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Topic: physical attraction
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glamgem25
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From: Texas
Registered: May 2009
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posted July 11, 2009 10:29 PM
 
I have Venus in Cancer but I am not attracted to Mars in Cancer males...well at least the handful I've met. I thought Venus/Mars conjunction was suppose to mean attraction?? What else do you look at for PHYSICAL attraction??IP: Logged |
Lucia23
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posted July 11, 2009 11:37 PM
Great question! With just a physical vavavoom-the-lower-half-of-my-body-okay-now-my-whole-body-is-on-fire, I've always had:-Venus-Pluto
-Valentine conjunctions to planets, angles, or sex/love asteroids
-sex/love asteroids conjunct ASC, DC, MC or IC
-Nodal conjunctions (I know these don't technically govern lust, but as an 8th house person I guess I need to feel some deep transformative connection to have the hots for the guy)
-Eros conjunct Mars, Venus, or a love/sex asteroid (in one noticable case, Lust)
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MyVirgoMask
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posted July 12, 2009 12:16 AM
Conjunctions or hard aspects to the angles work for me, especially the 1st, or even the 8th. The 8th has been a deeper sexual interest.Mars conj Venus has been highly overrated for me. I like squares and oppositions to my Venus from a man's Mars... probably since I have an opposition in my own chart. Look at your Mars for the kind of man you like. And I don't mean the sign you would like, I mean the traits.
For instance, I have Mars in Taurus in the 1st house. That means I like my men direct (1st house), robust, and sensual in a touchy-feely way. With nice hands preferably 
The aspects made to your Mars further suggest what you'd find sexually attractive, as well as aspects made to your 1st house and 8th house rulers in synastry and your own chart. That's been the case for me, at least. IP: Logged |
Lucia23
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posted July 12, 2009 12:50 AM
My natal seems to give little indication of the types of men I like, other than house placements, at least in the traditional sense...I have natal Mars in Virgo, Venus in Cancer, and the kinds of men I'm most attracted to are sort of Scorpio-influenced Libras or Libra-influenced Scorpios with lots of fire, or Geminis with lots of fire.My Draconic tells the whole story of my attractions--Moon in Libra in the 7th (conjunct DC), Venus in Scorpio in the 7th, Sun-Mars in Sag in the 8th. IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
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posted July 12, 2009 01:04 AM
Lucia, what's your 5th house ? Maybe that would give clues too about what you like ?Oh, and I have a major Scorpio-influenced Libra guy (ex) you can have (I'll ship him out to you)  IP: Logged |
StarrofVenusGirl
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posted July 12, 2009 01:06 AM
Hmmm. That makes sense. I have Mars in Leo and I love Fire signs, mostly Aries and Sagittarius men. I also have Venus in Scorpio and love Scorpios. Good stuff. IP: Logged |
Lucia23
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posted July 12, 2009 01:16 AM
My 5th is Taurus and Gemini...so that might explain the Gemini thing. Although the one Gem I was really into whose birth info I had had his Sun in my 6th (mine in his 6th too, a 0 degree sextile). The other was at a time when I wasn't into astrology.I am ready to give up on the Scorp-Libra combos--Saggies, please apply here! EDIT: MVM, if you want my Plutonic Libran ex, say the word! My guess is that you're barricading the doors. IP: Logged |
glamgem25
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From: Texas
Registered: May 2009
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posted July 12, 2009 01:36 AM
Ok myvirgomask:My mars is in Gemini:
The man who attracts you is clever and changeable, and a great conversationalist. If he can keep you guessing, then he'll keep you interested. "Communication" is very important to you, so the man who can share information and ideas appeals to you. If he says interesting things and stimulates you intellectually, he'll spark a romantic interest too. You respond to clever conversation and things that arouse your curiosity. Double meanings, sexual innuendos, word-games, and witty flirting arouse your interest.
You can be a sucker for the "smooth-talker", but also for the "good listener" who seems interested in everything you have to say. And you do have lots to say. If you have Mars in Gemini, you may be especially drawn to men who arouse your curiosity or offer a variety of experiences. Being "interesting" is more important to you than being exceptionally attractive. Sounds good to me!! 
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GypseeWind
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From: Dayton,Ohio USA
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posted July 12, 2009 03:17 AM
ohhhh
yes much confusion here, forgive me its the bday of my best friends who passed. I have been drinking, it was a celebration of his life that turned weird. but anyway.If a womans mars is who she attracts I still cant grasp it! my mars is in libra and I don't no any personally, so very intrigued.
Lotsa people on here have tried to make it more understandable to me, I guess I am not there yet. I am however, curious and would appreciate any stories or imput. maybe it is a lesson yet for me to learn? IP: Logged |
glamgem25
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posted July 12, 2009 03:19 AM
me to gypsee on the lesson learned and having drinks!! lolIP: Logged |
GypseeWind
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posted July 12, 2009 03:26 AM
yet my greatest attraction and love share jupiter in sag, venus in sag, or moon in sag.
