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downtomars
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posted August 15, 2009 07:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for downtomars     Edit/Delete Message
I am supposed to be gutting my living area and getting rid of all of the useless stuff, most of it happens to be books…Anyway, I stumbled across a copy of Madalyn Aslan’s Jupiter Signs. I planned on selling it/giving it away/something but before I did that I decided to read about Jupiter in Leo. One of the things listed as a “Don’t” is “…Feed your self-doubt or lose confidence due to backlash and gossip from others”. Huh.

This has happened to me my entire life. I think I have “Slander-ize Me” written across my forehead! There have been rumors, gossip and all types of crap said about me all while I was growing up (to this day actually, one of the reasons I can't post a picture here). I did read in another book (I’m sure it was “The Only Astrology Book You’ll Ever Need”) that Leo women tend to be “Victims of Slander”. I remember letting my mom read the book and when I got it back that line was highlighted, with three exclamation points next to it!!!

Some books say it is a Leo Sun thing but I chalk it up to Neptune in the 11th (be careful of your “friends”)…

Anyone else get talked about a lot? Gossiped about? Lied about? Do you think any aspects/placements contribute to this?

(Jeez, I'll do anything to procrastinate!)

ETA: I forgot about Moon conj Pluto. According to Bob Marks: "Women with the stressful aspects have to be careful of other women who will get jealous and turn on them, even after years of "friendship". No, this does not mean that EVERY woman in your life will do this, but you will get more than your share of such incidents, much more. The mother will tend to be a strong-willed, no nonsense type. Again, in the horoscopes of women, the mother will tend to be jealous of you and act accordingly."

ETA: Yes, I just saw that there is a "Victim of Jealousy" thread down below, if we stick to the gossip and false accusations (thanks Dee) this should be fine too.

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Dee
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posted August 15, 2009 08:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dee     Edit/Delete Message
I have been the victim of False Allegations many times.One time i just moved to this town and was told i looked like this girl. so much that when i went out people called me by her name.. This was not good being this girl was known to service men in the local bars bathrooms.. When i was younger i used to go out a few nights a week and because i was never short on cash i found out there was a rumor going around that i was a drug dealer.
Theres so much more. i don't understand why because im quiet an mind my own business

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downtomars
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posted August 15, 2009 08:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for downtomars     Edit/Delete Message
That is awful Dee Do you think anything in your chart points to this happening to you?

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Dee
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posted August 15, 2009 08:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dee     Edit/Delete Message
i don't really know, i always thought it could possibly be because i was born in another country and when i came here it all shifted for me. They say you bloom where you're planted

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cpn_edgar_winner
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posted August 15, 2009 08:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cpn_edgar_winner     Edit/Delete Message
people have gossiped about me my whole life. true not true it just amazes me..which is why i keep to myself a lot, but jealous people still talk crap.

leo sun leo moon jupiter in gemini

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downtomars
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posted August 15, 2009 08:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for downtomars     Edit/Delete Message
quote:
i keep to myself a lot

I have learned to do this too! This is quite hard actually - I like to be social and out there but that trust factor just messes everything up!

I try not to let it interfere too much but it is still there.

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Dee
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posted August 15, 2009 09:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dee     Edit/Delete Message
that's how i am i keep to myself a lot.every move i've made has been to more remote areas.

Virgo sun
Taurus moon
Jupiter in capricorn

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downtomars
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posted August 15, 2009 09:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for downtomars     Edit/Delete Message
You blew my personal theory out of the water with your earthy placements Dee! That is why I start these topics. I thought, maybe, it happened more often to fire and air sign dominant people. It is still early yet, we'll see. Interesting though...

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taurusvirgoleolady1974
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posted August 15, 2009 09:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for taurusvirgoleolady1974     Edit/Delete Message
yep, me too.
taurus sun 9th
leo moon 12th
virgo asc
neptune 5th, though. not 11th
maybe it can happen to anyone though. are we actually more prone to it? if that is true, than that is interesting.
anyway, ya.
i stay to myself, and there have always been rumors about me and i cant figure out why. i heard i was drunk at a party about a month ago. i was even told what i was wearing and everything. i dont even drink and defintely dont go to parties. especially around here, bc this is where i grew up. it was quite amazing to hear this. they swore up and down it was me. but that was just the last. there have been many more throughout my life. who cares. i just live my life. cant wait to see more posts!

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downtomars
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posted August 15, 2009 09:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for downtomars     Edit/Delete Message
Another earthy one, interesting...Could it be harsh aspects to Pluto (jealousy) or Neptune (deception)?

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DepTaurus
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posted August 15, 2009 09:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DepTaurus     Edit/Delete Message
i have been gossiped about all my life. by friends family members my own parents and sister too. and usually by strangers to which i dont even know so like shut up strangers

apparently i seduced another kid when i was 7 by the way i think is a rumour cause i didnt even know how to wipe my own buttocks when i was seven how could i have seduced him. my parents look at me weridly cause i dont go out with friends and like being alone and reading. my whole family thinks i am werid. how am i the only one who doesnt remeber this i think its a fake humour.

in school i was bullyed i blame mars in pisces too sensitve. and moon in aquarius too weriod or different.
but then in hishschool everyone was scared of me. i dont know why are there any people here who everyone was scared of.

and downtomars the funny thing is that i have jupiter in the 11th house of friends.i think its the 11th house placemnet of friends that will get people into hot water. my friends all they did was talk behind my ass i got so tired of all this ass kissing so i dont even talk to alot of them anymore. i dont have time for it really.

i have saturn uranus neptune in 5th house
and i have jupiter in cancer. leo asc

i think its also the synastry of you and persons planets that could give some insight of why they talk **** about you also.

