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posted August 20, 2009 03:04 PM         

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What about these - supposedly harsh - synastry-aspects? Does anyone have some personal experience to share about these? ARE these as scary as they seem to be?

A's Pluto opposite B's Sun

A's Venus opposite B's Venus

A's Chiron conjunct B's Sun

A's Saturn conjunct B's Sun

Would B be the "suffering" one in this relationship? It does look like a lot of "work" to do inside this relatonship ... there seems to be a "power gap" between these to people - do you agree?

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posted August 20, 2009 03:21 PM         

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hi,would give it a miss.Passion is not everything.Sounds like power battle to me,not power gap.Water and fire produce a lot of steam,which eventually evaporates. Just my 2 cents.

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posted August 20, 2009 03:23 PM         

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STARKISS: That's the impression I got, immediately.;-) More "stress" than "pleasure" ...

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posted August 20, 2009 03:52 PM         

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Depends on how steamy the steam is?? Some people enjoy having obstacles in relationships to keep things interesting and in a constant flux. All a personal preference I would imagine.

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posted August 20, 2009 04:10 PM         

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My second mirrage.
MY PLUTO OPP HIS SUN IN PISCES. I was the individual who take all the desicion.

my chiron conj his moon in pisces. I heal his soul.

my saturn conj his venus in pisces. 15 years relationship and we have strong ties between us.

It was not easy to breake off the relationship.

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posted August 20, 2009 07:29 PM         

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Popcorn,may i ask you why you split up?

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posted August 20, 2009 07:46 PM         

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Well, the 'A' person would no doubt feel like their soul's being ripped out constantly, but the sun person would probably feel accosted to an extent as well.

However, I think it really depends on what stress levels or friction each person is used to in their own natal chart...

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posted August 21, 2009 01:01 AM         

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Starkiss. Because it was not all of the aspect in the asking question.

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posted August 21, 2009 02:53 AM         

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MYVIRGOMASK especially: The Pluto-person feeling "ripped off" ... I guess this observation is right on target. In a very intense Synastry of my own, I used to be the Pluto-person, my Pluto was closely conjunct his Venus - and despite the fact that "Pluto" is said to have the upper hand, I felt extremely exhausted and "used" in a way. After all, I was the one to put an end to that relationship, though-

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posted August 21, 2009 04:11 AM         

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I dont see anything wrong with any of those aspects.. there a far worse aspects that are detrimental to relationships. Sun Chiron and Sun Saturn are nice binding aspects.. even if they are annoying you can revel in fact that they hold you together for better. Sun chiron is a linkage of trust so Ive heard.

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posted August 21, 2009 04:57 AM         

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Yes, sun/chiron is a linkage of trust in Magi

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