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Topic: Almost identical personal planets-but can't get along?
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ScorpioCentaur
Knowflake Posts: 20
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 13, 2009 12:04 AM
 
Hi Lindalanders...I was wondering if anyone has encountered someone with an almost identical birth chart to their own, but its impossible to get along.
It's the second time I meet another woman who has the same sun moon venus and mars as me and I can't stand her! One of the women was a friend of a friend and we couldnt even stand to be in the same room together..and now its a coworker who from the minute I started the job was the only person who I felt animosity with from the get-go.
Do twin personalities clash because they are too similar?
I've yet to meet a man with the same placements, but would that be more harmonious because of the different sexes?
So weird...I would have thought that these women would turn out to be close friends... someone that would understand me and visa versa- nevermind end up being total enemies.
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Writesomething
Knowflake Posts: 1077
From: meet me in montauk
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 13, 2009 12:05 AM
I think it really depends on what planets are at play. Scorpio planets are harder to be comfortable with in general.IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
Knowflake Posts: 1077
From: Bay Area, CA
Registered: May 2009
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posted August 13, 2009 12:17 AM
I dunno about identical birth charts.. I know someone who has the same Moon, Mars, rising, and house cusps and aspects as me. It's trippy in a good way so far, but I wouldn't be surprised if it got challenging. IP: Logged |
origami_salami
Knowflake Posts: 67
From: Arizona
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 13, 2009 04:55 AM
Whenever someone's personal planets are the same as yours, they'll reflect the energy in your own chart -- for better or for worse. Any challenging aspects or placements you have natally will be triggered when you interact with the other person. And problem areas tend to be magnified, because now you have the burden of someone else's "challenging" energy on top of what you live with internally -- it's like carrying twice the usual load.Planet twins can be a great opportunity to see yourself better, though. A lot of times, the frustration stems from noticing (subconsciously) things in the other person that you have as well, but don't really like. Look closely at what makes the other person hard to get along with, and see if you can trace any of it back to yourself. This isn't always the case, but when it is, can be pretty eye-opening. ------------------
Denise
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katatonic
Knowflake Posts: 1302
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 13, 2009 01:21 PM
how well do you get along with yourself? would be my first question...everyone is a mirror, and someone with a chart that close even more so than others...IP: Logged |
Got Gemini?
Knowflake Posts: 111
From: Mercury
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 13, 2009 01:39 PM
Myself and geemeeni were only born a few hours apart. The differences between our chArts are minimal. We have different Asc, Vertex, and our moons are like less than two degrees apart.We get along GREAT! She and I are, well, VERY much alike! It's been fun getting to know an astro twin! Especially of the opposite sex because I grew up with two other friends who also were born on the same day, same year, and same hospital as me. We all also got along really well. Matter of fact, one of them was a very close friend for a looooooong time. He just moved out of state after high school. We still talk from time to time. ------------------
Virgo Asc 6˚& Mars 0˚
Gemini Sun 24˚
Libra Moon 14˚(conjunct Pluto 0˚ in 2nd house)
Gemini Mercury 25˚
Cancer Venus 29˚ (Mutual reception with Moon)
And yes, i'm a guy! IP: Logged |
amowls*
Knowflake Posts: 519
From: richmond va
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 13, 2009 02:58 PM
It really depends on how the planets interact within your OWN chart. Like if you have Moon square Saturn natally, you're going to have Moon square Saturn with someone who has the same chart as you.I know a guy who is born 2 days before me and we used to get along fine. But now he's one of those crazed anti Obama people and it's just annoying being around him. We both have Aquarius Mercuries. You should hear us argue. IP: Logged |
amowls*
Knowflake Posts: 519
From: richmond va
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 13, 2009 02:59 PM
It really depends on how the planets interact within your OWN chart. Like if you have Moon square Saturn natally, you're going to have Moon square Saturn with someone who has the same chart as you.I know a guy who is born 2 days before me and we used to get along fine. But now he's one of those crazed anti Obama people and it's just annoying being around him. We both have Aquarius Mercuries. You should hear us argue. IP: Logged |
Got Gemini?
