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Topic: Saturn transiting through 7th house
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Shankara Knowflake Posts: 55 From: Buffalo, NY Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 10, 2009 12:06 AM
I've had Saturn in my 7th house for about exactly 4 years, and will finally exit next month. When it entered my 7th house in July of 2005 I was in a relationship (since April of 2004), but it wasn't a very good one. I've been single since April of 2006, and for nearly 3 years I had no interest in a relationship. Do you think that could be because of Saturn. The interest started coming back, off and on, in February, and stronger since last month. Do you think maybe Saturn leaving my 7th house next month might help me attract a new relationship? Or maybe not, because if it's in the 8th that means no sex? Thanks for any feedback. IP: Logged |
leapinglemur14 Knowflake Posts: 85 From: NY Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 10, 2009 12:33 AM
Well saturn is about to hit my 7th. Which when you're in a relationship can either make it or break it. I think it makes you seriously reevaluate what you think is important and what you really want. Don't forget that the 8th house rules Death, Regeneration and Legacies. Finances might become a more serious matter. Like having to save more or something. And as for sex, saturn could put more of a limit on how you can express yourself sexually. IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 819 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted July 10, 2009 12:44 AM
I hope to GOD Saturn through the 8th means no sex I have Saturn finally finishing up its work on my Sun in the 5th, and romance has felt so heavy and serious, like I am not in the mood to just date unless I really, really am into someone. I think, similarly, in the 7th, it would make you more discerning in the area of relationships, and would raise your standards considerably. So, to me, it's like you can't get away from SEEING that something isn't working...and probably the blinders come off. That's my take on Saturn in the 7th with a transit. The last time I had it in my 7th and 8th I was in my teens and had my first serious relationship ever, and also lost my virginity lol. So I think it's just a more serious time for intimacy... I'm wondering how my transit will go this time around, so many years later IP: Logged |
Shankara Knowflake Posts: 55 From: Buffalo, NY Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 10, 2009 12:57 AM
Well, I did break my engagement when Saturn was in my 7th. I've definitely been picky about relationships since! I've spent a lot of time working on myself and figuring out what I want in a partner.IP: Logged |
Lucia23 Knowflake Posts: 655 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 10, 2009 01:22 AM
Saturn is in my bleeping 8th house.It's not like I've had NO sex, but I've had way less sex than usual. I ended a major longterm relationship when it had just left my 7th, coming out of my Saturn return. My Moon, Saturn, Venus are in my 7th, Sun-Merc, Mars in my 8th, so it might've been Saturn bearing down on those planets that slowed down my seductive mojo, rather than the house placement. Saturn just moved a little teeny bit off of my Mars, ready to sloooowly head into my 9th and bear down on my natal Pluto, which is going to fight back. IP: Logged |
Shankara Knowflake Posts: 55 From: Buffalo, NY Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 10, 2009 01:40 AM
Noooo...I've been celibate for over 3 years already ack! Well, my Venus, Mars, Mercury, Vertex, Valentine, and Eros are all in the 7th, so maybe that's why I haven't been in any relationships since this I broke off engagement while Saturn was in the 7th?IP: Logged |
Lucia23 Knowflake Posts: 655 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 10, 2009 02:09 AM
Well, Saturn just makes things SERIOUS and can impose strictures till we make the necessary changes that he wants us to make, which then liberate us and allow us to have real happiness.It can't stop us from having sex, dammit! And, I haven't been celibate through the Saturn in 8th thing...I did have a lover for part of it...and I have been reevaluating what I am looking for sexually and how I see myself as a sexual person. So it doesn't doom you to celibacy, just 8th house Work, what Anne Ortelee calls "doing your Saturn." IP: Logged |
Writesomething Knowflake Posts: 935 From: meet me in montauk Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 10, 2009 02:44 AM
I think it also depends on your natal 8th, aspects, etc. Some people breeze thru certain transits while other struggle thru them. Also applies to 7th/Saturn. I notice thru Saturn/7th transit, I met 2 significant older men, who have had a strong influence on me, although for other reasons, couldnt be with them. Lots of karmic/pluto encounters with the opposite sex. It made me become serious about relationships and become very picky about who I even hang out with. I refuse to lead men on, so if I felt nothing could happen, I would discontinue contact with them and be very blunt. Saturn taught me some painful but very needed lessons regarding relationships and love.IP: Logged |
iQ Knowflake Posts: 283 From: Chennai, India Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 10, 2009 04:37 AM
Hi Shankara, You will have sex with one with whom you are "fated" to have sex when Saturn is in the 8th. 8th House Saturn Transit will cause many karmic events. You will have to deal with established/older schools of thought, you may have to deal with government/tax related issues and so on.Since you know Advaita Vedanta, let me tell you that Saturn in 8th brings the maximum "Rnanubandhanas" to the fore. You will clear the maximum karmic debts now. All good karmic seeds planted now will yield amazing dividends when Saturn is in 10th/11th house. Saturn follows a 7.5 year cycle of karmic rewards/punishments. Celibacy is also a deed that brings karmic rewards in Saturn's rule book. IP: Logged |
