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plutoprincess
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posted September 06, 2009 07:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for plutoprincess     Edit/Delete Message
Hello!

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plutoprincess
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posted September 06, 2009 07:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for plutoprincess     Edit/Delete Message
anybody?? Please??

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Glaucus
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posted September 06, 2009 07:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message
Sun is only part of the chart

even though his Sun in Gemini and your Sun in Pisces are incompatible signs, your Moons and Ascendants are in compatible signs

Your Moon in Scorpio and his Moon in Pisces mean that they are in the same element, and so emotional natures are similar

Your Ascendant in Scorpio and his Ascendant in Virgo are of the same gender. They are both feminine.


So 2 out of the big 3 (Sun,Moon,Ascendant) are compatible. That is something that I like to see in a synastry. I like to see at the least 2 out of the big 3 compatible.


so yeah...I believe that you two are compatible to be in a relationship that can work well.


there is more.....

Your Mercury in Aquarius and his Mercury in Gemini are compatible because they are the same gender. They are both masculine.

Your Venus in Aquarius and his Venus in Gemini are compatible because they are the same gender. They are both masculine.

Your Mars in Taurus and his Mars in Pisces are compatible because they are both of the same gender. They are both feminine.


There is strong astrological compatibility even though the sunsigns are incompatible.

I wish you two the best.

peace


Raymond

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In mythology, Eris ignited discord that led to the Trojan War.

“She causes strife by causing arguments among men, by making them think their opinions are right and everyone else’s is wrong,” Dr. Brown said. “It really is just perfect.”
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Lucia23
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posted September 06, 2009 08:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message
Aw!! Well, I wish you two cute mutables lots of love and passion!

NOTE: Everything I'm saying only applies if both birth times are exact.

The synastry? Could go either way. That Moon-Pluto conjunction in your 1st house looks really intense, could create unusually obsessive feelings in you if you got involved. Sun-Mars can be intense, too, in a different way--lots of sparring and action. I'm surprised it was a low-key platonic friendship in the past.

One thing that concerns me is that his planets are heavily falling in your sexy houses (1, 5, 7, major 8th house action), whereas your planets are hitting areas of his chart that can create more friendly or familial feelings. In some cases, that plays out as one-sided feelings in the person getting hit in the 8th house...one person might feel more lust, the other more intellectual admiration. BUT if the spark is there for both parties, that house lopsidedness can create a nice balance. My own happiest relationships have often been with people who didn't have a lot of planets in my so-called "personal" houses.

As with anyone exploring a budding relationship, I want to warn you that I think using synastry/composites/astrology this way--or even getting non-astrological outside opinions, analysis, and advice--is a bad idea. Those tools are better after it's already clear that you're both really, really into each other. Then you can use them to improve communication and deepen understanding. If you start thinking about it that way too early on, it can increase projection, obsession, and anxiety (especially deciding, "this is meant to be!!" or, "we're incompatible")...when it is better to nourish a budding romance or attraction by spending as much time in-person with the other, truly living in the present moment and letting things naturally unfold. Not that I follow my own advice as well as I should. :/

I actually think posting on LL before a relationship has bloomed is a bigger red flag than anything that could appear in synastry. It means that the poster's wishes, fantasies, and ideas about what s/he hopes or fears will happen are more important than actually letting the relationship grow and unfold. I do think it's different later on, when you are trying to create a life together and learning to work with your differences.

Overanalyzing things with friends or strangers can actually distance you from your connection and from reality in the early stages.

Just get offline and go for it! Falling in love is one of the world's best experiences. Not that I can remember it very well.

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plutoprincess
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posted September 07, 2009 05:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for plutoprincess     Edit/Delete Message
Thank you Glaucus for your insight on this. It really made me happy

Lucia, your concern is very touching.
I understand your worries, which are my worries too. the truth is i was hesistant about posting the chart,at first but it overwhelmed me at the end, especially due to older issues that I'm afraid could get in the way. Plus, as you already saw in the charts, he affects me that way :P
From what I have so far seen in this case, the spark seems to be there, but I'm very afraid of falling in love again and therefore I try to be as cautious as possible, so that I won't invest again in a lost game that will get me nowhere.

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Lucia23
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posted September 07, 2009 10:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message
I think maybe this relationship is about fulfilling your Pisces NN destiny--moving away from South Node Virgo traits (details, over-analysis, making sure things "work" and everything is in order), and toward North Node Pisces traits--loving the whole world (trees, horses, all the people, oceans, bunnies, sunlight) and feeling that there's an abundance of love to go around, that it doesn't need to stingily be meted out only when it's deserved or will pay off. Pisces NN points out that you will be way happier once you "let go" and merge with the universe. It's all about nonlinear thinking instead of a plan with a result.

With your NN conjunct his Mars, this relationship could teach you new, improved ways of taking action in the world, if you let it.

Good source for Pisces North Node:
http://northnodeastrology.blogspot.com/2008/03/pisces-north-node.html

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Soul Purpose: Transcending boundaries by bringing compassionate and imaginative awareness into everything you do. You are meant to become an explorer of the deep psyche; the unconscious in all its manifestations, and to know that you are loved unconditionally. Let go of the idea that life “is a struggle” and embrace the idea that a pleasurable life is a good life, and that you deserve the “magic of a creative life” in which your head and heart, body and soul, work as one. The phrase “Be good to yourself” is meant for you.

Natally he is so mutable, but he also has a Virgo SN of his own, and that complicated 4th house, where he might have a tough time getting clear and meeting his needs about purpose and commitment in his area of home and family. I am hoping that your shared Saturn-Neptune issues could complement each other, leading to understanding and communication (your natal 3rd house) that will reassure him on this issue. But this is a man who will not respond well to being pinned down, pressured, or subjected to any Scorpionic "tests"--those things could cause him to just drift away. OR to do the Pisces Moon thing and throw himself into the fray of undying love, then swim off later. The "slow, steady" growth of romantic feelings between you is a very good sign. If you go all Plutonic and Hades Moon on him, it will be a real strain on the relationship because his chart makes it a challenge to stay put. It sounds like maybe there is something very genuine between you, and the challenge is to let it exist and deepen.

Based on your post, I kind of take back what I said earlier--it sounds like it is already a good time to look at your synastry and use it to your advantage. Follow your North Node to happiness!!

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plutoprincess
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posted September 07, 2009 06:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for plutoprincess     Edit/Delete Message
I wholeheartedly thank you lucia!!!
I hope everything goes well

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