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scrappydog
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posted September 07, 2009 03:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for scrappydog     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Just finished a prolonged and especially BAD saturn transit to my venus in my 5th. Nothing but lonliness and heartbreak, but now it's passed and I feel I have learned some valuable lessons from it. I'm alone for the first time in my whole life, for a year now after my divorce. I'm wanting so bad to meet someone Significant, does anyone have any input on transits(not progressions)that can indicate this?? Please help if you can, anything is appreciated. This weekend transiting sun is going to be conj my venus in my 5th and transiting venus will be conj my node exactly in my 4th.

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posted September 07, 2009 03:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DD     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Personally I think transits can only signify the beginning of a relationship, if they trigger / illuminate:

- natal configurations relating to relationships

- progressed configurations

- aspects in the SR (Venus for example, or ruler of 7th house)

and even then it is just potentially.


EDIT:
probably configurations that are relating to 5th house, 7th house, ASC, MC, maybe even 8th house and the respective rulers are a good hint.

For example, if there are strong transits to your natal DESC ruler, the ruler of the 5th house in Solar return, on top of Venus and falling into some relationship houses, a relationship might become a possiblity.

But one hint is not enough, there will be an emphasis, I think.

Oh and I would also look out for the Sun-Moon, Sun-Venus or Venus-Mars-mp.

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posted September 07, 2009 03:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for popcorn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
T neptun in aspect to venus
T pluto in aspect to venus
T Jupit in aspect to venus
T chiron in aspect to venus

Exampel on transit which can make a start to a new realationship.

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posted September 07, 2009 03:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

I'd also be aware of that Ixion-Quaoar opposition that you have on your Ascendant/Descendant axis. Consider the evolutionary intensifed lessons,experiences involving your self and relationships.

I'd look at transits to that configuration.


Raymond

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“It is absolutely the perfect name,” Dr. Brown said, given the continuing discord among astronomers and the public over whether Pluto should have retained its planetary status.

In mythology, Eris ignited discord that led to the Trojan War.

“She causes strife by causing arguments among men, by making them think their opinions are right and everyone else’s is wrong,” Dr. Brown said. “It really is just perfect.”

http://www.nytimes.com/2006/09/15/science/space/15xena.html?_r=1

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posted September 07, 2009 04:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for scrappydog     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
T chiron is trine my sun pluto conj 0 deg. And I checked on my powerful transneptunian energy, I think this is why I have the dark attractions and problems with men that I do, I am so emotionally and sexually intense! I used to just think it was my scorp desc and sun conj pluto. It's a conj though Raymond, not an opp.
Dsc 13 deg 18 min scorp
Ixion 13 deg 37 min scorp
Quacar 12 deg 55 min scorp

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posted September 07, 2009 05:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I actually meant Ixion-Sedna opposition

I knew that one of the objects in the opposition was Ixion. I forgot about Sedna.

so actually Sedna-Ascendant in Taurus oppose Ixion-Quaoar-Descendant in Scorpio

so I'd look out for transits to that configuration.


also...your strong transneptunian energy on your ascendant-descendant axis doesn't have to be dark attractions. They can also be very deep,spiritual attractions too.
I think that's what the intensified evolutionary lessons,experiences are trying to push you towards.


Raymond

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“It is absolutely the perfect name,” Dr. Brown said, given the continuing discord among astronomers and the public over whether Pluto should have retained its planetary status.

In mythology, Eris ignited discord that led to the Trojan War.

“She causes strife by causing arguments among men, by making them think their opinions are right and everyone else’s is wrong,” Dr. Brown said. “It really is just perfect.”
http://www.nytimes.com/2006/09/15/science/space/15xena.html?_r=1

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posted September 07, 2009 05:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I will show you the positives and negatives of Sedna,Ixion,and Quaoar according to Philip Sedgwick.

Sedna - She is the first body to bear the mythology of the arctic's Inuit culture. Orbital Period: 11,013.05 yr.