ginger cancer Knowflake Posts: 4 From: hungary Registered: Jul 2009
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posted July 10, 2009 05:03 AM
Hello Shankara, Saturn has been transiting my 7th house for about 3 years and there has been many changes in my life, especially when it comes to career, love life and basically all kind of relatioships that require communication (I have natal Saturn, Mercury and Jupiter in my 7th) ))I've been with my boyfriend for really long time and we never broke up, actually this Saturn transit put us through a lot of test (My boyfriend is Capricorn, Saturn- type guy). We went through rough times, good times, all in all, it was quite a journey for my own personal growth. One thing has also changed and that is my relatioships at work and with friends. I learned how to say no to bosses, and put a lot of effort in maintaining my friendships. I also changed country and job. It all happened basically during my Saturn's return last year. So I would say that Saturn transit in my case has really shaken my 7th house ))) IP: Logged |
SilverFairy Knowflake Posts: 18 From: Delaware Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 10, 2009 07:59 AM
When Saturn transited my 7th I married. When it moved to the 8th house, I had plenty of sex that wasn't an issue, what happened was I transformed, the old self died out.. and I started to realize things I hadn't before. It was a difficult experience on an emotional level, but in the end I came out feeling much stronger, and I knew who I was more then I probably ever have. I did have a couple losses when it was in the 8th.. My Chinchilla and my cat. Very sad because they were my babies. IP: Logged |
Lucia23 Knowflake Posts: 655 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 10, 2009 12:44 PM
quote: You will have sex with one with whom you are "fated" to have sex when Saturn is in the 8th.
I just can't imagine this is true for me...I had sex with a Gemini actor ten years younger than me because he was so cute. It doesn't seem to have a lot of connection to my creative work, my soul's path, the people I'm most connected with or hope to be, or anything too important. Although I'm not a fatalist, I often get an intuitive feeling that something is important in my life or part of my destiny, even if I don't receive a full explanation of how or why. And that sooo did not happen with the Gemini actor...it felt like a fun choice that was highly optional in terms of my life path. Then again, I guess I still have quite a few months of Saturn in my 8th... Have others found this? That there seemed to be a karmic significance or "fated" feeling with your lovers at that time? IP: Logged |
Just Mia Knowflake Posts: 140 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 10, 2009 01:03 PM
trSaturn is going through my 7th house and it has been since Aug 2006..A couple more months and it will hitting my 8th house..But when it first hit it was crazy for me..But yes it has allow me to have very,very high standards,understand some thigns about myself and figure out what it is that I want from a relationship..I have been off and on with a guy since 2004, but uh now that Saturn is close to leaving my 7th house I know exactly what I want from a relationship and he cannot come back to me as long as we are on different pages and I mean it this time..It was said that when Saturn leaves a house it always leaves a gift..hmmmmm... IP: Logged |
Shankara Knowflake Posts: 55 From: Buffalo, NY Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 11, 2009 02:29 AM
Interesting replies everyone. I'm not going to get nervous about it. I know my mom sometimes freaks out (like recently when Pluto was squaring her sun and she thought something bad would happen), but I don't even mind the squares anymore. And Saturn through my 7th has been good for me. There was very difficult times but I have been changed for the better. So I think that any aspect or transit brings opportunity (some more difficult than others), and it's up to me how to utilize it.IP: Logged |
Alia Knowflake Posts: 259 From: az Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 11, 2009 06:37 AM
IQ what if that person w saturn in 8th has sex when sat in 8th touches natal pluto? is that sex even more fated?IP: Logged |
Lara Knowflake Posts: 1039 From: aspideronmars Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 11, 2009 07:29 AM
In equal houses i have saturn in my 8th and i am seriously doing the karmic clearance thing! lolI am also having less sex grrr but i don't care because it's just a cycle i hope. IP: Logged |
iQ Knowflake Posts: 283 From: Chennai, India Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 11, 2009 07:35 AM
<< IQ what if that person w saturn in 8th has sex when sat in 8th touches natal pluto? is that sex even more fated? >> I am inclined to say yes.IP: Logged |
Alia Knowflake Posts: 259 From: az Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 11, 2009 09:09 AM
thanks iq so ,case scenario ,this man is in a relationship 2 years,with person A but then reconnect w a woman from the past,person B, so now has sex w 2 women. which one is the fated one?IP: Logged |
evander Knowflake Posts: 46 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 11, 2009 09:19 AM
A friend of mine broke up a 7 year old relationship during Saturn transiting her 7th house. I sort of thought that the break up would occur some time ago, since her DC is on 7Leo. The trigger seems to be Saturn opposing Pisces Moon Sun and Mercury. My guess is Saturn opposing DC ruler is what did them in. Another friend of mine has DC at 29LEo and her relationship is doing ok. I'm worried though that when Saturn hits 8 of Libra and squares her 5th house Cancer Venus she will be devastated. Do you guys think she can make it through? ------------------ if you want to see my chart paste: i41.tinypic.com/29z8u2w.gif in the adress bar of your internet browser IP: Logged |