posted August 03, 2009 02:25 PM            

do you know any such person, who are very nice, but hv too many dos and donts...like they have too many boundaries...i will post her chart

v smart, adorable, person, but v particular abt her slef boundaries

posted August 03, 2009 04:03 PM            

Like, I don't like being bothered when I just get home. I go straight to my room and shut the door. Other than that, I enjoy company.

And as for personal rules, I don't really have any. I'm usually up for trying anything for the experience. I'm not exactly WILD but I don't say "Oh, I would NEVER do x, y, z."

posted August 03, 2009 05:52 PM            

basically, u wont feel that this person is easy gng..she is sweet but v complex

posted August 03, 2009 06:18 PM            

Venus Conj Uranus - Independence or erratic friendships, can seem aloof.
Sun conj Mars - self motivated.
Moon conj Saturn - can feel comfortable with boundaries, this is reinforced by 2nd house (Taurus signature = self sufficiency)

posted August 03, 2009 06:24 PM            

Also, just from experience, I know the Saturn/Mercury square can make one think and rethink what they want to say. She's not always going to voice what's on her mind, which might not be such a bad thing with a Mercury Sagittarius .... OK, I kid
But I do know the combo in general tends to make a person curb what they want to say, make them pause, so that even if they seem chatty and open, they are STILL filtering their thoughts behind a screen of some sort (I know I do this).

Also, her chart is pretty much at the bottom half, and I think a lot of times when a person has a chart 'below the horizon' they tend to be more private, more turned inward.

posted August 04, 2009 03:10 AM            

I had a friend/colleague with a 29 degree Sag Sun, Cap moon, and Cancer Asc. From appearances she would seem like the person with a lot of boundaries. But I generally get on very well with Sagittarius, and she was born on the 21 (ruled by Jupiter in Numerology), double plus. One of my better working relationships. Never gave me reason to secretly not like her.

posted August 04, 2009 11:40 AM            

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I knew a girl somewhat like this. she was a little worse. like cool sometimes but then completely freak out over some stupid stuff. like with her room she was so anal about the way it had to be. I cant stand control freaks. they just need to let go.. and understand its not the end of the world and start caring about what really matters. this person had saturn conjunct the ascendant though in capricorn with neptune and uranus also conjunct from the 12th.

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I don't think that's what triggered all the boundaries, being from a generation that has saturn uranus and neptune conjunct I've seen quite a few.

this girl is the most anal of all the people I know:

here's some of the typical things she does:
*doesn't ever drink anything but boubly water in a public place
*carries alcohol wipes and uses them hourly
*makes a list of things to do and doing them exactly in that order
*alphabetizes everything from mp3s on the pc to books on the shelf

posted August 04, 2009 11:57 AM              

rough around the edges is not exactly the same thing to me as a private orderly person with well defined boundries.

i would call ar ough around the edges person someone crass or obnoxious and publically opinionated or course language in inappropriate times.

i mean why do you care if she likes having lists or drinking only water in public? why would that affect you?

everyone finds certain things offensive for sure, but i dont get that one.

public drunkeness, obscene in public, or embarrasing domestic disputes in public, that i can see not liking....

but i don't see why introverts who like order or certain things bother you....how is that even effecting you? it's thier life.

i dont get how some people can buy expensive stuff or go on expensive vacations and not pay thier bills and get shut off notices, but it doesn't bother me, because it doesn't effect me...

maybe what you see is "the important things" in life and what she see's as the "important things" in life are not the same. and that is ok. doesn't make either one wrong, you just each have your own life to live.

now....back to my list....

posted August 04, 2009 12:13 PM            

^ and I don't mind it at all. I never said I wasn't weird too (in an entirely different way though)

It's just interesting to observe. The boundaries, the control, the eccentricities.

posted August 04, 2009 12:24 PM              

i can't watch it anymore because it actually makes me ill.

there are so many obseessions now.

**pull your hair out one at a time until you are bald
***pull up carpets and flooring because you are afraid the floor will cave in and you will die
***can't chew food, so use feeding tube instead

i mean people are eccentric sure, but sometimes turns obseessive and like an alcoholic it affects thier lives and thier families lives/

it is way sad.

it seems like society overall is more stressed, more anxiety ridden than ever to the point it effects certain people to the point of these obsessions that you never saw 25 years ago. i wonder why?

i really wonder why...

but people that make lists don't bother me, as we are usually the ones who have a band aid ready for the spur of the moment boo-boo.

posted August 04, 2009 03:28 PM            

A friend of a friend has trichotillomania(the hair pulling thing) .. in her case the breaking thing is inability to stand up to extensive parental pressure. Also refusing to see a therapist about it...

Never seen obsessed. OCDs were never my sphere of interest psychology wise because in my understanding they can be regulated with behavioral therapy