Positive - a forgiving disposition, discernment, clarity of perception, recognition of free will and choice, responsible, conscious of consequence, far thinking, dharma-oriented, does the homework of life

Negative - victimization, abuse, being deceived, history of betrayal, bitterness, “gold digging” attitude in relationship, transfers blame to others, numbs out, goes unconscious

Quaoar: Native American deity of creation. The first object in space to bear a Native American name (not counting Hopi and Navajo, which refer to tribes). Orbital Period: 283.84 yr.

Positive - creative, inspiring, possibility oriented, uplifts sagging emotion, strong sense of self

Negative - doom saying, prophet of Armageddon, controls others with fear

Ixion: Father of the Centaurs, and not a particularly nice fellow. Orbital Period: 246.78 yr.

Positive - understands karmic wheel, gives and uses a second chance, discerning

Negative - lustful, inconsiderate, inclined to repeat errors, learns nothing from experience
http://www.philipsedgwick.com/


my Sun-Quaoar-Ixion in Scorpio oppose retrograde Sedna in Taurus, and my Moon in Pisces trines the Sun-Quaoar-Ixion and sextiles Sedna. I definitely prefer the deep,spiritually oriented type of women. I think that my Moon sextile Sedna alone indicates my attraction to women with that soft,gentle,ethereal quality about them.


Raymond

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“It is absolutely the perfect name,” Dr. Brown said, given the continuing discord among astronomers and the public over whether Pluto should have retained its planetary status.

In mythology, Eris ignited discord that led to the Trojan War.

“She causes strife by causing arguments among men, by making them think their opinions are right and everyone else’s is wrong,” Dr. Brown said. “It really is just perfect.”
http://www.nytimes.com/2006/09/15/science/space/15xena.html?_r=1

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posted September 07, 2009 05:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for scrappydog     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok wow, didn't even know I had sedna on the asc. So actually I must have sedna conj chiron both conj asc, opp ixion and quo conj desc. Wheew! This is getting confusing, and yes Raymond I think your right, I'm looking for the deepest, most profound and intense love. Completely unconditional, a true soul mate that completes me and erases all desire in me for another forever. When in love I'm such a unconditionally giving and tolerant person. If I'm on this level love/relationship wise, then why do I continually attract abusive, selfish, dishonest men who do nothing but hurt me??

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posted September 07, 2009 06:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's because you're being challenged to be more discerning so you can pick the right partner.

discernment is listed as positive trait for both Ixion and Sedna

strong sense of self is listed as a positive trait for Quaoar.

the abusive and deceptive men that victimize you that fits with Sedna. abuse,deception, and victimization are some of the negative keywords for Sedna.
If you partners that abuse you, then they controlled you by fear. Control by fear is one of the negative keywords for Quaoar. If men were also the men that focused on sex too much,lusty,and cheating on you to the point even trying to get it on with other men's partners, then that fits right in with Ixion. Lustful is one of the negative keywords for Ixion. You obviously had inconsiderate partners that didn't learn from experience. Lustful,inconsiderate,and not learning from experience are some of the negative keywords for Ixion.

You're attracting men that are of the negative traits of Sedna,Ixion,and Quaoar. Because these are evolutionary intensified objects, you getting badly hurt by these men to the point that you can feel very damaged. The main thing is that your life can be greatly altered but in a negative way by those men in your life.

I do believe that deep,spiritually oriented partners would probably be best for you. That's different from having a deep,spiritual connection with somebody.

Of course, recognizing your own deep,spiritually oriented nature could help you in finding a partner that is that way too.


but yeah.....concentrate on attracting men with the positive traits of the transneptunians, and then you will draw in those types of men.

I think the law of attraction is actually an important concept especially in the case of highly transneptunian people like you and me.


Raymond

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“It is absolutely the perfect name,” Dr. Brown said, given the continuing discord among astronomers and the public over whether Pluto should have retained its planetary status.

In mythology, Eris ignited discord that led to the Trojan War.

