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posted September 07, 2009 07:13 PM         

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We know Sun/ Moon aspects to Mars can be really hot

So which one would you prefer in a relationship-if you had to choose ?

Is it like- would you prefer emotional sex or selfish/ego sex ?

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posted September 07, 2009 07:26 PM         

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I wouldn't mind my Mars in Aquarius conjunct a woman's Sun in Aquarius because it can be good for being passionate. I think that it would be good for advocating for causes togegether

as for my Mars conjunct a woman's moon. well....that would mean her would be in Aquarius. I wouldn't do well with a Moon in Aquarius.

I wouldn't want a woman's Mars conjunct my Moon in Pisces in 6th because then it would be squaring my retrograde Saturn and my Jupiter-Neptune in Sagittarius in 3rd. That's because of my t-square.

Her Mars conjunct my Sun in Scorpio would be good....with her Mars in Scorpio trining my Moon. There is passion, but also more ease and harmony in how passions effect me.

Raymond

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posted September 07, 2009 07:27 PM         

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Both are hot in synastry. I think there's more 'ego' and aggression involved to Sun/Mars - those are both 'hard' planets/luminaries hitting each other, so it's hotter I think (depends on what you like)...if not just more active/out there.
Moon/Mars is also hot....soft moon/hard Mars...yeah, I've had this. But at times the moon might feel assaulted somehow, because Mars might be considered aggressive. Still, it's sexy as hell.

Sometimes what sounds good in theory (synastry aspects) doesn't translate well in 'real life'. I prefer Moon/Mars in theory, but I've had more luck with Mars/Sun, and I prefer it. Maybe because my own Mars is pretty strong, and needs something to 'stand up to'...and the energy of a strong sun is nice, not liking to get pushed around, but pushes right back
I'll even take the square with Sun/Mars. If both people like that friction and that kind of energy, then it's fine.
It's all about what works for you

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posted September 07, 2009 07:31 PM         

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I also don't think it's necessarily true to equate Moon/Mars with emotional and Mars/Sun with ego.... because there's other stuff going on in a chart, and even with Mars/Sun, there might be other stuff going on, like maybe Venus/Sun, or Venus/Moon, you know?
It's just about one combination of energy being more confrontational or visible than another... doesn't mean it's more 'ego'-oriented.

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posted September 07, 2009 07:40 PM         

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sun square mars is a little much for me

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posted September 07, 2009 08:09 PM         

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Is it hot?

I have this with someone I have not been with. His mars conjunct my moon and venus. His sun square my mars.

We also have venus trine pluto, but it's wide -- 6 degree orb.

I want to hear more about it....

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posted September 07, 2009 08:17 PM         

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my moon opposes someone's mars 3'

is that considered HOT or just irritating for the moon person?

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posted September 07, 2009 08:35 PM         

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I think it depends on your moon and what it likes, Lara ... Aries moon is a strong moon! It can take the Mars action. Me, I don't like it though because my Moon is in the 12th. I can take soft contacts on it, but hard stuff is super-sensitive.

I've got my Mars + Venus square someone's sun now (and his Mars and Venus trine my Sun), Mars conjunct Mars, and my Pluto trine his Sun and Venus ... hotness. I think I have to keep my Mars in check with the square to his sun (though he does have it in his own chart). It's very easy for my Mars to take over, esp with it being part of a T-square with my Venus and Jupiter.
I think in general this aspect is hot though, and sexy.
I've read that it's Mars that is the 'final authority' on what happens with the Sun...Mars being the one that dictates 'what to do' with the aspect. I think the Sun person, if they're not familiar with the energy, might even be intimidated if it's a very strong Mars on a somewhat meek Sun. But the sexual attraction would be there, I feel.
And I think there's also a level of competition between the two, and a power struggle if things aren't kept in check. Still, there's a good place where it's good to have those kind of tussles....
I think Mars and Mercury for instance is more annoying in a way. I had a Mars/Moon square with an ex (along with Mercury...)...and it felt more of like an assault on my 12th house Moon.

