posted August 10, 2009 10:14 PM         

Can anyone describe how this manifests in synastry?

posted August 10, 2009 10:29 PM         

His Mars falls in my 12th house.

We are extremely open about everything. I tell him absolutely every detail, even if I shouldn't. Usually he has to tell me to stop telling him. And better yet, we often don't have to say a word to each other, and could have the best conversation ever.

I think that this kind of synastry can be difficult but it can also open you up to an entire realm of depth you've never experienced.

Also, our roles are switched. We both have Moon-Mars oppositions. They make a tight 1' degree Grand Square. He's Moon-Mars in Taurus/Scorpio. I'm Moon/Mars in Leo/Aquarius. I'm the assertive, rough, aggressive, motivated, breadwinning one. He's the nurturer, sensitive, emotional one.

It manifests in all kinds of ways. I'd check your individual charts, analyze the planets involved, and then check the synastry on the basis of that.

At a very basic level it creates a kindred and genuine understanding of one another on a mental and emotional level.

I'm very sassy, straight forward, and aggressive around my boyfriend. I consider the 12th house a "leave at the door" position.

When I'm with him, I leave all my emotions and oversensitivity at the front door, and just cut back and have fun and just become fearless. He's the opposite. He's usually very controlled and restricted with his emotions and his Mars being in Scorpio and in the 4th, he has a quiet kind of assertion, but it's very much there. He's usually very firm and a tough cookie to crack. However with me, he leaves it at the front door and he's a big mush ball.

Taking a wild guess, you're the same way around this person. They either hide, suppress, or just aren't that emotional around you. That doesn't mean they don't feel emotion, they're just not a blubbery mess. And you tend to be more subdued (ego wise) around this person. You leave your "ego" and your "opinions" at the front door.

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posted August 11, 2009 04:09 PM         

but it IS true that i have a very open and at times very emotionally revealing relationship with the person who receives my Sun, Mercury and Juno in his 12th house, and Venus at the cusp of it on the 11th house. our 12th house rulers are in opposition.