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Topic: “Barren” – I hate that word…
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downtomars Knowflake Posts: 152 From: NY Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 22, 2009 02:43 AM
I really love kids and I want them…eventually. SO, I go online and search for astrological indications of childbirth and I find the following things:- Should have the Moon in a feminine sign - Feminine sign on the 5th house cusp - Feminine planet in the 5th house - If there is a masculine planet in the fifth, the sign’s ruler should be feminine and not retrograde…. Well, I have Moon in Libra, Gemini on the 5th house cusp, Mars in the fifth and Mercury is retrograde in the 7th… Depressing. I did hear from a psychic, years ago, who had no access to my chart, that I would have 3 kids, 2 births. I thought that was interesting, years later, because I found that I had Gemini on the 5th house cusp… Is there any hope? Are there other indications I am missing? Has anyone defied the astrological odds out there?
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Cheshire Kat Knowflake Posts: 262 From: Wonderland Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 22, 2009 02:53 AM
There's no definant answers to childbirth, I fit everything above and I have no real desire to have children anytime soon. O_OI believe my cousin has very masculine planets/placements dominating her chart and she had two boys a Cancer and a Pisces when she became independent and career driven now she can relax and take care of her little family and she cherishes those boys. ^.^ IP: Logged |
DepTaurus Knowflake Posts: 359 From: canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 22, 2009 02:53 AM
hey downtomars i agree barren is a word makes a woman sound like shes not needed.hey if your looking for more astrological indications there should be a thread on that i found it intresting and bumped it up you should check it out it might help you find what your looking for. theres always hope for kids you gotta get on. dont worry youll have your kids. IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel Moderator Posts: 1483 From: peace.angel@live.com.au Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 22, 2009 02:54 AM
Astrology is never as black and white as those very few aspects. Neither is life.You'll have children. IP: Logged |
bopbop Knowflake Posts: 100 From: USA Registered: Jun 2009
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posted July 22, 2009 03:05 AM
Yeah don't listen to that. I don't have any of those things, either... yet I have ample child-bearing hips, so take that misinformation! Where did you get that criteria?IP: Logged |
downtomars Knowflake Posts: 152 From: NY Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 22, 2009 04:06 AM
One of those fatalistic interpretation sites: http://www.sacred-texts.com/astro/aia/aia31.htm There are more out there (just look up "barren signs" and it is everywhere ), I just don’t want to deal with any more negatives… Thanks PA, Dep, Bopop, Cheshire for the words of encouragement !
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aka Kat Knowflake Posts: 17 From: Cleveland, Ohio Registered: Jun 2009
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posted July 22, 2009 07:23 AM
I think the best indication/sign that you will conceive is if you have a uterus and sex without birth control at a time you are fertile before the age of 35. After 35 your fertility declines but it is still possible to conceive. Think about!!!!!IP: Logged |
Yin Knowflake Posts: 413 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 22, 2009 08:59 AM
Funny, I was thinking of that word yesterday. I don't have any children, nor do I want any biological ones. (Libra Moon here too)Do you have any female problems that may prevent you from having children? If the answer is no, then there is a big chance you WILL have children since you want them so much. IP: Logged |
lechien Knowflake Posts: 140 From: i live in a kitchen Registered: May 2009
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posted July 22, 2009 09:08 AM
hey whenever i talk about might wanting a baby in the future but i'm unsure, this is what a guy friend of mine tells me. "well YOU can have a baby ANY TIME you want, unlike me". (cuz he's not a woman but he wants a baby)IP: Logged |
Cynnared Knowflake Posts: 207 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 22, 2009 09:27 AM
At 37, I have had no issues about my fertility or conceiving this baby.....never worried about it. November ...BANG it happened.....Children just seem to happen in my life unplanned....ah but they are pleasant surprises that gives life an interesting adventure. (Mind you, if fertility was a gift that could be given away, I would donate mine to somebody who really wants children!)Aries folks are supposed to be barren, which is me....well this is what I've read. My biological Mother (Sun in Leo, Aries Moon, Saggy Rising with Aries on the 5th) seems like her placements were barren.....no, she had 3 children in her life. She never planned on ever having children, but this woman did. I don't pay attention much to astrological placements and whether or not a person will have children.....though it could indicate fertility issues if there are any. I came across a couple who were trying for 3 years and finally got pregnant, after some help. I'm not sure what their charts were like.....He is a Pisces and I'm not sure what sign she was. My heart goes out to folks like that....like I said if fertility was a gift....... I'm not sure how old you are,but I do believe children will come in time for folks! I remember when I was around 24, I dreamt about having a child of my own and being called Mommy....At 31, I had my daughter! And now I'm due any day now about ready to pop! (Course after this I really want to get fixed.....pregnancy is very rough for me and I was so very ill this pregnancy.....) Always dream and keep your eyes on the prize! Children will be in your life! have faith! IP: Logged |
amowls* Knowflake Posts: 441 From: richmond va Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 22, 2009 09:39 AM
quote: - Should have the Moon in a feminine sign - Feminine sign on the 5th house cusp - Feminine planet in the 5th house - If there is a masculine planet in the fifth, the sign’s ruler should be feminine and not retrograde….
this is so BS. Angelina Jolie has none of these placements and she has 6(?) kids, 3 of whom she gave birth to. Plus these days, even if you have trouble conceiving, there are medical fixes for it. If you want a kid, you'll have a kid. IP: Logged |
iQ Knowflake Posts: 338 From: Chennai, India Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 24, 2009 04:56 AM
Total BS... dont believe such statristically invalid stuff. Every afflication can be overcome. I have Saturn in 5th sq Mars exact, yet have 2 kids, with a Libra Moon wife who has True Node in 5th. Ancient astrologers would call it a double affliction...IP: Logged |