posted July 30, 2009 09:22 PM         

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•Sun• Cancer
•Moon• Gemini
•Mars• Cancer
•Mercury• Cancer
•Venus• Leo

posted July 30, 2009 09:34 PM         

Belgz, is your Venus retro as well?
Yeah, he can be pretty reserved, but I think he might be a little loopy in love, i.e, not wanting to be 'tied down'.
Erm, but then I'm kind of that way too... lol

posted July 30, 2009 10:56 PM         

Wow, are you dating this guy?? What's the story (if you want to share it, of course)?!

So, here's the basic breakdown of his chart:

His Aqua Sun / Aries Moon must produce a strong character as it combines the intellectuality of Aquarius with the spirit and fieryness of Aries. With Mars in Taurus and Venus in Capricorn, he must be a bit lazy, sensual, stubborn, and is attracted to serious, ambitious types. He is probably reserved in his expression of his feelings. Wow, do I see a Mercury and Jupiter also in Aquarius? Those placements produce an original thinker who is witty and progressive, impartial and tolerant. Saturn in Gemini shows excellent problem-solving capabilities and a rational approach, though that probably isn't why you like him .

posted July 30, 2009 11:35 PM         

Lots of secrets. Venus in the 12th; secret relationships, drawn to the occult sciences, loves spiritual women, and all things hidden.

posted July 31, 2009 12:05 AM         

Sunshine, how are you ... yes, we've been on ONE date so far, so I am not really letting myself get all carried away (trying!)... But we had a really wonderful 1st date, just talked for hours on end like good friends, about almost everything. It felt very familiar and comfortable, and easy, plus we just spent so much time laughing together. I'm wondering if it's the Moon-Moon conjunction which is doing it, and of course my own Jupiter in Aqua is all happy and conjunct his Venus and MC (as his Venus conjuncts my MC as well), but we're both expressing interest.

Then I looked at his chart and was like, Oooh, when I saw the weird 12th house Rx Venus square Uranus. I am most certainly one to judge, but I wonder....

Still, for now, it's nice

posted July 31, 2009 12:07 AM         

orbs for planetary nodes - 2 degrees

He has strong Eris energy with the Eris Nodes in Taurus/Scorpio oppose his Midheaven/Imum Coeli axis.
That could indicate a strong theme involving diversity,ideology,equality matters and can be controversial.

He has strong Neptune energy with Sun oppose/conjunct the Neptune Nodes in Leo/Aquarius. That can indicate that the ego,self expressions is connected to the collective imagination,idealism,inspiration.

His Venus squares the heliocentric Chiron Nodes in Libra/Aries. That indicates the possible of significant pain,wounding in his relationship,romantic past, but also the potential for healing and teaching. Venus square Chiron Nodes can be maverick when it comes to love,relationships.

The Heliocentric Uranus Nodes in Gemini/Sagittarius sextile his Ascendant/Descendant axis which indicates independent,innovative,unconventional persona.

Raymond

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“It is absolutely the perfect name,” Dr. Brown said, given the continuing discord among astronomers and the public over whether Pluto should have retained its planetary status.

In mythology, Eris ignited discord that led to the Trojan War.

posted July 31, 2009 12:11 AM         

He does seem highly individualistic and I felt a strong Neptunian vibe from him (and he also seems HIGHLY compassionate), probably the 12th house flavoring as well.
He also seems highly ambitious, but is going about it in a rather unique way, working toward it in small, steady steps. But he's still rather unconventional in his approach, sort of going and doing his own thing, not at all about the 'conventional' ... feels calculating, and he's good at long-term planning by the looks of it.

posted July 31, 2009 12:14 AM         

I made a mistake. I am sorry about that.
I corrected it.

please read the changes that I made.

I got the Aquarius Sun mixed up with Leo Sun
when I was thinking of conjunctions to heliocentric Neptune Nodes

so thought Sun was conjunct North Heliocentric Node when his Sun is actually conjunct the South Heliocentric Neptune Node.

North Neptune Node is in Leo and South Neptune Node is in Aquarius.

Raymond

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“It is absolutely the perfect name,” Dr. Brown said, given the continuing discord among astronomers and the public over whether Pluto should have retained its planetary status.

In mythology, Eris ignited discord that led to the Trojan War.

posted July 31, 2009 12:21 AM         

seeing that he was born with Sun in tropical Aquarius in Australia , it does make me wonder if he can relate to Sun in tropical Leo because of the tropical zodiac being northern hemisphere season based zodiac and his being born in southern hemisphere. I wonder if flipping the sunsigns for people born in southern hemisphere work.

Raymond

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“It is absolutely the perfect name,” Dr. Brown said, given the continuing discord among astronomers and the public over whether Pluto should have retained its planetary status.

In mythology, Eris ignited discord that led to the Trojan War.

“She causes strife by causing arguments among men, by making them think their opinions are right and everyone else’s is wrong,” Dr. Brown said. “It really is just perfect.”

posted July 31, 2009 01:19 AM         

Saturn in the 5th, square Pluto? Realllyyy tough. A 5th house Saturn tends to self-sabotage when it comes to fun, creative work, and romance. If it seems like it's going to be fulfilling, yet easy, Saturn there gets suspicious and hits the eject button just as things are starting to get good. In his case, the fact that his Saturn is mutable and trine Jupiter and Mercury will ease the problem a bunch. Still--when he starts to feel really romantic/excited, that's when this placement would get tweaked and he could sabotage himself--and the love interest.

