posted July 31, 2009 05:29 PM         

Mine:

posted July 31, 2009 07:12 PM         

In the Composite of my parent's relationship, Saturn is tightly conjunct the MC. Probably why they've lasted so long despite hating each other.

posted July 31, 2009 08:44 PM         

When things are going good they are very good but when it’s bad, oh boy, the gloves are off.

I’m in my 40’s, he’s in his 30’s and this is the first relationship for both of us where there has been a complete 100% trust on both sides. It’s not something we had to ‘earn’ it was just there from day one and it never ever falters regardless of the ups and downs.

For me it was “I want you” at first sight, he, on the other hand took a while to come around! Unfortunately these days we rarely seem to want the same thing at the same time.

Why we stick together is probably:
Our chart rulers Mars and Saturn are conjunct. These two planets have a nasty reputation in synastry but ironically seem to be prevalent in many long term relationships.
Our DC rulers are in opposition.
We have a nodal reversal
My Moon exactly opposes his Sun/Moon midpoint.
His Sun exactly opposes my Sun/Moon midpoint.

My Sun and my Venus/Uranus turn two of his T-squares into Grand Crosses. That probably explains the bad side.

posted July 31, 2009 09:34 PM         

In the composite of mine, Mars and Saturn are conjunct. I've read this can give a very strong will to get something done together, but not necessarily romantically. It's not restricted if the energy can be focused by Saturn instead.

With another good friend I have my Saturn conjunct his Mars in Sagittarius in my 6th and his 8th. We were roommates, and as long as I directed him, he really enjoyed working around the house... almost like a little kid bribed into doing his chores.

posted July 31, 2009 09:59 PM         

Its not too clear in the chart but my Pluto does oppose his Venus and I must say the best description of that aspect in synastry if I remember correctly came from MVM here on LL:
I really do love you but I just want to hurt you.

posted July 31, 2009 11:35 PM         

Best description I’ve heard for this in synastry is both parties are too busy teaching each other lessons. I tend to agree.

Bopbop, for the most part it is great, having someone that you have never doubted their loyalty is a wonderful thing in life to have. These days, we are not getting along so good so no doubt that is why I’m sounding jaded.

posted July 31, 2009 11:54 PM         

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Got Gemini, I’m curious about her Sat conjunct your Asc and her Mars conjunct your DC. That to me seems like crazy glue (lifelong contact) but may I ask if it causes arguments?

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H3LL YES!!!!!! I don't like anyone's Saturn on my Asc. I don't feel like I can be myself and I feel VERY restricted.

posted August 01, 2009 12:01 AM         

In our early years he was so boring but always the type i wanted to marry, and he was madly in love with me, then time progressed and i wanted to settle down but he became sttubborn and started to see flaws in the relationship.

Then more years progressed we argued over politics and religion and then he got over his stupid obsession with che guavara. We are like family we will never seperate in this life time even if we marry others. We see each other as the ideal and perfect mother/father figure or husband wife but our families dont want us together and he will never leave his family so im off in my own world always trying to heal myself and get away from him. Our relationship is alive because of our crazy sex life.

The only nice aspect we have is an exact trine of our moons.

posted August 01, 2009 02:27 AM         

I was going to ask about that, too. I just met someone recently whose Saturn and Uranus are conjunct my Ascendant and also square my venus. It was very odd, because immediately I felt very self-conscious around them like I was being scrutinized although I couldn't pinpoint why I felt that way... I wonder how that dynamic will grow in the future. The composite Saturn is conjunct my Venus, too. Sometimes its been good, because it makes me more aware of myself, as long as it doesn't beat down my self esteem to much (which he's already made me feel like crap a couple times though I don't think it was on purpose )

I'd say the moon node thing is pretty significant. At least with the comp. node conjunct her moon maybe the purpose of the relationship fulfilled her emotional needs.

posted August 01, 2009 03:21 PM         

My mom can be very dramatic, and impulsive. So I'd definitely say dad is the more passive one. He kind of just let's her be, but talks her out of things he feels necessary.

My mom's apparently always been good motivation for my dad. She pushes him to keep going when he gets into one of his moods or is feeling cynical.

posted August 01, 2009 11:20 PM         

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I have ASC conjunct SATURN with someone me being the ASC and I've never felt more beautiful or myself around that person!!

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I think the squares in our synastry paint things negatively.

posted August 02, 2009 02:13 AM         

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