posted September 06, 2009 09:12 AM
im so sorry...that 10yr relationship seemed so sufocating...and witout love really...you did well if you werent feeling happy anymore.that guy really wasnt nourishing you or giving you true love and attention...im so sorry..10 years is so much time..but im glad that you finally ended it!
i asked all these because i thought that if you had a 10yr relationship,i thought it was a loving,caring and true love,but now i see tht it wasnt.! so,it is better that you are now open to trust and give yourself to a committed person.
if i were you i would just take things slow,really meeting him a bit better,those things
Good Luck!
Uh and im reading an excelent book:The Power of Now by Eckart tolle,it has been helping me a lot!in all areas of life,gives me new directions and new visions of Life.
if you want to take a peek.i think it will spread your horizonts and help you know always what to do!