With Mars opposite his IC and square Sun, Mercury, and Jupiter, he could have a lot of frustration turning his humanitarianism and idealism into action. If he is working well with the energies of his chart and is mature, this could bring discipline and determination to his work. If he is immature/not working effectively with his energies and living conscientiously yet, he could end up 'settling" for work he doesn't believe in and burying his idealism, which would make him bitter and scary. Since you are attracted to him, I'm guessing it's the first option--he may have learned to deal constructively with frustrations and setbacks.

Now I'm going to say a bunch of stuff, and Aquariuses and others will tell me how wrong I am, but I'm going to say it anyway--

As long as you are not romantically too interested and not emotionally invested in an Aquaman, he will come on stronger than a freaking Scorpio...I had one Aqua who bought me gifts and started naming our future children before we'd even made out. IF you start to get emotional with Aquaman, even in your own head, suddenly it's--where's Aquaman?? He'll have some babies to deworm, a world (not yours) to save, or just some blank spot on the wall to look at instead of your eyes. You will feel like you never knew him. He will be dying to talk about his feelings until that tiny, subtle shift takes place inside you, and then he will never want to talk about them again ever, even if you get married. With this dude, all his Aquarianness is mixed with those Mars squares, Aries Moon opp Uranus, and Saturn sq Pluto...trying to push him=a volatile situation at best. More likely, an irreconcilable situation.

You'd have to always play hard-to-get romantically with this guy (not sexually forever, but romantically FOREVER--even if you wed, you could never let him know you really loved him unless you wanted to see his cute progressive ass fleeing into the basement or onto a 747, never to emerge), while having a full life that constantly thrilled and intrigued him, and being his friend, but just staying believably emotionally aloof, even when HE got ardent and it seemed like he was being honest and straight-shooting intimacy was safe.

With your Aries Moon I doubt you are a huge fan of games or coquettishness, so you might be more comfortable in a long-term relationship with someone other than Mars-squares Aquaman...it really does look like bearable romantic relationships with ANYONE might not be his forte, even though he is a really cool, interesting, maybe even great, guy.

It's not just that he might be reserved, "loopy in love", or commitment phobic--it is possible he is also genuinely difficult (volatile yet noncommunicative, angry yet distant, confused yet confusing) in that arena, and that it wouldn't show up during the courtship stage...so you would want to make sure it was a looonnnggg courtship stage and you knew each other very well...and knew his family history, and knew whether he had issues with violence or controlling behaviors, etc.

I think 12th house placements are very nice--I see it as less "secretive" and more inward-focused (sometimes under the surface), often in a thoughtful way. It can bring depth to a person to have a stellium in the 12th. Earthy Mars-Venus could=nice, sensuous sex, barring possible violence or control issues stemming from family dysfunction (Mars in 4th with lots of squares can be tricky that way.)

posted July 31, 2009 02:14 AM         

I definitely am not looking to start a relationship quickly with anyone... and a prolonged courtship is my way to go. Don't get me wrong... my Aries Moon and Scorpio Venus/Mars Taurus (both square Jupiter) feel emotion so intensely, so quickly, I could pass out sometimes
.. But I also know that, which is why I insist on not rushing.

As for the Aquaman phenomena ... well, I gotta say I can agree with you, just from what I've seen. Every single Aqua I've dated has come on so strongly, I've run for the hills (and this one is starting to do it already too to an extent, saying he hates games and prefers directness... ooooohh, Aquaman, why do you mock me ) ... so it's interesting, because when they start inching in on me, I get all alarmed and take off and they always pursue HARD, and of course, on cue, I run ... but this time I am not running so much as holding back, because I am soooooooo not going to jump into the deep end. Hell no.

posted July 31, 2009 02:31 AM         

Raymond

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“It is absolutely the perfect name,” Dr. Brown said, given the continuing discord among astronomers and the public over whether Pluto should have retained its planetary status.

In mythology, Eris ignited discord that led to the Trojan War.

posted July 31, 2009 04:44 AM         

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•Sun• Cancer
•Moon• Gemini
•Mars• Cancer
•Mercury• Cancer
•Venus• Leo

posted July 31, 2009 07:41 AM         

I keep forgetting you have Venus in Scorpio.

My son's father is actually an Aqua. VERY intense courtship, and yes, he came on quite strong. I didn't run though, I was attracted to that intensity. Perhaps you might be too.

The only problem with that is that once I was ready to settle down and get to the business of sustaining and strengthening our relationship, he got...distracted.

It was very push/pull. He was genuinely very loving and affectionate, he just couldn't give me the...DEPTH I needed.

Your Aquaman sounds like he might be just intriguing and challenging enough to hook you good. Good Luck! Keep us posted, I love hearing about how these things play out.

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Sun in Virgo
Moon in Taurus
Mercury in Libra
Venus in Scorpio
Mars in Leo
Pisces Rising

posted July 31, 2009 03:01 PM         

It's interesting because I had the same problem you spoke of with my ex-husband, but he was a Capricorn.... he had major Uranus stuff going on too - stellium in the 11th, Sun, Mars, and Mercury squaring Uranus. He also came on VERY strongly, then rested on his laurels when it came time to do the actual WORK on the relationship, seeming distracted.... so that there wasn't any substantial or satisfying depth.
In general if a relationship not substantial to me, or if it doesn't offer the depth I need, then I have a tendency of unceremoniously dumping it because I lose all patience (especially now lol).