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Alvarella777
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posted August 08, 2009 01:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Alvarella777     Edit/Delete Message
Hi folks,

what would you expect from these (horrible looking) transits - which all will be running over a close friend's chart during the next weeks/months - What would it mean for her (volatile) relationship?

Tr. Saturn
- cj. her Venus (in her 1st house)
- cj. her lover's name (1st)

Tr. Eros
- cj. her Saturn (her 6th)

Tr. Medea ("jealousy")
- cj. her Vertex (6th)

Tr. Uranus
- cj. her Chiron (in 7th)

Tr. Her Lover's name
- retrograde, wandering from her 5th to her 4th house

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scrappydog
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posted August 08, 2009 02:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for scrappydog     Edit/Delete Message
Oh god I am just coming out of saturn conj my venus in my 5th. I can honestly say this was one of the worst transits i ever experienced. I got dumped for the fisrt time ever by somone I really loved. I realized he never loved me it was all just fake. And after that it was one heartbreak after another. I think it taught me to be stronger though. During this transit I was alone for the first time in my life which was hard because I'm normally a needy and dependent person. So ar first this was terrible for me, but now that it's almost passed I'm getting all kinds of offers romanically and I'M turning them down! I'm starting to actually enjoy being all on my own and I've never felt like this before. This transit hardened my heart up a bit, but that was exactly what I needed.

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katatonic
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posted August 08, 2009 03:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for katatonic     Edit/Delete Message
last time saturn went over my venus was when i hooked up with my ex-husband. to me it indicated a need to be serious in relationships which i certainly had not been for some time before that!

it has JUST passed over again...apart from money being a little scarce and not a lot of social activity, parties or going out stuff, it has been hard to figure out it was even happening...

of course venus is in my 7th(unless you use equal houses), saturn's natural house, so maybe it just seems "fittin'" when it is transitting there. i am glad all the same that it has moved away now, a little fun with significant others wouldn't go amiss right now!!

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Alvarella777
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posted August 09, 2009 07:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Alvarella777     Edit/Delete Message
KATATONIC: The intriguing this is: When Saturn conjuncted my own Venus, I also "hooked up" with someone - in fact, it was the last relationship I have entered so far ... (and it ended miserably after almost 2 years - which is: it ended in spring 2008).

That relationship grew really "serious" exactly during the weeks Tr. Saturn started to conjunct my Venus in early Virgo (that was leate summer 2007). It was quite draining, much hard (emotional) work right from the start - but I had the best intentions and felt very (!) drawn to that man - I really wanted to make it "work".

In the beginning, it seemed as if we could succeed ... And somehow I managed to overlook/accept/ignore/cope with several dufficulties involved ... I saw is as a kind of "task" to invest alot of personal energy into that realtionship.

Meanwhile, Tr. Saturn was moving on, turning retro ...

... and: EXACTLY when it crossed my natal Venus for the 3rd and last time (in early summer 2008): I decided to leave that relationship once and for all. I just ... gave up on this - felt very much defeated and hurt - it was a Don Quixote-kind-of-fight against the windmills ...

And then, for about 9-10 months I was stuck in feelings of hurt, futility, shame - and spent a lot of time wondering what had gone wrong and why ...

In fact, today, 1.5 years later, I still don't know WHY this has happened to me. But I do know that my idea of love & relationships has sharpened. I grew way more "serious" about these matters ... and din't enter any romantic/erotic thing since then as lightheratedly as I did before. It just took a while for me to accept: That I am not the same anymore in love - that I had to face a wound from that - and that I must remodel my expectations and wishes in the love field. "Hardened up" a bit? Well, maybe. Or, better say: Not so easyly to be flattered, convinced and charmed anymore ... - I am MORE PICKY now! ;-)

***edit*** SCRAPPYDOG: I guess you're still feeling some aftermath of that Saturn-experience. But ... it will make you ... more grounded, I do believe this! ;-) It obviously did so with Katatonic and me. All the best for you!

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katatonic
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posted August 09, 2009 10:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for katatonic     Edit/Delete Message
i think you're on to something alvarella. just want to point out that that relationship of mine lasted 10 years, produced a child, and really hasn't ended even now, 30 years later...though it HAS gone through many changes!

in other words, i don't think it is necessarily a bad thing. i think saturn transits mean coming to grips with certain elements of your chart, almost solidifying them...so one needs to remember that nothing stays the same, or you run the risk of getting into a rut with it.

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scrappydog
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posted August 10, 2009 01:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for scrappydog     Edit/Delete Message
Yes this transit has definately made me more self sufficient, which I see as a good thing because I have grown and evolved now. I'm actually starting to enjoy and appreciate just being alone and not having any emotional hassels right now. And that's coming from a libra with venus square neptune. Before I never imagined I could even be alone. And Alverella, I'm experiencing the same thing you mentioned, I am actually PICKY now, which is amazing as I was way to indecriminate before, even gullible, I would fall for such losers. I'm a bit hard hearted now, even jaded. I'm finding myself now not believing just anything a man tells me and actually I'm kind of sick of them all for the moment. LOL. I'm sure I will get over this.

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Alvarella777
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posted August 12, 2009 07:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Alvarella777     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks for all the contributions so far! ;-)

But: What about SATURN OPPOSING (or cojuncting) EROS? (Or vice versa?) Any takes on that?

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