My jupiter and venus and sun are in sag, and those that I've loved have at least two outta three. Does that make sense? Or is it a comfort factor? Yikes, I really want to break outta the box, but yet, that is what draws me, even when I don't know their placements yet!IP: Logged |
GypseeWind
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posted July 12, 2009 03:29 AM
Oh Glamgem are you typing one-eyed and backspacing alot? I feel so bad coming on here impaired, but who else is gonna listen to this stuff?Please forgive me knowflakes for being like this, it is just a traumatic day, no excuses for excess, but my bad! IP: Logged |
glamgem25
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posted July 12, 2009 03:29 AM
Yes it makes sense. My greatest attraction is my moon conjunct his venus/mars!! Wow! IP: Logged |
glamgem25
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posted July 12, 2009 03:31 AM
Aww you are fine gypsee....I dont think the forum police will get ya for backspacing too many times!! lolIP: Logged |
GypseeWind
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posted July 12, 2009 03:33 AM
lol, thanks doll, you know, I figure we all have our days, thank the lord we aren't perfect!IP: Logged |
glamgem25
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posted July 12, 2009 04:09 AM
No ones perfect and we all deserve an off day!! IP: Logged |
Lara
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From: aspideronmars
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posted July 12, 2009 04:16 AM
MVM, geez, no wonder mens hands turn me on so much!!
Mars in Taurus So what would mars in taurus/4th house mean then? that i like a man who cooks and pampers me at home? OR
That i like a man whom has done inner work on himself and can express himself on a deep and meaningful level.
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MyVirgoMask
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posted July 12, 2009 05:31 AM
" MVM, if you want my Plutonic Libran ex, say the word! My guess is that you're barricading the doors."
...*Peering out from behind a pile of grand pianos* YEP  Lara, I don't know what it is about the hands. I see them and if I like them, I'm like "DUHHH. You put hands on me now, okay? In Public Place. Me 1st House Mars. We do freaky thing, and me happy. You happy too." God, I'm such a tool 4th house Mars... I don't know. But it sounds like you'd be okay with having the bedroom door closed
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Lara
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From: aspideronmars
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 12, 2009 06:35 AM
LOL
I really go dizzy over a great pair of hands. I once dated a photographer for 5 years and he had beautiful hands with long fingers.When i met Brian May off Queen, i drooled over his hands lol
He even asked me why i kept looking at them  mmmm
hahaha @bedroom door closed.
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Benedict Moon*
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From: formerly Dulce Luna
Registered: May 2009
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posted July 12, 2009 09:29 AM
Because of the nature of most Gemini Mars men that I've known, I can only think of one time that the venus/mars conjunction has worked for me and I honestly thought/still think the guy was beautiful. Every other mars gemini guy I've known has seriously irritated me. Urrrgh, I very much prefer a Gemini *sun*, mercury, or even Jupiter to conjunct my Venus. IP: Logged |
Leodiva
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From: Hoffman Estates, IL, Cook
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted July 12, 2009 10:39 AM
I like Moon/Mars aspects. Those are really playful and sexy at the same time. The trine and the sextile are not as turbulent and volatile as the conjunction, square, or opposition.Venus square Mars
Venus conjunction Pluto
Mars in 5th house
Eros conjunct/oppose Psyche And the shocker...Sun conjunction Moon. Maybe because it encompasses a deeper emotional and romantic attraction that is deeply fulfilling. IP: Logged |
amowls*
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 12, 2009 12:02 PM
I've never met anyone with Mars in Pisces (my Venus is in Pisces). However, I've met plenty of people with Venus in Sagittarius (my Mars is in Sag).IP: Logged |
meta_4
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posted July 12, 2009 12:25 PM
Lara & MVM, quote:
MVM, geez, no wonder mens hands turn me on so much!!
Mars in Taurus
I share this sickness- and this placement! I lurve mens hands. If he doesn't have "the right" hands, then i'm not attracted to him. Think Gary Oldman's hands. They are Perfecto! Anywho, i wanted to say that you're not just attracted to men like your Mars placement. It's a combination of your ENTIRE chart. Mars is just one piece of the puzzle. Your Venus REALLY influences your attractions, so does your Moon, and your Ascendant. Plus, as MVM mentioned, the aspects that are being made to these planets. I like me some squares and oppositions because those aspects are prominent in my chart. It varies from person to person. IP: Logged |
meta_4
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posted July 12, 2009 12:29 PM
glamgem, quote:
I have Venus in Cancer but I am not attracted to Mars in Cancer males...well at least the handful I've met.
WHAT?!?!? Well, then obviously you haven't been meetin' the right ones, honey! I have Venus in Cancer and let me tell you! Them Cancer Mars men are mightyyyyy fine!    What's not to like?! IP: Logged |
Lucia23
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posted July 12, 2009 12:29 PM
I'm obsessed with men's hands too! Maybe it's less an astrological thing than a heterosexual woman thing? My Mars in Virgo.IP: Logged |
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