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posted September 07, 2009 08:55 PM         

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I think gender might be worth considering too here, or at least how comfortable YOU are with being put in the position of that planet. I've found that when I'm the Mars in a Moon/Mars synastry conjunction, I'm not so into it and tend to perceive the male Moon as weak and fragile and incapable of "handling" me so to speak. The other way around (me as Moon, him as Mars) was much more attractive to me. Even though he wasn't technically my type I was really attracted to him and how forward he was. Sometimes it felt a little overly aggressive and selfishly motivated on his part but it was a casual kind of relationship so I didn't think much of it at the time. Not sure how it might play out over the long term though...would be interested in others thoughts on this.

With Sun/Mars, at least hard aspects, I find them a bit tough...not unbearable though. As a woman, when a man's Sun conjuncts my Mars, its great because they seem ideal to me in terms of what I hope for in a guy. I've actually found these aspects really active and cooperative. Not much ego drama. I've experienced an opposition though, where I was the Mars and ALL I wanted to do was knock the Sun guy off his high horse. That aspect did feel very combatative. The soft aspects I've found are great, not in a way that you necessarily notice right out but you seem to butt heads less.

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posted September 07, 2009 11:33 PM         

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I think both Moon-Mars and Sun-Mars conjunctions can be more tense/irritating/volatile than hot.

Give me a guy whose Jupiter is all over my chart and vice-versa, and I'll be happy.

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posted September 08, 2009 12:17 AM         

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Mars/Sun is very harsh aspect. I had a guy I was in love with Mars sq my Sun, and he drove me batty. His actions always irritated me, and he seemed like he was constantly trying to change me. He turned me on a lot, but I couldnt stand being around him for too long because he seemed so whiny, SELFISH, and difficult.
Moon/mars...Someone's Mars opposed my moon, but luckily his mars is in a passive aggressive sign, and he was passive aggressive in general, and found him to be.....totally oblivious to my feelings, even if he wasnt really being a dick...like the saying goes, "its not what you say, but how you say it" really applied here. Chemistry was an understatement when it came to him.

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posted September 08, 2009 12:58 AM         

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Writesomething, I think the square can be equally challenging and irritating with Moon/Mars. I had this with an ex--I was the Mars person--and it kind of sounds like what you're describing with your whiny, annoying ex...only, I was the Mars person. Selfish, difficult, and wanting to change him. And in my Virgo Mars head, I framed it as, "I want him to prove that he really likes/loves me by changing!!" But the truth was that if *I* had liked/loved HIM enough, I wouldn't have been whiny, selfish, and difficult enough to be all on his ass about everything. To make it more fun, his Moon is in his 8th and my Mars is in my 8th.

Mars is all about action. It needs somewhere to GO. And so when it can't ram headlong into the planet it's interested in (as in a square to someone's Sun/Moon...it keeps ramming into the big cement structure blocking off real contact), it gets MAD.

We were really really turned on by each other at the beginning though.

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posted September 08, 2009 01:08 AM         

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I still think it depends on what your own chart 'likes'. Aspects are so 'subjective', you know?

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posted September 08, 2009 01:13 AM         

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my progressed moon oppose his natal mars
his progressed moon conjunt my natal mars

Emotional territorialism...or defenciveness. Arguements that are blown out of proportion FAST, and we're both in tears within minutes. We go from "I hate you! You're horrible" to "I love you, I don't want to lose you"...in the same sentance sometimes. It's painfull, and makes one feel quite vulnerable, but at the same time, it's enriching to the relationship (and the sex) somehow. It's intense to say the least, but it's not for everyone. It could leave one with some battle scars, the mars/moon aspects.

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posted September 08, 2009 01:51 AM         

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My Mars conjunct his nMars/Moon conjunction
His Mars squares my nMoon/Mars square
His Mars/Moon also sextiles my Sun

It's a very emotionally-sexual charged connection.

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posted September 08, 2009 02:08 PM         

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I'm a female who's been in 1 past relationship where my sag mars in my 7th was conjunct his sun and now in a present 1 with the same. Not only a lot of sexual attraction, but excitment and stimulation too! Which being a wild girl I can't get enough of, but for a tamer person I can see how it could be "too much".

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posted September 08, 2009 02:52 PM         

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Depends on the aspect. Moon/Mars is great but if its a square or opposition it can make being around each other emotionally hurtful. Sun/Mars hard aspect just creates an annoyance but it doesn't hurt deep.

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