posted June 26, 2009 05:04 PM            

I knew you would read that one.

Just following on from the Mars in Virgo thread. Not sure about the suggestion Air Mars would be the most likely to be not interested in sex.

Of course we're interested - we are most likely to think about it and talk about it. But are we the most likely to do anything about it?

posted June 26, 2009 05:10 PM            

Maybe it's a transit thing.

posted June 26, 2009 05:10 PM              

You know what, thats perfectly fine, I rather be playing and have a good time XD.

I am bored, the rain took my fun sunny day in Colorado today.

posted June 26, 2009 05:20 PM            

The idea of some scumbag sweating & breathing all over me, contorting his face into weird expressions then leaving a mess turns my stomach.

I'd rather listen to music

Mars in sag 1st/2nd house
I also have strong Taurus signature, my chart ruler (Jupiter) & south node is in Taurus. Oh & 2nd house Sun

posted June 26, 2009 05:34 PM            

I also loved the way you caught an edit, many people would agree with you on the original one, but some are well into these kind of things.

To each, their own.

What's your Mars sign?

posted June 26, 2009 05:43 PM            

Virgo and Capricorns are the ones who have been in relationships for over a year without sex. Better that way than bad sex. .

posted June 26, 2009 05:58 PM            

I can definitely relate, in that i talk about sex A LOT with friends, and even strangers. I find that my male friends are actually surprisingly honest and open with me about their sex lives- they speak very intimately and truthfully.

However, though i appear to be an 18 year-old version of Dr. Ruth, i have actually never had sex before. In fact, i've never gotten past, what? Second base? Is that what they call it?.. Anywho, i contribute that not to lack of potential partners, but sex is an emotional connection- a spiritual connection, almost- in my eyes. I cannot make that sort of bond with just anyone.

So, alas, though i AM interested i've never let lust get the best of me...

Mars in Taurus (in the 7th)
Venus in Cancer (in the 9th)

posted June 26, 2009 07:11 PM            

Please, allow me this familiarity.... Im very proud of you!

posted June 26, 2009 07:40 PM            

Also I have to shower before I have sex because I cant get "in the mood" unless I feel clean.

I have Mars in Sag in my 6th.

Meta, my boyfriend has Mars in Taurus too and he doesn't have sex unless he loves the person. And if the sex is bad, it means something with the love is wrong. I've always attributed that to his Venus square Pluto, but he also has Mars opposite Pluto.

posted June 26, 2009 07:47 PM            

She has to be my type, I can go for long periods without but once I get her, her a$$ is soup

posted June 26, 2009 08:19 PM              

( david ike could have done with some vit.C .. he looks at least 15 yrs older than he is
( must be his paranoia .. or maybe it's just bad photography ..
( and/or years of alchohol intake ..

** The idea of some scumbag sweating & breathing all over me, contorting his face into weird expressions then leaving a mess turns my stomach. **
yeah could do without scumbags .. rekon i've got better taste than to try 'n shag a scumbag ..
ahh .. le' mess .. sticky problem is that .. 'sweating and contorting' .. mmmmm the more the better to a point ..
'breathing all over me' .. don't mind that as long as it's not right in my face robbing me of my oxygen intake ..
that's just plain unfair ..

posted June 26, 2009 08:30 PM            

Gracias.

Amowls,

quote:

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Meta, my boyfriend has Mars in Taurus too and he doesn't have sex unless he loves the person. And if the sex is bad, it means something with the love is wrong. I've always attributed that to his Venus square Pluto, but he also has Mars opposite Pluto.

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I also have Mars opp Pluto & Venus trine Pluto- so maybe this contributes as well?

"And if the sex is bad, it means something with the love is wrong."

posted June 26, 2009 08:31 PM            

I think i read that you have Sun in the 9th house on another thread. So do i. What is your chart like- are we similar?

posted June 26, 2009 09:00 PM            

I went through a brief period in my 20s when I stopped being interested in sex...it was because I was in a long-term relationship that had gone bad and I felt really, really hurt by my partner, hurt enough I really froze up, but I was too loyal to cheat and hoped we could repair the damage. LG writes about this with Leo women--that when we are really, REALLY hurt we go icy.

posted June 26, 2009 09:20 PM            

I didn't have sex until I was 22 years old. That was during my navy years.

I had thought about not having sex until I met the one woman to spend the rest of my life and marry her

but I succumbed to peer pressure because I wanted to fit in with the guys

I have had few sexual partners in my life,and I am 37 years old

I never understood about guys talking about sex all the time

I wasn't just that interested. I can tell you that I have had strong attractions to females, and it wasn't about sex.

one of the problems was being very shy.
I feel that stemmed from special education years. I was attracted to girls in preschool,and I remember getting my face scratched by one because I came onto her. I also flirted with another girl when I was in kindergarten.
special education really did a number on my self esteem.

