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Topic: What's with me? Am I a lover or a luster?
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kfn327
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Registered: May 2009
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posted August 30, 2009 10:18 PM
 
I think I'm in love with several different people. Sometimes, I think I'm in love with the idea of certain people being in love with me. Is there an astrological way to sort out who I love (and who I lust) vs. who I love loving me (vs. who is just lusting over me)? I'm attached to several lovers, both ex and present. I can post my chart & each of his/her charts...IP: Logged |
kfn327
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posted August 30, 2009 10:28 PM
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kfn327
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posted August 30, 2009 10:31 PM
Edit for their privacy.IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
Knowflake Posts: 1252
From: Bay Area, CA
Registered: May 2009
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posted August 31, 2009 12:34 AM
Why do you feel a pressing need to 'pick' one person? Why not just let the process sort itself out and let time tell? If you're torn then you're obviously unsure. If you're unsure then you're definitely not committed to being with any of them. If you're not committed to any of them, then you're unsure and not ready lol.
Why not just accept that you're not ready?
It's not like it's a bad thing.
It's only bad when you pressure yourself and putting yourself in a corner.Oh, astrological reason for all of this? None... that would be an oversimplification lol. There's no magic astro key for the keyhole of your love life. I mean, there can be if you look, but again it would be an oversimplification. But I would say that transits matter right now... so what are you going through? IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
Knowflake Posts: 1252
From: Bay Area, CA
Registered: May 2009
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posted August 31, 2009 12:37 AM
...And have you ever been in a committed relationship? What was the longest one?IP: Logged |
Lara
Knowflake Posts: 1343
From: aspideronmars
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 31, 2009 06:38 AM
kfn,could it be your aries sun?  Aries are so PASSIONATE and have no fear so just dive in and want it all NOW! haha I used to lust/love after people and never be sure which one it was until really recently. Now i definitely know the difference as love hits me like a thunderbolt and lust makes me crave and slightly obsessive lol This is a great question - i wish i had asked this before my married my ex because in hindsight, it was merely lust. IP: Logged |
GypseeWind
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From: Dayton,Ohio USA
Registered: May 2009
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posted August 31, 2009 04:59 PM
and I wonder about this as well, like isn't there an expiration date on lust? If you still are experiencing heart flutters and other such things still after a certain amount of time, have you moved into love then?ehh, I've read all these articles on how to tell the difference between love and lust, and if you want to know my opinion, you cant tell until it is over, and you look back on it. And I better add this doesn't apply to spouses and long term stuff, because of course you would know that you love them, at least I hope you would! It is all very chemical, IMHO. IP: Logged |
amowls*
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From: richmond va
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 31, 2009 05:04 PM
Sun conjunct Jupiter in Aries can make you impulsive. You want everything all at once, in life and in love. IP: Logged |
Fiery_Water
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Registered: Jul 2009
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posted August 31, 2009 07:23 PM
The combo of aries - pisces in one's chart is a bit crazy in that sense.. i have the same problemSun and mood in pisces venus in aries
While venus is attracted to the short term adventure/challenge/passion and gets easily bored, combined with pisces it adds a sense of hazy vagueness with no boundaries, no definitions, and many short lasting fantasies where the feeling ends and the impatient aries wants to run out the door once the sense of piscean fantasy is gone..
It s quite a combo and i ve never been in a relaitonship for longer than 4 months! Goodluck! IP: Logged |
woah city
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posted August 31, 2009 08:52 PM
i also noticed venus in aquarius. that can be a very impersonal kind of love nature. i've dated a couple, and as an aquarian sun, my feeling is that once you've worked through that, your devotion will be stong and lasting, once you find the right person.IP: Logged |
Diana
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Registered: May 2009
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posted August 31, 2009 08:55 PM
Slightly OT, but are aries obsessive when it comes to love? Like is it normal for them to do all that typical "crazy love" almost stalking behaviour? IP: Logged |
StarrofVenusGirl
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Registered: Jun 2009
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posted August 31, 2009 09:15 PM
 4 lovers?! And I thought I was bad! Wait till Lucia sees this thread... {grabs popcorn} Seriously though, I know an Aries Sun/Pisces Moon and he is all intense/passionate just like you but it lasts for about a hot second before he is on to the next great love...at least y'all are consistent!  He has Mars in Aquarius. ------------------
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Fleurdelis
Knowflake Posts: 64
From: A symbolic tree, Earth
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 01, 2009 12:56 PM
it's the venus in aqua need for harem, coupled with your aries sun need for them all to be yours; to worship you and only you.I know someone with aries sun/ven aqua and they're the same.. in the end you'll not have any of 'em at all. IP: Logged |
Buzzorific
Knowflake Posts: 15
From: Tx, USA
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted September 01, 2009 06:13 PM
I'd be interested to see some asteroids too. Which ones? I dont' know, but asteroids always make a chart fun!Anywho, Aris sun's definetly want it all....now! Also, I am very interesed in your house placements for your venus, mars, and pluto. The aspects made to Venus and Mars are also interesting (your venus and mars are squared). As well as having your Venus-Mars Midpoint conjunct your South Node. For Pluto in the houses (look at 5th house) go to here. Don't forget to look up [url= TARGET=_blank>Venus[/URL] and Mars as well. In a nutshell, you are in love with love and intensity. I can sympathise. I have a stellum in the 8th.  My mars, venus, merc, PoF, and Vertex. Fun, fun, fun. :lol: As for your multiple lovers (past and present), I'd also take a gander at your venus-mars square. These are only my observations, btw. I'm not a professional astrologer. And yes, I do love [url=htt://cafeastrology.com/]Cafe Astrology.com</A> I need to get around to paying that wonderful lady who created that sight back for all the information she's shared! I've noticed that you have a lot of lovers with Sagg rising...I'll look into more on that later. Ciao! IP: Logged |
Buzzorific
Knowflake Posts: 15
From: Tx, USA
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted September 01, 2009 06:21 PM
Ok, for some reason my links are not working....go to cafeastrology.com and click on planets & points. LOVE that site! IP: Logged |
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