“She causes strife by causing arguments among men, by making them think their opinions are right and everyone else’s is wrong,” Dr. Brown said. “It really is just perfect.”
http://www.nytimes.com/2006/09/15/science/space/15xena.html?_r=1

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posted September 07, 2009 06:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for scrappydog     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes I am a very bitter and damaged human being, I was also sexually abused at 11 years old. How would nessuss square the sun 0 deg be interpreted? I've heard nessuss mentioned with violence and even serial killers by someone on here.

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Lara
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posted September 07, 2009 06:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
I'm looking for the deepest, most profound and intense love. Completely unconditional, a true soul mate that completes me and erases all desire in me for another forever. When in love I'm such a unconditionally giving and tolerant person. If I'm on this level love/relationship wise, then why do I continually attract abusive, selfish, dishonest men who do nothing but hurt me??

Scrappy, i TOTALLY dig your words... i am the same. Well i used to be and then i did shedloads of work on ME, dated a few more men who were conduit sign posts and then in April this year i finally said "i give up! I'm going to concentrate on my kids and my home life".

BANG! 3 months later i bumped into a friend on FB who i have known for 4 years and he ticked every box i have ever wanted... so far

Finally, an unconditional man who is emotionally mature.

YES!

So stick with it girl xx

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posted September 07, 2009 06:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Sun square Nessus could fit in with the sexual abuse


according to Philip Sedgwick

Nessus: Ferryman at the River Evenus. Orbital Period: 120.76 yr.

Positive - generous, benevolent, compassionate, willing to lend a helping hand, cooperative, respectful of boundaries, aware of the power of life force energy, healthy use of sexual energy

Negative - coveting, possessive, jealous, vengeful, manipulative, resorting to negative alchemy for personal gain, negative use of sexual energy

as you see, negative use of sexual energy ,possessive,manipulative are some of the keywords for Nessus

with Sun square Nessus, you have to avoid men with the negative traits

you can go for men with the positive Nessus traits like generous,benevolent,willing to lend a helping hand,healthy use of sexual energy.


Raymond

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“It is absolutely the perfect name,” Dr. Brown said, given the continuing discord among astronomers and the public over whether Pluto should have retained its planetary status.

In mythology, Eris ignited discord that led to the Trojan War.

“She causes strife by causing arguments among men, by making them think their opinions are right and everyone else’s is wrong,” Dr. Brown said. “It really is just perfect.”

http://www.nytimes.com/2006/09/15/science/space/15xena.html?_r=1

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posted September 07, 2009 06:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Raymond,

Can i ask what Nessus exact conjunct AC would mean please?

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posted September 07, 2009 07:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"Can i ask what Nessus exact conjunct AC would mean please?"

That means that you have a Nessus type of personality,persona. You also could have Nessus partners,relationships with Nessus oppose DC.

so you can aim for the positive traits of Nessus like being benevolent,compassionate, helpful,positive use of sexual energy,compassionate in yourself and your partners

and have to avoid the negative use of sexual energy,possessive,jealous,manipulative in your self and partners

Raymond

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“It is absolutely the perfect name,” Dr. Brown said, given the continuing discord among astronomers and the public over whether Pluto should have retained its planetary status.

In mythology, Eris ignited discord that led to the Trojan War.

“She causes strife by causing arguments among men, by making them think their opinions are right and everyone else’s is wrong,” Dr. Brown said. “It really is just perfect.”

http://www.nytimes.com/2006/09/15/science/space/15xena.html?_r=1

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posted September 07, 2009 07:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for popcorn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Glaucus. Sedna, Ixion, Quaoar are so super slow. The only one are Sedna as aspect my jupiter in 2 year. No one of these planets aspect the planet or axis in my chart as long as i live.

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posted September 07, 2009 09:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
popcorn,

I am confused by what you said.

also Ixion and Quaoar aren't what I would call super slow.

Ixion orbits a year faster than Pluto. It's a plutino for it has 3:2 orbital resonance with Neptune like Pluto. That means for every 3 times Neptune orbits the Sun, Pluto and plutinos orbits the Sun twice.

Quaoar is a classical kuiper belt object aka cubewano orbit beyond Pluto and the plutinos,and it is not much slower than Pluto. It is not more than 50 years slower than Pluto.