I am not interested in sex with a woman unless there is deep spiritual connection that I have with her.

I do want to find a woman to marry and have children with her. I pray to the universe for that to happen.

I think that the actual constellations might have an influence

my tropical Sun in tropical Scorpio is actually in the constellation of Virgo. October 29th is the 2nd to the last day that Sun is in the largest zodiac constellation of Virgo.

my exgf Meghann's tropical Moon in Scorpio was also in the constellation of Virgo.
She had tropical Scorpio Moon-Saturn conjunction in Virgo. When I met her, she was only with one guy - an exboyfriend. She didn't sleep around at all. She didn't have sex until she was 19. Those were some reasons that attracted me to her. She wasn't a conservative either. She is a liberal. She wasn't like some christian woman going to church. She has New age beliefs,and her mom did. She's also a feminist,but her mother was a bit of an extreme feminist. That's why she and I aren't together any more.

but yeah..maybe Virgo constellation really does have an influence. I am not talking about tropical Virgo sign.

also I have high estrogen levels and lower than average testosterone levels, and that's been confirmed by blood hormonal tests by Veteran Affairs. I have the very feminine finger ratios (index fingers longer than my ring fingers). I do have strong feminine traits in regards to highpitched,softspoken voice, highly emotional,sensitive but I also feel that's connected to my Dyspraxia. my father also had all the same traits too. He was Dyspraxic. My mother told me that I remind her so much of my father even though I never knew him.

therefore, maybe my sex hormonal divergence and my Dyspraxia plays a part in why I am not interested in sex like the average male. To be honest, I don't have anything brag when it comes to penis size. Heck..I am a little smaller than average. Of course, when I read women talking about how big their men's dicks are in some threads on this forum, I can admit feel jealous about those men and feel a bit inadequate myself.
I guess that's my chiron in 8th.

also with Dyspraxia being a developmental coordination, it affects how you do things
Dyspraxia means difficulty with planning. Dys - difficulty with, praxis means planning.

coordination is involved in sexual intercourse. after all, muscles and nerves are in the penis, and muscles and nerves are connected to the brain. Dyspraxia is about problems with the brain sending messages to other parts of the body.

I think Dyspraxia can actually effect sex drive. It really does effect intimacy and relationships. There was a Dyspraxic man that talked about how the coordination problems of Dyspraxia effected his ability to have sex. Therefore, I know that Dyspraxia does have a profound effect on intimacy. Hypersensitivity is also involved in Dyspraxia. It has similarities with autistic spectrum disorders in regards to being too sensitive to the environment and that includes touch,light,sound,digestive system,and emotionally. Of course, with hypersensitivity to touch can lead to problems with sexual intercourse too. the over emotional sensitivity can lead to too much vulnerability ...so if I get dumped and rejected, it hurts like hell and I cry. Of course,when love is being accepted and returned, I feel so happy that I feel very inspired,enthusiastic,and jump around. Dyspraxics tend to be very excitable.

In some ways, I am child-like,and it really does bother me at times. I was ashamed of being that way. Especially when I was navy, it was like people saw me as somebody innocent. I had this real clean cut image. I even tried to have a little bad boy luck that I even got my ear pierced too. I wore certain clothes to look cool. That's how insecure I was about myself. I didn't understand about my Dyspraxia until 2003. I got out of the navy in 1999.

A lot of times, I do wish that I am a neurotypical (a person with normal neurological processing). I want to have a normal life. I want to be able to experience things normally like interacting with others in regards to talking,auditory processing,and eye contact as well as being intimate with a woman in a way that I am normal with no problems that can be embarrassing and frustrating.

then I realize that I was born this way for a reason. There is nothing wrong with being different. A lot of people are different. I shouldn't be ashamed of that, but I shouldn't be proud of that either. I should see it as a neutral thing. I could help others like myself. That's what I plan to do for the rest of my life. I know that my life purpose is to help my fellow neurodivergents and to help raise awareness and understanding about neurodivergence including not only its weaknesses but also its strengths. I don't need labels like Indigo,Crystal, nor other things to definine who I am. I am fine with simple term of neuro-divergent.

http://www.dyspraxiausa.org/index.php/Adult-Symptoms.html

Raymond

posted June 26, 2009 09:22 PM            

Me you and MVM should all get together and let our Mars "Bulls" play LOL

<<<Sticking tongue at both of you.