posted July 13, 2009 03:04 AM         

Well, I can't speak for every Sag male out there but I have to agree with what has been said by others on this thread.

Yes...I do enjoy a high degree of personal freedom and I do like to talk about everything under he sun.

I have noticed, however, that the one thing that does get my attention is someone who really does their own thing..somebody whom I know has a life that is external to mine and someone whom (when we come together) can talk about their own experieces and be able to relate somewhat with mine.

It is also imortant that the person have a healthy sense of humor(I don't mean the kind that is mean and underhanded) but the kind that is playful and uses a lot of verbal cues. You must be able to laugh at yourself.

posted July 13, 2009 12:31 PM         

Sadges are all about living in the present moment--if that moment includes campfires, travel, deep philosophy, and rollicking good humor, even better--so what I would do is change your GOAL with the Sag...have it be your goal to really embrace the moment with him and have the most fun and adventure possible when you are together.

When not together, have a full, exciting life, not as a performance for the Sadge (they hate dishonesty and posturing), but more...let the Sag inspire you to be more that way yourself.

I know the society is set up so that we're supposed to feel it's not "true love" if the relationship is open or unconventional, but to me, a deep, fun, adventurous, totally free connection with an Archer would be waaaay more fun than managing to confine one. You wouldn't move a wild horse or the god Pan into your apartment. Of course Sag men do commit, but unless you have a very full life otherwise and the Sag has the freedom he needs to romp off, this can be no fun.

One problem is Sags are not always the most faithful and monogamous of signs. If you are really living in the present moment, it's hard to keep in mind your obligations. Capturing one's heart doesn't necessarily mean you have captured his sexual exclusivity--capturing one's fidelity and obedience does not necessarily mean you have captured his heart.

posted July 13, 2009 01:36 PM         

sag's are drawn to leos like a moth to fire.

there is an understanding they have for each other that transcends much.

my sag was 46 years old when we got married, and i am the first girl he ever wanted to marry. i trust him with my life.

just be yourself have fun and the rest will happen if it is meant to be.

look at mars and venus aspects and your moon.

posted July 13, 2009 01:52 PM         

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I am leo female he's saggitarus male

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Thats like saying "Im a human" and expecting someone to glean more information through that.

Is he Sag rising, Sag Sun?

posted July 13, 2009 02:06 PM         

I tried to attach charts but it's more than I can handle right now.

He is aquarius ASC and I am cap ASC.
He is Taurus moon I am scorpio moon
He is scorpio Venus and I am leo venus .

posted July 13, 2009 02:08 PM         

They love us because we glow and shine, because we are wild, because we can be ferocious, because we are playful, because we are up for an adventure, and because we like to create FUN in every situation.

The problem is, those of us with other influences (hello Moon, Pluto, Cancer in my chart, for example)--the Sags are less allured if we get clingy, depressive, possessive, or needy. And I think that's why a Sag can be good for Leo--they can teach us to love without it being all about possession--and we are good for them too, inspiring them to demonstrate loyalty...by choice and out of love, though. Not because we forced or tricked them or trapped them in the den, but just by being our Leo selves.

EDITED: Coffee, it's interesting on LindaLand that there are so many people who find Sun Signs irrelevent, since my two favorite Linda Goodman books (Sun Signs and Love Signs) are entirely Sun Sign based.

posted July 13, 2009 03:10 PM         

Ok LL, Aqua and Cap ASC are a good mix, best you can get! (two signs next to each other)
Your 7th ruler is Moon in Scorpio, while his 7th ruler is Sun in Sagittarius. Both next to each other...excellent again.

Both Venus are square, not the best, yet not a major theme in this relationship.

Aquarius risers, like myself, are very free people and dont like being tied down, so well done for getting into a relationship with one.
An Aquarian is not a person to attempt to change....some might call it "to control" Hope you dont do that

If he seems like he doesnt want to settle down, take it as he doesnt want to settle down. That seems fairly Aquarian.

Last of all, communicate. He seems to be certain things, but are you guessing? Why not sit him down an have a nice direct one-to-one chat about what he wants and all that rubbish?

You would learn more that way than putting it out to people on this astrology forum.

He has Sun in Sagittarius ruling his 7th.
Longer light blone hair is a possible appearance option for someone with that combination. Sag can be very freedom loving, in a similar way to an Aquarian. Friends? Yeah, that is a good start. She would be very outgoing...sure you dont have a problem there.

posted July 13, 2009 04:21 PM         

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The problem is with Sun sign horoscopes in newspapers, which introduce the Sun in a sign as what you are

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Oh, agreed. Even something like Susan Miller's monthly horoscope is written as if your ASC is your Sun...even if you read for your ASC, depending on the degree the house placements of part of what she discusses are still wrong sometimes.

I like reading Anne Ortelee's column, where she talks about what's going on astrologically for everyone, and then I can look up the exact dynamics of the action she's discussing in my own chart.

posted July 13, 2009 04:47 PM         

Just keep it very, very real. Remember that we can be careless, but we sure do hate to let anyone down... especially someone we really care for.

One more tip-- if a Sag is into you, you'll know it because they know it. We're not great at keeping secrets, especially our own. If he hasn't yet figured out that he's in love with you, you should move forward as though you're just friends.

posted July 13, 2009 10:17 PM         

Being an interesting person to talk to is very important...and worldly...someone who has been places; not necessarily traveled the world, but in town, has places they like to go or have been. Someone we can relate to and takes a genuine interest in others and what they're up to...

Someone who means what they say and acts on it...not blowing hot air and full of b.s. Very important. Being persistent and following through on what you say you're going to do. Tenacity is a good quality, and open-minded.

I beg to disagree, but most Sags natives I know are monogamous and don't play the field unless they're very young and not ready to be in a committed relationship. That's a huge misconception about the Sag Sun sign.

posted July 13, 2009 10:44 PM         

They are some of the most free spirited, impulsive people I've ever met and I mean that in the best way possible.

They act on how they feel in the moment that they feel it. They fall in love quickly and move on even faster if it doesn't work out. I think this is where the "player" misconception comes from.

I think the best think you can do is be yourself and be their friend before anything else. Whoever said they're awful at keeping "secrets' is right - if they like you it will just SHOW.

The first Sag and I were never officially together but it was the best "relationship" I've ever been in. We went in circles for a long time but we were very good friends before anything else. I think we understood that being "together" or not being "together" wouldn't change that we felt very deeply for each other and always would.

The second Sag is actually my current boyfriend. There was an immediate spark but things are still new. We both have our own lives and don't need to spend every second with each other but when we are together things are very good and natural feeling.

I'm a Leo Sun/Aquarius Moon/Virgo Rising
Sag #1 was a Sag Sun/Libra Moon/Pisces Rising
Sag #2 is a Sag Sun/Aquarius Moon/Libra Rising

posted July 13, 2009 11:28 PM         

Great advice.
He calls me most of the time, he called today to see if we could hang out today, I said no (which is a first) so we will hang out tomorrow.

I will go with the just be yourself advice and see where this goes. We've dated in the past and we have fun and the sparks usually fly but then I don't hear from him for about a week after the date. I guess that's normal for a sag but Leo's are terribly impatient. We've never been intimate but he does ignite my fire.