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taurusvirgoleolady1974
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posted August 15, 2009 10:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for taurusvirgoleolady1974     Edit/Delete Message
wow, dep that is really sad. i have been there and its not a good place. however, i know personally that things can get better with your family. hugs to you!!

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posted August 15, 2009 10:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DepTaurus     Edit/Delete Message
oh i am fine they just have the problem. i really am not a family oriented person i am more family with friends then with my family. to me family cause the most problems in my life. cause family knows eveything and wont hesitate to use it against you.

friends they just leave and yu never see them again. thanks for the concern taurusvirgoleolady1974 p.s i think im the only one who uses and knows your whole user name off by heart lol.

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taurusvirgoleolady1974
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posted August 15, 2009 10:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for taurusvirgoleolady1974     Edit/Delete Message
not family oriented, oh, forgot moon in aqua! my brother and SO have that. actually have same exact birthday
if you want to, deptaurus, you can call me tvll for short, ok? thanks for that...

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posted August 15, 2009 10:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DepTaurus     Edit/Delete Message
ok TVLL i will. who has the same birthday.got confused.

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taurusvirgoleolady1974
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posted August 15, 2009 10:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for taurusvirgoleolady1974     Edit/Delete Message
my brother and SO. sorry for the confusion i noticed that myself when i went back and read.

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downtomars
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posted August 15, 2009 10:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for downtomars     Edit/Delete Message
I'm so sorry you had to go through that DepTaurus. People can be very cruel. I should be looking at the cruel people's aspects instead of the victims actually. Who will fess up to that though? Are you a slander-slinging *ss*ole? What are your aspects?, maybe one or two people would answer .

With every post, I think of another possible placement or aspect. With DepTaurus, it makes me wonder, where is Chiron? There is a lot to be said about empty houses (i'm thinking of the 11th), at least those areas don't have major issues, but with a planet there something has to pop up - good or bad!

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taurusvirgoleolady1974
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posted August 15, 2009 10:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for taurusvirgoleolady1974     Edit/Delete Message
good points, there, downtomars.
it seems no one admits to those type things. and chiron is a great thought. where is chiron in the chart.
i hate, i mean, hate chiron. i dont care what good comes from it. i still despise it.

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DepTaurus
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posted August 15, 2009 11:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DepTaurus     Edit/Delete Message
it goes both ways for everyone. especially for me yeah i have been bulllyed and had my name spread around like a toothless two dollar wh@re. But i have done the same things as people have done to me. i am defintly not ashamed of saying i have talked bad about people because i have even here i have go back to the mj thread i was a big a@@hole to most.

personally i think its hypocritcal when people say oh i have been bashed by this person and that person. and never wonder and stop have i done the same thing. own up to it you know what i mean. i have i am no saint.

as for the chiron theroy it is a b!tch i have it in cancer conjuct jupiter in the 11th meaning i have seriosu painful issues with friends.

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posted August 16, 2009 11:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message
Yep.

Jupiter/Leo

For some reason everyone thinks I used to be a stripper, some say they have seen me on stage! Nothing against strippers, but I've never been a stripper a day in my life!

I used to think this was because my job was in the public eye...
Now I just don't care, my philosphy is..."if their talkin about me, their leaving somebody else alone!"

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posted August 16, 2009 11:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for cpn_edgar_winner     Edit/Delete Message
these days i actually am kinda proud. all these years later and still they gotta talk? that means i still got it! boo-ya.

once i kissed my mom goodbye and everyone said i was cheating and making out in town with some other guy.

if i did half the stuff they said i did i would be wore out and probobly would have had more fun!!!!

dunno why everyone is always so worried about what the hell i am doing. i could give a fig what they do.

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Dee
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posted August 16, 2009 11:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dee     Edit/Delete Message
the problem with this sort of thing is that they always say these things behind someone's back And these people are never confronted about it, if they are they probably just would deny it anyway.

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posted August 16, 2009 03:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for scrappydog     Edit/Delete Message
Not sure about victim's of slander, but the biggest perpetrater of slander in know has mercury in a T square. Merc in virgo in 1st square neptune in sag in 4th and square mars in gem in 10th.

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posted August 16, 2009 04:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for stopandstare     Edit/Delete Message
i'm a jupiter in leo in the 12th house.

i haven't been a victim of slander or harsh rumors, but i do get a lot of feedback after the fact that people assume many things about me. they assume there has to be something more because of how i look. i lead a very quiet, run of the mill life. i do things and travel like everyone else, but i don't have some secret exciting life which a lot of people assume i have.

i just find it embarrassing that the stuff they assume isn't stuff i've experienced/wish i could've experienced! hahaha.

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Lara
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posted August 16, 2009 06:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
ok this is weird cos i have been a victim of slander too... at various times of my life.

I have jupiter in leo, 7th BUT sagittarius rules my 11th!

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