posted August 27, 2009 01:09 AM            

in the synastry your uranus is conj his dsc? this plays out in theory similar to a venus uranus conjunction. i'm curious how it played out initially if you can tell?

OR anyone else who has experienced this:

apparently the asc person is supposed to be unsure if uranus really will stick around so doesn't know how much to commit.. there is a venus/uranus dynamic with "love at first sight" type feeling, of course not in all just in general. and with venus uranus in general uranus seems to be the more enthralled (what ive noticed) - what do you think?

posted August 27, 2009 02:05 AM            

I know people mistrust Uranus a lot of the time, and attribute it to fleeting attraction, but I haven't really experienced the attraction as fleeting at all for me. To me it's been magnetic and all about moving very quickly and being enthralled and having a hard time pacing the thing.... and the feelings don't die out, it's just that the pacing itself is hard to get a hold on.

posted August 27, 2009 05:32 AM            

"I know people mistrust Uranus a lot of the time, and attribute it to fleeting attraction, but I haven't really experienced the attraction as fleeting at all for me. To me it's been magnetic and all about moving very quickly and being enthralled and having a hard time pacing the thing.... and the feelings don't die out, it's just that the pacing itself is hard to get a hold on."

I have found that Uranus either makes people feel uncomfortable with it's unpredictability...regardless of their feelings towards the other person...or creates circumstances that interfere w/ the relationship. I haven't found the feelings to be fleeting though.

posted August 27, 2009 05:44 AM            

We had immediate attraction to each other. It took a while for us to get together.. in fact.. the gay guy at work liked him too.. and I said.. well hopefully one of us will end up with him! haha .. the guy at work got really upset when we got together!

For me, Uranus is tricky as its my chart ruler too .. so although I like commitment and want nothing less than that I always end up with people who have strong Uranus aspects with me or to my ASC - this unfortunately brings unpredictability to my r/ships which is so frustrating!

Anyway, back to this guy! Well he worked at the same place as me but did the night shift so I only met him about twice ... but there were sparks. Ppl at work said he liked me and I eventually got the courage to send him a txt msg.... NO RESPONSE! I was like.. naww so 5 days later, I was at a family dinner around the corner from work and knew he was on shift. I went into work with an excuse of 'oh I need to see the rosters' and he immediately got them for me (I went around to his side of the restaurant too to ask for them ) and I was wearing a lovely top which he later told me he knew why I was wearing it hehhehe.. so anyway he got the rosters for me and I confronted him about not txting me back! He made up an excuse -"I didn't have any credit on my phone" which he later told me was a lie and that he just didn't know what to do with the message (I had just asked him out for a coffee!). He also said he was very attracted to me from the moment he first saw me. We had that ZAP, yes

So we finally had our first date.. I was a bit unsure, and we tried to take it slow but we couldn't help ourselves and fell madly in love within a month lol

posted August 27, 2009 05:45 AM            

Strangely enough I have a Venus opp Uranus connection with this latest guy I'm having issues with. Oh guess what! His ex GF wouldn't talk to him for two weeks when we got together! I was like huh?!? I should have known then she would contribute to our undoing. She completely and utterly had him wrapped around her little finger. What made it worse is that I was happy to meet his friends and he refused to introduce us (whether he didn't want us to meet, or she didn't want to meet me I'm not sure).

The difference between these guys was that the DC cj Uranus guy got annoyed at this girl for trying to interefere and manipulate our relationship even though they had been good friends for years. The Venus opp Uranus guy let his ex (of 10 years) manipulate the situation. He's too blind to see it though.

anyway back to DC cj Uranus guy..

We had an on/off relationship especially the first few months. Timing has always been a bit iffy with things (eg. I got together with a new guy this year just before he declared his eternal love for me and that he was about to go out and buy me an engagement ring (we were FWB not even dating!) and I was like.. well I'm moving on! I have to do this for myself) .. We broke up/got back together a lot in the first year, and our final break up was in the 3rd yr. But what amazes me is the amount of interference from my friends, his friends, our families in this relationship. Don't know if anyone else has experienced this with a Uranus cj DC? Even last week my step-dad said to me that he thinks I should get back together with him (not that its his business!) and his mum and his sister on different occasions, without even having talked to each other, both told him that they think we should get back together a few weeks ago. This is so weird. We've been broken up for 2 years.

posted August 27, 2009 06:05 AM            

I also wanted to add with respect to your thoughts, that the ASC/DC person in my case I am assuming was a bit unsure from the start, but probably because he didn't want to be hurt/rejected. This is why I think he made it hard for me to pin him down and get him to go on a date with me even though he wanted to! lol .. .but I am persistent and he liked that

Also, with venus opp uranus guy (my venus, his uranus) he was definitely more enthralled with me in the beginning, it took me a while to warm up to those lovin' feelings! lol

posted August 27, 2009 06:10 AM            

Yes the DSC person kept mentioning marriage and pushing for it for the first 6 months - we even went engagement ring shopping. This resurfaced again this year.

posted August 27, 2009 12:16 PM            

Anyway this latest guy im seeing is the youngest guy ive dated--hes about 9 months younger than me. His uranus is conjunct my uranus/saturn conjunction exactly and square my venus exactly. Most guys ive dated have been older and have their uranuses hovering around my dsc but its never as close a conjunction. This guy hasnt had a gf in 2 years and hes extrenely independent (sag sun/leo rising). The first night we hung out (which was last friday) he said he hadnt met a girl as interesting as me before. His uranus is extremely activated and its his dsc ruler.

My ex boyfriend is still kind of i the picture so i have to echo what others have said about interferences. My ex knew right away that we were going to get together (he was there the night i met him) and said "i could tell by the way he looked at you"

posted July 07, 2012 11:55 PM            

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I've noticed with the asc as well, uranus is drawn to the asc person and it tends to be a highly irregular match up, actually incorporating some of the feeling of venus uranus since it is opposed the dsc. Any thoughts/experiences with this?

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