Knowflake Posts: 13
From: Delaware
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 27, 2009 12:45 PM
 
Virgo Mars in 10th house Conjunct Saturn. People who use others
People who make excuses for behaviors
People who waste my time, stupidness
People who don't respects others, or animals
People who put their problems or job on others.
People who love drama or have this overwhelming need for attention.
Envy, jealousy or pettiness.
And again stupidness! IP: Logged |
katatonic
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posted June 27, 2009 01:45 PM
not much makes me angry anymore, but...pedestrians and bike riders who don't look because they have the "right of way" self-righteous non-smokers "mandatory" anything - though instead of getting mad i just find a way round! people who won't admit i'm smarter than them! mars in cancer conj uranus (6th/5th houses)...(also merc in virgo sextile uranus) IP: Logged |
Dazzled
Knowflake Posts: 13
From: It's a Fine City.
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 27, 2009 01:58 PM
Taken from Stephen Arroyo's book on Astrology, Psychology, and the Four Elements...Lets consider elements and houses.
Level of experiences
Water: Soul and emotional
Earth: Material
Fire: Identity
Air: Social and Intellectual Mode of Expression
Angular: Action
Succedent: Security
Cadent: Learning I have Mars in Pisces in the 1st House. I'm not sure if this is true for Mars in water signs, or for anger in general, but I believe that the thing we are most often angry about, is also the thing we are most helpless about. Emotions, feelings, sensitivities for the water signs perhaps. I am angered by insensitivity and inconsideration, the sphere of the soul and the emotional. I don't like people overriding me or telling me what to do. In the Angular 1st house and fire-sign in quality, to do with the identity. I don't think anyone has ever seen me really angry before though. Not the explosiveness of fire (crack!), or the earthiness of earth (lol) (thum!), or the rapier quality of air (woosh)
but maybe more whirlpool, (slosh, bubbling). IP: Logged |
Fleurdelis
Knowflake Posts: 43
From: A symbolic tree, Earth
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 27, 2009 02:13 PM
Injustice, especially towards myself.
Self-centredness
BetrayalMoon SQ Mars
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Cheshire Kat
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From: Wonderland
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 27, 2009 02:33 PM
Me, Myself, and I..especially my own emotions/sensitivity tend to make me upset. Also people who are not treated fairly or when I am made to feel useless(usually by myself). I don't like when people force religion onto people because they think that person is a heathan that needs saving, if your faith is not coming from your heart and a open mind..I don't want no part of it.Mars in Virgo in the ninth oppose Moon in Pisces, trine Saturn, Square Ascendant. IP: Logged |
Coffee
Knowflake Posts: 580
From: Leeds
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 27, 2009 02:53 PM
If someone says something that offends people, I am a little angry that people take that offence to heart. I expect that behaviour off school children, who have not yet grown.For adults who have lived, they should be adjusted by now and not take that offence in a bad way. I read in some lovely psychology magazine, or whatever, that if people have an emotional reaction to something that is said, it is possible that statement is true and they dont like admitting it. Doesnt give an excuse for people to say whatever, yet if they controlled their own emotional reaction, there would be no offense taken. Like in the India thread, there was a reaction. Not remembering it fully, providing correct facts/perception about that country would seem fine to conteract any statements which were false, yet such an adverse reaction (if there was one) is not always good. It makes me angry that people who should know better by now, dont use it. Especially taking offence when you could just ignore it. IP: Logged |
aerialcircus
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Registered: May 2009
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posted June 27, 2009 03:17 PM
It's hard for me to connect to my Mars- it's retrograde in 5th house Libra. I feel like I'm kind of hard to upset, at least personally. I'm way more likely to get mad about things that are happening on a global scale then things in my own life. But!There are two really definite things that royally get to me though: 1.) People who are cruel to gentle people, or people who are already marginalized or defenseless. I think it shows a tremendously unsympathetic, weak and insecure character, and is the fastest way to get me to hate you. 2.) I also hate when people lie to me or keep things from me in order to "protect" me, because it makes me feel like they don't know me at all or have an opinion of me that's just way off base. Respect me with your honestly, you know? That way I know you see me as an equal. IP: Logged |
Glaucus
Knowflake Posts: 578
From: Sacramento,California
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 27, 2009 04:29 PM
Not everybody is going to like what a person says. That's just life.civil,equal rights activists have always been viewed as highly controversial to people that didn't believe in their views whether it was Dr. Martin Luther King Jr, Frederick Douglas, Susan B. Anthony, and others. I don't necessarily believe that a person gets upset at a person because it's probably true. I think that's a myth a lot of people overreact,get upset some people just have highly sensitive nervous systems I suggest that you go visit special education classes and observe special education students, and you will find that they tend to be more emotional,reactive,hypersensitive compared to other students. I know this personally because I was a special education student.
I remember hitting regular school children including kicking a kid's lunchbox and putting a dent in it because they called me "retard" many people get angry when they are called racial slurs. I have always got angry when I got called the n'word. I am sure many women will get upset for being called gender slurs like the c'word and b'word. I am sure many gays will get upset for being called the f'word.
Therefore, it's just a typical human reaction to get upset by what a person says.
It has nothing do with what the person says being associated with truth.
Raymond
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Coffee
Knowflake Posts: 580
From: Leeds
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 27, 2009 04:46 PM
Maybe I understood it incorrectly. Projection it is caled?
Yes, some people get upset, but the jist of what I am saying is: Why get upset?
