posted July 12, 2009 12:18 PM         

HOLY MOLY! Look how freakin' loaded your 7th and 8th houses are! You must be a relationship/sex guru!!! Oh, and nice Jupiter in the 2nd. You must be rich, with 10 mansions and flashy sport cars.

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When the eclipse hits my Venus later this month, maybe I'll meet someone too.

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posted July 12, 2009 12:37 PM         

I get very sexually frustrated. AGONY.

Jupiter, hah, no, I'm totally broke! But that's an area (unlike love and sex, with SATURN in the mix) where I just feel lucky and easy...I've never had much money and never cared that I didn't...people are always treating me to exciting trips or giving me free food...it's one of those things where just enough $$ always appears at the right moment. I wish romance could be more like that.

In an equal house system Jupiter moves to my 3rd, Mars to my 9th.

posted July 12, 2009 12:38 PM         

LMAO! Yeah, i know- lame! But, hopefully he won't go running toward the hills! Besides, i don't want a man who can't handle my intensity. What good will that do me in the long run? Might as well be frank from the start!

posted July 12, 2009 12:49 PM         

The only reason i decided to "pursue" (if that's even the right word?) getting to know him is because the first time i saw him i was put-off. Like, i was just chatting and laughing with my mates and when i glanced over and saw him coming toward us i felt a shift. I became very serious, even anxious. Heart beat a little faster, hands clenched a little tighter, blah blah. It was a *GULP* moment. I didn't like it.

posted July 12, 2009 12:53 PM         

Most of the men I've (mutually) gone for have been musicians or actors. I like a man to be kind of magnificent, like the air leaves the room when he sweeps in. Adventurous and curious, loves to study and learn and travel.

The men I've had my most significant relationships with have all fit this description--two Libra musicians with a Scorpio/Pluto influence (both my longest relationships), two Geminis, and one Aries artist who was a real a**hole but I was soooo turned on by him. The guy I am attracted to now is a Scorp with Libra Rising.

Sexually, a little dirty, and not afraid to try to dominate me even though I am intimidating. I like heavy-duty emotional games and sparring as foreplay. I love that whole both-of-us-pretend-we-don't-want-each-other-but-then-overwhelmed-by-passion-we-fall-into-bed thing...BUT I also like a man to really be my buddy, my partner in crime, interspersing the heavy-duty Plutonic stuff with lots of shared humor, fun, and silliness.

posted July 12, 2009 01:11 PM         

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I love that whole both-of-us-pretend-we-don't-want-each-other-but-then-overwhelmed-by-passion-we-fall-into-bed thing...

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Abso-freakin'-lutely!!!! I literally clapped my hands when i read that!

posted July 12, 2009 01:21 PM         

I'm totally not attracted to Cancer or Pisces men so far.

EDITED: I think with the watery men...hmmm....some have been attracted to me, but with the ones I'M attracted to back, they just really don't seem to go for it. With the guy who rejected me, his mixed signals just drove me nuts. With the guy I lust after now, we have a complicated relationship--I actually think the attraction is probably mutual, but maybe not--he doesn't just grab me and kiss me. He sure is around a lot, doing things that to me are just buildup to eventually getting it on, but maybe the waterboys don't see it like that.

Whereas a Gemini guy reads all me "I want you" signals to mean that I WANT him, so he will do things like invite me places and initiate making out with me. I'm so confused about that with the Scorps--and it makes my fragile Cancer innards feel like they don't find me beautiful or desirable--but then if not, why all the signals that they ARE interested? And if they're not interested, why not just let me KNOW that so I don't pant desperately after them? I hate having to question my sex appeal.

Anyway, yes, give me Air or Fire guys any day. I feel like with water, they advance if I retreat (or if I am not interested), and they retreat if I advance.

posted July 12, 2009 10:22 PM         

A) Taurus man is in a relationship. One which everyone predicts will be short-lived.

B) Taurus man is unlucky in love. "He always get into relationships that are doomed. He goes for 'troubled' women. Women who need 'fixed'."

C) Taurus man is divorced.

D) Taurus man has a son.

Needless to say, I have had an exceptionally sh**ty day.

posted July 13, 2009 04:21 PM         

Well, Taurus man finally replied. Here's our syn:

He also encouraged me to get to know him. Hang out with him. And also promised me, "i am not ur typical taurus."

What's a Lioness to do?!

posted July 13, 2009 04:28 PM         

Hang out with him, get to know him better, see what is there or what not.

posted July 13, 2009 04:38 PM         

I read for a guy once and he had his birthtime wrong by 5 minutes--the difference was his enormous Scorp stellium in the 6th rather than the 7th--huge difference. So when someone is like. "Well, it was around 1:05", now I tell them to check and find the real time.

Message him back and get a real birth time! Since he's born in the USA, it will be on his birth certificate.

Well, he sure sounds interested! Buuuuttt he sounds unavailable, however negatively others might think about his relationship.

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Hang out with him, get to know him better, see what is there or what not.

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Well, I dunno. I would make sure he is free first--that his relationship is not committed and that they are consensually seeing other people. Otherwise, you're stuck being platonic when you're attracted to him, or stuck helping him cheat--neither is a right situation for a lovely Lioness.

posted July 13, 2009 04:40 PM         

Though his 3rd (your 9th) ruler is square to your 3rd ruler. Neptune is qunicunx Mercury, which will show some difficulty in understanding each other. It will be more confusing to him on your part, rather than you being more confused from what he may say.
Just be clear.

posted July 13, 2009 04:56 PM         

You should first be sure what you want of him. Cause it definitely could lead you to be stuck in a platonic connection, and it`s difficult to change "categories" again.

posted July 13, 2009 05:12 PM         

After having read what he wrote to me, i really get the feeling that, if i spent time with him, something would happen. And that frightens me. Not just because he's taken, but because:

1) He has been divorced, and has a child. He's not going to be as willing to enter into a relationship with me as someone who hasn't been through those things would. I know i will have to fight for it. And that's not a problem, but i don't want to fight for him, then get him, and then hurt him.

2) I am going back to Philadelphia at the end of August to go to school. If i enter into a serious relationship (which is what i want) where would that leave us? What would that mean?

I don't want to get too ahead of myself, because he hasn't even really mentioned anything romantic, but... i just want to set in my mind what i'm after- a lover or a friend. I don't want to go any further without knowing which.