Sedna with its 10,500 yr orbit would be considered super slow.


another thing

I was referring to scrappydog's natal Ixion,Quaoar,and Sedna in aspect to her Ascendant/Descendant axis.
I was telling her to be aware of transiting planets that aspect that configuration.

I wasn't talking about transiting Ixion,Quaoar,Sedna.

Raymond


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“It is absolutely the perfect name,” Dr. Brown said, given the continuing discord among astronomers and the public over whether Pluto should have retained its planetary status.

In mythology, Eris ignited discord that led to the Trojan War.

“She causes strife by causing arguments among men, by making them think their opinions are right and everyone else’s is wrong,” Dr. Brown said. “It really is just perfect.”
http://www.nytimes.com/2006/09/15/science/space/15xena.html?_r=1

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posted September 07, 2009 09:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for popcorn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok.Sorry I take a new look. Ixion I have in aspect opposite my venus about 15 year when I am around 60 . The other one Qu.. when I am around 55 . Its not so far away...
I am now 45. Much love in my life

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posted September 07, 2009 09:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for scrappydog     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anyone have any stories to share about their transits when they met their signifigant other??

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posted September 07, 2009 10:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for popcorn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes. When I meet one big love in my life. Transit Pluto trine venus. We been togheter in 15 year.
In the same period I also have.
My sec progress venus trine neptunus and my sec mars trine neptunus
My sec progr venus conj my sec progr mars

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posted September 07, 2009 11:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When I met a guy I ended up having a really, really intense mutual attraction with, but we never got together, and then years later we confessed our love, I had:
-tMars in my 5th house
-tJupiter in my 7th conjunct my Venus
-tVenus in my 8th conjunct my Sun
-tSun-Merc in my 8th conjunct my Mars
-tNeptune on my Ascendent

When my ex and I first hooked up/became a couple (we had been friends/interested before), tJupiter Retro was exactly conjunct my natal Pluto. I think that's very significant because my Pluto is square my ASC, and also square my Moon-Saturn-DC, so this transit triggered a very meaningful and intense dynamic in my natal chart. (We stayed together almost 15 years, we're still close, and I am still struggling to REALLY break away.) Also, as a person with Jupiter Retrograde natally, I notice that amazing things happen in my life when Jupiter goes retro.

When I first met my ex, tMars was in my 6th house, widely conjunct my DC. And when I met the guy I have a crush on now, tMars was in my 6th, widely conjunct my DC too...but we're not in a relationship.

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posted September 08, 2009 11:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mir     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Funny enough when I met a signifigant other Venus was at 19 degr. Aqua (25 dec. '08) exactly conjunction both our Mars.
I wasn't interested at all in astrology at that time but figured it out later.

I never looked at Nessus but yesterday I did. I have to admit: wow!!
This signifigant other has his Nessus exactly on my ascendant/Mercure conjunction.
I always wondered why there was no connection between his chart and my asc/merc. but now I can see, and HOW! It describes totally the theme that holds us together.
I also have a history of abuse behind me and he is the first I won't have to tell but just have to experience this new way of intimacy. It's like I'm taking back to the first intimate steps, like I'm 18 years old again. This really feels like HEALING.....
(but isn't always easy!)

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posted September 08, 2009 11:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mir     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh yes: My nessus is exactly conjunction his Chiron...

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posted September 08, 2009 01:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
With my longest relationship, my Ixion-Quaoar-MC were conjunct his Ixion-Quaoar-AC...my Sedna-IC were conjunct his Sedna-DC.

And hey, this is fascinating--the tMars in my 6th house widely conjuncting my DC that seems to be around every time I meet someone romantically significant? Well, it turns out my Nessus is right there in my 6th at 29 Gemini...so every time I've met someone significant, I have had transiting Mars conjunct my natal Nessus.

I am always attracted to men who have planets conjunct my MC, much more than anyone who hits my AC-DC axis...now that I see that Ixion and Quaoar are in my 10th, widely conjunct my MC, that makes things extra interesting.

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posted September 08, 2009 01:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Outer planets on Venus. Outer planets on your 7th house ruler.

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