You get upset when someone calls you a name and then they will keep doing it. Believe me, my brother knows all about saying things just to upset people. The brother I used to know.Sure, some may not understand this concept because they cannot.
Many can, and SHOULD. Highlighted to make a point, nothing else. What would happen if the majority of people took negative words about them, and didnt react, like it meant nothing to them? Anyone?
Yeah, this place is not like that and never will be. That I understand. There are many people who are fine, intelligent and emotionally adjusted. The concept is easy to understand, but is not practiced.
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blue moon
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From: U.K
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 27, 2009 05:04 PM
Friend of mine has a range of pained expressions for various trivial things, like I forget to put sugar in his tea. If I remembered some else's he would look twice as hurt. Meanwhile, if I haven't got annoyed by something before 10 o'clock in the morning, it's not a normal day. Something will irritate me - a slow light on roadworks, dog turds on the pavement, or the milk has gone off. The average person is going to have some emotional response to the world that might just not hold up to logical examination. Raymond gets upset if people use the 'n' word. I don't like inconsiderate people leaving dog turds lying around. We are Mars in Aqua types, we don't like this kind of attitude, that's the way we are - we aren't going to not care tomorrow morning to give someone else an easier life. IP: Logged |
lalalinda
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From: nevada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 27, 2009 05:59 PM
Mars/Gemini/7th housepompous people
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jwhop
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From: Madeira Beach, FL USA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 28, 2009 12:36 AM
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nove731
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From: Washington, DC, USA
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted June 28, 2009 02:06 AM
Anything that moves slowly shall surely incur my wrath. hahahaMars in Aquarius
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Deux*Antares
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From: No Permanent Address
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 28, 2009 03:01 AM
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What would happen if the majority of people took negative words about them, and didnt react, like it meant nothing to them?
Heaven?   Libra Mars in 5H here. My two guiding principles are: 1) Between being kind and being right, I choose to be kind. I cannot control everything, but I can control how I react to things/people. 2) Energy flows where attention goes, so I don't pay attention to anything that doesn't make me feel good. IP: Logged |
Izo
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Registered: May 2009
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posted June 28, 2009 08:38 AM
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Anything that moves slowly shall surely incur my wrath. hahaha
Heeeeeeey, I had a line just like that in my head, now I can't use it because you said it first. And that makes me  Mars in Aries in the 3rd (the "move already" placement). ------------------
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belgz
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From: Sydney, Australia
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 28, 2009 01:58 PM
i hate stupid and slow people. I am not patient at all. When i think of things i hate thats the only thing that gets me angry straight away. I hate people who do silly things. I hate people who r slow at responding------------------
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Lucia23
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posted June 28, 2009 02:05 PM
Ew, I don't like slow people either--but I only get mad if someone is slow to respond ON PURPOSE. If they are mentally challenged and doing their best fine...but, when some bureaucrat is taking his/her time for no good reason at all, just to be an ass, ruining everyone's day just because he/she is unhappy, that makes me MAD.
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Glaucus
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From: Sacramento,California
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 28, 2009 02:07 PM
"i hate stupid and slow people."Why do you hate stupid and slow people and people that are slow at responding? What is about those people that make you perceive them as stupid and slow? Do others hate you for hating people that are stupid and slow and people that are slow at responding?
One of my petpeeves is about people who are impatient with and hate people because they perceive then as stupid and slow and have slow response.
I might perceive them as intellectual snobs.
Raymond
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lalalinda
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From: nevada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 28, 2009 03:47 PM
friendly reminder
this thread is about what makes us angry
it's not about what we hate.Raymond, you're a  in my book.  Out IP: Logged |
belgz
Knowflake Posts: 182
From: Sydney, Australia
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 28, 2009 03:48 PM
im not talking about people with disabilities. Im refering to people who r like homer simpson but the not so funny type. Example my friend who confuses right and left and made me drive an extra 10kms bkoz he mixed up rite n left. Or people who are not intelligent or people who r slow and lazy mentally and physically. I was just being honest.  ------------------
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blue moon
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From: U.K
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 28, 2009 04:40 PM
Poor grammar, incorrect spellings and typos set my teeth on edge. If your job involves producing literature it does matter. In other environments, less so. When I was young I typed something for my father's friend, I said: bloody hell, you can't spell can you? He said: I'm not very good at reading and writing. It was about the most ashamed of myself I've ever felt in my life. But he was cool about it, his job involves practical business skills and he employs other people to do the paperwork. He is a successful businessman, I am a paper-shuffling pedant. To each their own skills base. quote:
people who r slow and lazy mentally
Just wondering, why couldn't you be bothered to type out the word 'are'? Text speech annoys me, maybe it is my age. You also spelt 'right' as 'rite' - was there a reason for this? It is wrong in this context. IP: Logged |
belgz
Knowflake Posts: 182
From: Sydney, Australia
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 28, 2009 04:55 PM
yeah im a lazy typer. I cnt b bothered with grammer on forums or on the net. I like quick n easy.------------------
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SilverFairy
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From: Delaware
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 28, 2009 05:39 PM
Bluemoon that drives me nuts as well. I don't text like everyone else. lol I actually type out full words! IP: Logged |
katatonic
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posted June 28, 2009 05:59 PM
lol, belgz, i would think banks would be on your list about now...!!IP: Logged |
belgz
Knowflake Posts: 182
From: Sydney, Australia
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 29, 2009 03:18 AM
haha. Trust me everytime i c hsbc i get angry as well. Lol.IP: Logged |
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