Knowflake Posts: 111
From: Mercury
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 14, 2009 10:23 PM
Anyone else?------------------
Virgo Asc 6˚& Mars 0˚
Gemini Sun 24˚
Libra Moon 14˚(conjunct Pluto 0˚ in 2nd house)
Gemini Mercury 25˚
Cancer Venus 29˚ (Mutual reception with Moon)
And yes, i'm a guy! IP: Logged |
Lonake
Knowflake Posts: 348
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 15, 2009 01:10 AM
well i met my astro twin a few yrs back (same dob, diff time, her rising is 4 signs after mine), and in the beginning we were just talking non stop and although our lives technically were different, how we interpreted our experiences were very similar, so that we drew very similar conclusions, etc. blabbing here, but there were many things between us that rang true although our varied ascendants really did play a role on outlook. but anyway, it was very nice in getting to know her, and then it sorta went *poof* - we didn't stop getting along but there was really nothing much to react to, and we sort of fell away from contact. encountered another lady who's dob was 1 day after mine, mostly same chart this time she has the next moon sign. pretty similar to the previous experience. but hatred or anger, no.a person so similar of the opposite sex would play out slightly differently i think (if hetero) more so i think if you have the stereotypical sexual attraction aspects in your natal. the man i met who was close to me, born 2 days after me, again he had the next moon sign, but there was a mutual attraction in the beginning, but it didn't really amount to much, and there wasn't as much verbal sharing as with the 2 women i've met. but again nothing hostile, and the short frienship lingered for a while then *whoosh* seeing as my 3 were pretty similar, i'm wondering if natal has a bearing, although.. my chart is technically very stressed as were theirs, so who knows.. based on that i would've expected something harsh but no, never any bad words or feelings. IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
Knowflake Posts: 1144
From: acousticgod@sbcglobal.net
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 15, 2009 01:17 AM
I agree with Origami_Salami. IP: Logged |
Coffee
Knowflake Posts: 705
From: Leeds
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 15, 2009 01:45 AM
I have brother and sister born at same time. No further questions please.Cant get along? In short: YES. We cannot get along. Many times I thought when they were being "themselves" that they were having a laugh, joking. Just winding me up. It appears they were not doing any of the above. Unfortunately, it appears that is their personality. How they actually are. I can get privacy. I cant get why they are never open, always hiding things and people.
You would never think we were an actual family. If there was something I wanted, whether I could have it or not, they would be ok knocking me over on the way to getting it.
I guess more brother, as sister is far away. Still, an intelligent girl like that doesnt need to be a b1tch at times. Wish someone would tell her. Not going into details, yet, for a long time in my life, they have been very nasty. The kind of nasty where they do something bad to Me, and then smile sweetly as they turn around and deal with whoever, with a big smile on face.
Maybe you cant see why anyone who is friends with them, I instantly dont like. I guess thats going on the like-attracts-like theory.
His last long term girlfriend was an utter b1tch. If you are nice person, you dont go out with a b1tch. It has got better. Sister is away, long way, limited contact. I speak with her on facebook, at least I hope I do, and she seems ok, at a distance. Brother...He has got better. Still bad though. Always will be, that will never change. I guess if you start off bad, theres only one place to go. 
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cpn_edgar_winner
Knowflake Posts: 1039
From: Toledo, OH
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 15, 2009 07:02 AM
my first husband was 2 hours older than me. classic case of identical personal planets that can't get along. i know what it is when i examine our charts. there were two roads to take, he chose to embrace the dark side, i chose to find a different way. we almost killed each other. literally. he was my first love. we live very differently and don't like each other at all. he is a total dick. but i kinda feel sorry for him as he has been in a wheelchair for 16 years now. IP: Logged |
Benedict Moon*
Knowflake Posts: 245
From: formerly Dulce Luna
Registered: May 2009
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posted August 15, 2009 09:01 AM
It depends on the energy playing out in your chart. If you have alot of difficult aspects in your own chart, you're bound to have the same energy with the other person who has the same chart.IP: Logged |
cpn_edgar_winner
Knowflake Posts: 1039
From: Toledo, OH
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 15, 2009 12:08 PM
thats what i am saying we both have t-squares with
saturn - jupiter- uranus
saturn jupiter plutoIP: Logged |
Cynnared
Knowflake Posts: 249
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 18, 2009 01:26 AM
Growing up I had a friend who was born 2 days after me....we fought like cats and dogs and we claimed to be each others best friend. I didn't know that much about astrology back then - but as I look at our charts now I can really see and understand why we were like cats and dogs.......we both have Sun opposite Uranus square to Mars.....now if that doesn't set off fireworks....I know a few others born around the same time as me and I can identify with the issues that these folks deal with......Venus square to a Jupiter/Neptune conj in Saggy....just so many complaints about their love life and how they are always settling etc...... this guy who was born 3 days before me and I share a love of singing and we both karaoke...he was a show host and I just go out and sing..... IP: Logged |
leapinglemur14
Knowflake Posts: 112
From: NY
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 19, 2009 03:21 PM
my twin and i argue all the time. I lovingly want to smother her with a pillow while she sleeps.IP: Logged |
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